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she's still having sex with him!
one of my really good friends (shes 14) has been having sex with this one guy for over a year now. she used to be going out with the guy, and not she's not, but she's still having sex with him. she's been hurt before because of this guy, and i just don't want her to get hurt again or get into a bad situation. she has b.c. but sometimes forgets to take it and doesn't read the instructions on how to make up for lost pills. i don't want her to mess up her life at such a young age. any advice on the topic would be great. thx.
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talk to her. maybe occupy some of her time allow her to see you can have more fun without sex. introduce her to good guys that will show her how to have fun at your age without doing grown up things.
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That's really tough.
Try to talk to her, tell her how concern you are. I'm sure she'll appreciate how caring you are!
Sometimes there isn't anything you really can do though. Just be there for her like you are.
As for the birth control, sometimes it is hard for people to remember to take it. Because to make sure its full effective you've got to take it everyday, the same time everyday. It's tough. Just talk to her. I wish you luck!
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you really need to tell her that she is way to young to be having sex and needs to stop you are a great friend to be worries about her but you really need to make her stop and also talk to the guy and tell him if he keeps having sex with her then he might get in some really deep shit that he cant get his ass out of! and tell her the same thing! hope this works good luck!
*~*Crystal*~*
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you have to tell her. just walk up and tell her. she has to know that you care. and if you care enough about her (you do, otherwise you wouldn't ask this question) you'll do something about it. even if you have to "tell on her" she might be mad at you for a little while, but she'll forgive you. she'll be happy someday (if she stops) that you talked to her, and asked her to stop. tell her parents, tell a teacher, anyone who will do something to help her stop.
~accolade~
:)rate me please!
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Talk to her and tell her you are extremely worried and you dont want her to mess up her life at such a young age and you want to know whats going on and where shes going in life-trix
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Have you told her your concern directly yet?
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Awww! That is so sweet of you to look our for her and care about her! She is so lucky to have a friend like you! Hehe. I think anything you can think of to do for her would be best. Maybe talking might help. You could maybe just her yuor opinions on this. Like how you care about her and what this guy has done to her before maybe it's not best to still have sex when they aren't together because it could really hurt her. * Hey, i'm sorry I have to go real quick, I promise I will finish this when I get back! Haha*
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Holy cow. She is too young for this stuff at all. Have you confronted your friend about how her life would be over if she had a child? No mall, no prom, no anything? If she wants attention, this isn't the way to get it. She could possibly be taken advantage of from this guy. If you can redirect her attention to other things, it would help. If there is any possible way you could tell someone you both trust, I would say so. This is too much too soon. I wish I had all of the answers. I am praying for you both.
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i have a friend kinda like that and i kno how you feel just try to talk to her and tell her how you feel and figure out if she even likes the guy just tell her whats on your mind. itll be ok. hope i helped
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