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uhh Friends !


Question Posted Sunday July 18 2004, 10:33 pm

Well my really good friend doesnt like my new friends what should i do? she always talks bad about them.

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KoTaKiTtAy44 answered Thursday July 22 2004, 9:31 pm:
talk to them about it! you should tell them that if she is ur friend then she should respect other friends that you may have!! *hope i helped* <3/Dakota

[RaTe Me PlEaSe AnD iF yOu NeEd Ne ThInG eLsE jUsT dROp oNe In My InBoX]

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bAhAmAmA0250 answered Monday July 19 2004, 10:17 pm:
Tell her/him that you dont like to hear things about your friend because you dont want to hear bad things about her either so just stick up for all them-trix

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xHeartxOfxGoldx answered Monday July 19 2004, 5:29 pm:
Maybe your friend is jealous. Or maybe she doesn't like them for a reason. I know u have heard ehr reasons but have you actually ever HEARD her out. Really payed attention to why she doesn't like them. If shes your good friend you should trust her opinion more. And if its out of jealousy try spending a little more time with her. Just because you have new friends doesn't mean you should stop being friends (or drift away) with the old friends. I hope I helped..



((Anymore ?'s just drop one in the box :)..)

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TiNKERBELLxo answered Monday July 19 2004, 2:57 pm:
I was in the same situration and it ended badly. Just talk to them *I never did*... it might help a little. Whatever you do, don't choose between them! I hope I helped you. Email me at hockeyprncess87@aol.com if that wasn't much help.

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Mel answered Monday July 19 2004, 11:04 am:
Tell her the truth. Tell her you don't appreciate her talking bad about your new friends, and if she might be a good friend to you, but if she disrespects your friends then she's disrespecting YOU. tell her how you feel. it'll be easier than lying to her. good luck.

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HollyAnn2282 answered Monday July 19 2004, 3:28 am:
hey i'm sure shes just jealous! Cant you all just get along. Hang out with them both at the same time and i'm sure she'll end up warming up! Good luck
-holly-
hope i helped

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xAmiiEx answered Monday July 19 2004, 2:34 am:
well talk to her and start hanging out with all of them see what they do if not talk to them about it and see if they can work there diffrences out i mean you never know if you never try... gOodLucK!
lOvE,
xAmiiEx

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missing-identity-seeker answered Monday July 19 2004, 12:20 am:
TO: uhh Friends !

your reallie good frend dosnt hab to like your new frends...just tell her you feel uncomfortable with her talkin bad about your frends...mehbe she feels uncomfortable around them too er sumthink...ya noe?

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LilSweetie7098 answered Monday July 19 2004, 12:14 am:
She need's to either accept your new friends or jsut not hang around them.

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Sw3eTi3_xO answered Monday July 19 2004, 12:04 am:
Well this is very common, but if you're not comfortable with it, ask her to stop. Tell her straight out how you feel, and if she refuses then she wasn't that good of a friend to begin with!!

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BlueEyedBlondie725 answered Monday July 19 2004, 12:03 am:
Sit your good friend down and just ask her why she doesn't like your new friends and tell her "I really like my new friends and you would too, you just have to give them a chance and get to know them first" Say something like that. And have a sleep over at someones house so they can all get to know one another. And just tell your good friend that your new friends are really nice and that she would like them. Just tell her how you feel. Good luck

xoxo Kourtney

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SuGaRnSpIcE16 answered Sunday July 18 2004, 11:49 pm:
I have this problem often. You just hang out with the two groups seperately. You don't have to drop any friends. You should also ask your friend to not talk about your other friends because you don't like it. If you're really good friends then she should listen. If not then she wasn't that great of a friend anyways.

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xOcOnfEsSiOnzSOx answered Sunday July 18 2004, 11:36 pm:
really .. all u need to do is tell her how u feel a bout the way she/ hes been talkinq about ur new friend .. if she/he is a good friend im sure they will understand

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footballchicka06 answered Sunday July 18 2004, 11:36 pm:
I think that if she doesnt like your friends she is not a true friend. . .true friends wouldnt talk bad about the friends that you have she would understand that things are not ever going to change. and you really need to talk to her about it and tell her that things are not going to change and you are going to be there for her even if she doesnt really want you too
Hope this works for you! good luck
*~*Crystal*~*

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united_python_cheerleader answered Sunday July 18 2004, 11:18 pm:
Be friends with both and just not hang around them both at the same time thats what i do





Love Ashley

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Roxybabii922 answered Sunday July 18 2004, 11:15 pm:
try to get her to hang out with them, she might be jealous because they are "stealing" you away from her

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