I'm often the one my friends go to for advice and I can usually help them decide what to do.
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there this guy who really likes me. he follows me home and offers me rides home and gives me gifts for no reason. he ask me out and i said no. now he likes a girl who disses him. so now he is even worse. what should i do? (link)
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At least you've got him off your shoulders. It's not your responsibility to worry about him, it doesn't even sound like your friends. It's his life; let him live it how he wants.
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does anyone know of a store that i could get movie and tv posters from? also, about how much would they cost?
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I've seen them at Wal-Mart pretty cheaply.
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Look no further, this is real.
I express the way I feel.
I am proud that I am me.
I am what I want to be.
I feel used; I feel alone.
I feel upset; I want to groan.
I feel hurt; I feel deprived.
I feel angry; I hate lies.
I feel hunger; I feel pain.
I feel like I have gone insane.
I feel happy, I’m all smiles.
At least for just a little while,
I put my true feelings away
To face another lonely day.
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=( I'm sorry. Hope you feel better soon.
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I find myself uttering "I hate you Peter Smith" (my ex boyfriend who dated me 5 years and broke up...not his real name). Am I nuts? Do I have a version of Tourette's Syndrome? Because I will say and see these things when I am doing nothing in particular. Its not all the time, but it freaks me out.
I told my current beau not to wig when I say that, and that it happens. In fact, I am usually alone when these things happen. It doesn't bother me functionally, but it is unnerving. (link)
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If what you mean is that you're saying it and you have no control over it, you should definately see someone about it to help you resolve it, sounds sorta scary.
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one of my really good friends (shes 14) has been having sex with this one guy for over a year now. she used to be going out with the guy, and not she's not, but she's still having sex with him. she's been hurt before because of this guy, and i just don't want her to get hurt again or get into a bad situation. she has b.c. but sometimes forgets to take it and doesn't read the instructions on how to make up for lost pills. i don't want her to mess up her life at such a young age. any advice on the topic would be great. thx. (link)
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Have you told her your concern directly yet?
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ok im the girl who had a problem with a guy being....obsessive about my butt. well i hit his hand away and stuff like that did everything that u guys tld me to. i even told on him about i guess sexual harrassment because i was in spanish and we were taking siestas and he came and layed on me. well none of the teachers see it cus hes "slick" so they wont do anything about it. i dont want to go like file a suit and sue him but like i do want him to stop. hes going to my hs so i figured he'd stop because there will b plenty other girls for him to....run after. but i want to kno wut i should do about the school not helping me. (link)
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That's a toughie, if you did it by yourself, (I mean told on him), it means less to them than if you have another adult to back you up--if you haven't tried that yet it's worth a shot.
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in 2 weeks i am going to visit my friend on the east coast and i haven't seen him for 9 years. i want him to think i look pretty good but i have really low self confidence and that makes me feel ugly even tho i kno im not. so is there anyway i can kinda build self esteem by the end of the month? i just want to feel confident. (link)
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I'm the same way, in fact I've got a similar situation...And what really helps me is 2 pamper myself and make my hair look nice and wear makeup and do stuff I'm really good at. I don't know if it would work for you, everyone's different, but it's worth a shot.
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Ok I have an advise column on here. I try my best to answer questions and i think i do pretty well from my ratings. But some people are being very cruel and sending me things that say stuff like: I have a problem, i cant stop thinking about __my name__.... and HOW I CANT GET HER OFF THIS PLANET. and stuff like that.. and they tell me how much they hate me!!!! WHAT DO I DO?!?! I dont want anyone to hate me or anyyyyything like that! I dont have bad feelings about anyone i know... i just dont understand why people would hate me!!! ahh (link)
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Often people hate other people because they are jealous, but even more often because they have nothing better to do with their lives. Hate is not a good feeling, and it's hurting them more than you. Also, you can't have everyone like you, it's just not fathomable. It is possibly even just this one person sending all these nasty comments, also, and it sounds to me like more people like you than don't, and that's pretty good. Don't worry yourself over it, that's just giving them what they want.
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My bf has this friend brit and i am almost positive she likes him and like he asked me would you be mad if i saw a girl in a swimsuit and she was biking and i was to and i went up to talk to her? and i said umm no..? and he said o cuz i saw brit. and another time he went to her house and he is like brit wants us to go over to her house 8 or 9 in the morning but he didnt go so thats good. idk she is just prettier then me and skinnier then me .. thats when we sorta got in a bad situation i told him i thought i didnt meet up to his standards and he said in otherwards you think you arent good enough for me? and i said yeah and he said well if anything your to good for me but that was awhile ago .. so what should i do or even tell him?! we communicate just fine.. we see eachother alot... so im guess im not completely worried about it all but brit.. thats what im worried about..
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You should confront him, no question about it.
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to start..im 17! i feel so different from my family...im the youngest of 4!! i just dont wanna be around them anymore..my friends even tell me im wayyyy different from them!! i get sooo aggrivated with them over nothing! i really dont know what to do! i want to move out...im trying to save money but im between jobs now!:-/ (link)
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It sounds like you'd get along a lot better with them if you moved out--it might jsut be having to be around them too much, not actually THEM that aggravates you. I think you should move out or at least try to be seperate from them more often, maybe if your room is in the center of the house find somewhere more private, or speelover friends more often, or whatever.
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I like this guy alot, and he's my friends neighbor there no problem. we both flirtall the time (anthony and me). its just that at sometimes he'll go i don like you what are you doen here but he'll say it sarcasticly. and then at other times he'llplay footsie with me. i like him alot. but idk wheter should i confront him, or just keep things the way they are. i see him alot during the summer so that wouldnt b a problem.and hes a grade aahead of me idk if that might be the problemt too. please help (link)
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I wouln't worry too much about the whole switching between bein sarcastic and playin footsies thing--TONS of guys do that and usually it's when they like a girl. If you're gonna confront him about something, confront him about going out with you.
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