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my friend cuts herself because of her ex-boyfriend...ive tryed to tell her not to. she cuts herself all over her body except her wrists. and when her parents ask her what happens she makes up excuses like she ran into something, fell... i dont know what to do!
-signed help my friend out!-
I REALLY NEED HELP!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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u really need to tell an adult about this, it doesn't matter if she get mad at u, she'll thank u.
Tell her u really need to get over him, his not worth for anything,life too short don't watse it with a guy. have fun woth life
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you need to tell an adult, some one needs to know even if she gets mad at you she will thank you later. stay by her side no matter what. you need to make sure she is not doing it just to do it or if she is serious about it. also let her know that no guy is worth her tears and the one that is wont ever make her cry. about her parent you tell then that she is cutting her self. someone needs to know goos luck
Crystal
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this is serious buisness. self-mutilation is a very bad and dangerous habit and needs to be stopped. i think you should tell your parents or talk to your friends parents about whats happening and if they dont believe talk to someone whos an adult that will believe it. if you cant take care of this by yourself than that is your best bet. thats pretty much all you can do and exactly what i would do even if i swore to God i wouldnt tell. its the right thing to do. good luck!
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*Just flat out tell her she doesn't need to cut and you don't like it. If she can't tell her parents maybe you should, because one day she could cut too deep and be gone. Tell her to see a counselor or go into a special rehab for that.*
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My friend does that as well, and i mean i love him ta' death, but i know how hard it can be to see someone you care about do something so terrible to themselves. What i have been trying, that seems to be working, is just, spend as much time as you can with them. Make it so their thoughts are hard to center on what makes them sad which makes them to cutt. Make sure she is out there enjoying life, not cutting it away. But most of all, just be there for her, even if it doesn't seem like she needs it. Cause if she is doing what you say she is doing, from my own experience, she most likely needs you more than you relize. If you need help, drop a letter in my inbox, i'm here for you if you need it.
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Seek help. Talk to her some more and if that doesn't work. Tell her parents or your parens about her. I would do research about several places she coul go to get help and show them to the parents after you have told them. Hope it works out! *SaM*
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sit her down and tell her you are genuinely worried about her. try to get her help somehow. get her to see a counselor that can help her. she should appreciate it; you seem like a great friend. good luck! please send me something if you need anything else. i'm here to help you.
xox Kristen
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omg u have to tell some one like right now b.c right now she cuts her self on her legs and her arms and stuff but when she gets really mad and sad she will go for her wrists.......really tell some one soon tell ur parents or some one u can trust ........ even if ur friend gets mad at u for a while at least u know u saved her life
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try talking to your friend and try to just convince her to get help but just remember not to go to far with it bacause stress could cause her to cut herslef more (please rate me)
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ask her why she dose it. have a heart to heart conversation and explain to her why she shouldnt.
hope this helps,
chynna
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there isnt reslly much you can do to help your friend. maybe you can talk to her parents about her. but she can only help herself.
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