there this guy who really likes me. he follows me home and offers me rides home and gives me gifts for no reason. he ask me out and i said no. now he likes a girl who disses him. so now he is even worse. what should i do?
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? BlueEyedBlondie725 answered Sunday July 11 2004, 1:59 am: Even though you don't like him like that tell him the girl that he likes disses him. And make sure he knows you guys are JUST friends lol so he doesn't think you're getting jealous or something. Just be like "I like you as a friend, nothing more so its nothing about jealousy, but that girl you like, I don't think you should like her because she disses you" Tell him something like that and be nice about it. I hope that helps!
HollyAnn2282 answered Saturday July 10 2004, 12:47 am: I think that you should tell him that you do want to be friends with him and tell him that the girl that disses him doesnt deserve him liking her, and that he should get better! just be nice to him and tell him straight up
-holly-
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LuckyMe173 answered Friday July 9 2004, 10:26 pm: sounds like a stalker to me babe! haha! no im just kidding.. i think that if hes low enough to go for a girl who disses and/or dissed him then he's too low for ur standards! keep ur head held high.. and find a new man! this kids not worth it! but like always be nice about it.. let him know that while hes not ur type.. theres plenty of other girls.. good luck girl! xo Lindsey [ LuckyMe173's advice column | Ask LuckyMe173 A Question ]
Candy_09 answered Friday July 9 2004, 9:54 pm: At least you've got him off your shoulders. It's not your responsibility to worry about him, it doesn't even sound like your friends. It's his life; let him live it how he wants. [ Candy_09's advice column | Ask Candy_09 A Question ]
Roxybabii922 answered Friday July 9 2004, 7:46 pm: Tell him that he can do better than someone who disses him all the time, tell him that you'd rather be friends with him obviously because you said no, and let him know that he definitely deserves better... [ Roxybabii922's advice column | Ask Roxybabii922 A Question ]
storageanddisposal answered Friday July 9 2004, 7:25 pm: I really don't think you should do anything, but if you feel you must, tell him what you think of her. If you tell him, you may come off as jealous of the attention he gives her. If this happens, he'll fall into the same place and start thinking about you more. It doesn't sound like you want that considering you turned him down when he asked. What does she do to him? does she make fun of him or talk about him behind his back? If she's talking to him behind his back, I would tell him. If he really didn't like the way she treated him, then he would probably stop paying attention to her. Truthfully, I doubt there's anything you could do to make him stop liking her. No one can chose who they like, so I don't think any outside parties can either. [ storageanddisposal's advice column | Ask storageanddisposal A Question ]
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