There is a guy I like his name is PJ but Im not sure If he likes me.WE hang out together we share snacks we are both afraid to go off the highdive and we always want to sit next to eachother are we better off as friends or should I start flirting more??
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? FrEe2bMe answered Tuesday June 22 2004, 11:12 pm: This is kind of a hard postion to be in because you don't want to like flirt too much and scare him off and lose a good friend. I'd say though from what you have said, that he MAY be interested and you'll never know if y'all are better off as friends until you give it a chance. I wouldn't like totally come on to him, but you can say flirty things to him to kind of get the idea across..like you could say JOKINGLY (but really to you its sincere) PJ ur the bestest boyfriend ever!! and if he's totally weirded out oyu can be like ya you're a boy and you're my friend! duh! You can just say playful stuff like that..that way he'll get the idea..but if you see that he's totally not interested then cool it! :) [ FrEe2bMe's advice column | Ask FrEe2bMe A Question ]
cutelilbabers answered Tuesday June 22 2004, 11:03 pm: well just bc u guys have alot in common doesnt mean u shoud go out. try flirting alittle and if he flirts back then maybe he has feelings for u. dont over do it, that way it wont get weird and if nothing happens u 2 will still be good friends. alot of times guys flirt on accident. like when a guy hugs a girl sumtimes its just a firnedly hug but to us girls it likes " omg he likes me" so just be carful and im sure everything will be great!! good luck
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sp4rklingr4in answered Tuesday June 22 2004, 6:42 pm: I have always believed that it's best to stay friends with guys because if you two do get hooked up and you go out, chances are that you will break up. Then in most cases you won't be friends anymore even if you say that you will be. I would just keep things steady with your friend PJ and maybe wait it out a few more years to either make sure that he's the guy for you or if he's not the guy for you. Give it time. [ sp4rklingr4in's advice column | Ask sp4rklingr4in A Question ]
SexyHal answered Tuesday June 22 2004, 4:04 pm: If u feel that you like this guy then flirt all you can while you have a chance maybe he will feel the same way you do. Hope I helped.
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Redheadedgal answered Tuesday June 22 2004, 3:07 pm: If you like him, go for it. When you get older you are gonna regret those little things you didn't do then the ones you did. What is the worst thing that can happen? He might not like you and it will scare him away but you can still maintain your friendship, which is better than nothing. Good luck! [ Redheadedgal's advice column | Ask Redheadedgal A Question ]
TheBeav answered Tuesday June 22 2004, 1:38 pm: Trying flirting alittle bit more and see what kind of reaction you get. If he flirts back... continue flirting and see where things go. If not, then back off and try being just his friend. [ TheBeav's advice column | Ask TheBeav A Question ]
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