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which guy do i choose? my boyfriend.. or the other guy?
I'm stuck between two guys.. I don't know which one to choose even tho I already go out with one of them. Before I started going out with boy 1, my friend introduced me to boy 2 and things were going great. Then, I went to hershey park with boy 1 (and the rest of my school) and we hit it off! we went of every ride together and he was being such a sweetheart (and still is) and we cuddled the whole ride home! After that, we started going out. The day after we started going out I left for soccer camp and the beach, so I was gone for 2 weeks. When i came back I was hanging out with boy 1 alot and everything was going great... and then I saw boy 2 the other day at the pool.. and OMG he looked so cute! I've started talking to boy 2 a lot now.. i still talk to boy 1 a lot tho.. I'm confused about who i like more tho. I really like my boyfriend, but then i remember that if i hadnt started going out with him I'd be going out with boy 2. boy 2 still has feelings for me.. he was asking about me while i was gone and i do like him too. Boy 2 is also a year older than me, not that it makes a difference. but i like that he's older.. and its not like he's some older badboy, he's a nice guy. I'm just not sure if i should stick with my boyfriend for the summer, or break up with him and be single for the rest of the summer so i can have both, or stay with him and just flirt with boy 2 still? HELP ME!
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Ok I have been in this problem and it isn't a very fun choice! But I chose to stay with the boy I was with. Bc he obviously loves you and wants to be with you or he wouldn't I mean if you guys hit it off let it go until it dies. Bc you will miss him a lot when he is gone! and you will blame yourself for liking the other guy! the best thing I can tell you is that let the love you and boy #1 have right now stay bc I lost my boy and now I don't even like the other guy! if you have doubt about brekain up with someone DON'T DO IT! Also you shouldn't flirt bc it will hurt boy #1 You wouldnt like it very much if he flirted with other girls! Just let life take you one step at a time don't force anything bc it isnt worth it in the end! if you need any more advice just hit me up I'm always willing to help someone out!
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ok well first off Do you really think its fair to your boyfriend that you also like another guy and flirt with him and stuff? Put you in his shoes, would you like it? I think its time for you guys to have a break... maybe not for good just until you get your feelings sorted out. Just have fun but not with both! Dont play them ya know! And to figure out who you should be with step back from the problem and look at them both compair them and figure out the things that they each can bring to a relationship with you and go with the one that can bring more. Good luck figuring this stuff out.
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Hey,
Ok. I didnt read the hole thing because it does not mater! You, and any1 eles should always go with the one they love the most. I dont care if youve been with someone all your live. choose the one you love more!!!!!
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You don't have to be with someone. If you don't know which one to go with, NEITHER is right, so be with no one. It's not that bad, and it's much better than choosing one and being with the wrong person. So just sit back, relax, and try not to let it bother you, because you may want to be with them, but if you don't want to be with One more than anyone else, it's not worth the trouble.
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Im sorry but to me it sounds like you are playing boy # 1 it sounds as if you dont love him as much as you love boy # 2 so i think that you should talk to both of them and which ever one is more of a boyfriend type to you then go out with that one .... the way you wrote it to me sounds like you like boy # 2
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I think you should break up with Boy 1 because you don't want to flirt behind his back do you? Because what happens if Boy 1 finds out you're flirting with someone else? Just tell Boy 1 that you think you guys should be friends for now. And then you can see where the whole summer leads to with the boys. Because now that you're single, you can flirt with anyone you want and not have to worry about anyone getting mad at you because no one is your boyfriend.
xoxo Kourtney
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Well, you can always empty your mind, close your eyes, and see who the first guy you think about is, then go with that guy. I wish I had you're problem. 2 great people, both you love, loves you back. From the way you talk, you like guy number two more than your current boyfriend, and you're not sure if you want to break his heart just to start seeing the other guy. I think you should try dating guy number two for a while. Guy number one will be crushed, but it's something all of us guys go through sooner or later. Tell him that you need a break, then start dating the other guy. If it turns out you miss guy number one and liked dating him more, then find out if guy number one still has feelings for you. Afterwhich you can dump guy number two and continue to date guy number one.
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hell cheat on him lol I am so just kidding don't do that!! I think that you should talk to boi 1 and see if he would mind if you were friends and you can still hang out. and tell him that you really like anouther guy. tell him the turth. if you lie to him it will bit you in the ass. just talk to him. and tell that other fool that you like him and you want to try to hit it off with him and see what he has to say I would talk to boi 2 first b/c if he says no you can always go to boi 1 so yeah don't try to lose them both lol hope this helps.
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If you break up with your boyfriend then you could flirt for the summer and see which one you like more after the end of the summer, and then choose who you'd rather be with. It's easier then flirting behind your boyfriends back... Tell him you want to take a break for the summer and see how everything goes...
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I say go with boy 1 since you guys are going out. It would break his poor little heart if you broke up with him for boy 2. But yeah... tough spot your in.
megan.
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