Okay well I have this friend Casey that is reallie jealous of me bcuz I know alot of guys and I have a bf and all.Casey goes around calling me the worse names in the book like c*nt and sl*t and a whore and all.ANd the funny thing is I only have one bf and she likes spreading rumor to everyone so now my bestfriend is mad at me bcuz Casey said I fucked her bf and now I dont know what to do and evening Stephaine bf told her that we didnt have sex which we didnt and now I dont know how for her not to be mad at me:(So please help what should I do:(
-Kimmy
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Friendship? footballchicka06 answered Saturday July 10 2004, 2:52 am: Kimmy,
sounds like you are a really sweet girl and you don't need a friend that is going to say shitbehind your back. if you boyfriend likes you then he wonrt believe you and you really need to tell her that she is jealous of you two and wants to be with him and if he likes you then he will totaly understand. for her you need to confront her and tell her to stop her shit talking and that she needs to get over it b/c she knows as well as you do that you are not a slut and a cunt and she needs to stop her sit. hope this helps you out good luck!
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bAhAmAmA0250 answered Friday July 9 2004, 1:18 pm: The best possible thing to do right now is talk to everyone that is pretty much mainly invovled in all this and see what happans from there or maybe you could all talk to the counsolar or something like that i know the counsolar isnt "cool" or whatever but sometimes thats what you have to resort to at times in need weather you want to or not-trix [ bAhAmAmA0250's advice column | Ask bAhAmAmA0250 A Question ]
amberjo answered Friday July 9 2004, 12:03 pm: shes obviously not a friend if she geos around saying that stuff behind your back, if i were you i would talk to her, in a calm way not a yelling screaming match, then if she continues, i would lose her as a friend b.cuz you dont deserve that kind of treatment from a "friend"
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Bethany34 answered Friday July 9 2004, 11:44 am: Well, Kimmy. Casey obviously isn't a very good friend if she doesn't trust you. In the long run she'll be sorry she ever said any of those things to you, and someday she'll need you. So, just stick to what you know is right! I hope this helps~Good luck! [ Bethany34's advice column | Ask Bethany34 A Question ]
AdNaMa answered Friday July 9 2004, 10:27 am: Um honestly if that girl was your bestfriend she wouldn't beleive just anybody so evidently this girl aint a real best friend... And if the girl is spreading stuff that aint true gettin all worked up about it is the wrong way to go just let it ride shes just jealous but your true friends wont beleive the drama and lies that shes starting, and if its not true it shouldnt get to you . I think you should just act like it don't bother you cause evidently she wants you to get really upset and make your life miserable just like hers, cause apparently her life sux.. remember you have to love yourself before anyone else can and i guess this girl don't quite love herself right about now cause hse sure aint letting anyone else.... Theres no place for jealousy in your heart only love and honesty purity and feeling.. So let it ride it will all go away soon .. Try talking to her or something tell her to her face how you feel .. maybe that will work [ AdNaMa's advice column | Ask AdNaMa A Question ]
Basketball3846 answered Friday July 9 2004, 10:02 am: Alrighty. Well, Casey sounds like the worst friend anyone could ever have. I would get rid of her asap. Friends are suppossed to be there for you and be happy for you not go spreading rumors about you! About all these rumors, just keep telling everyone that they aren't true. Whoever the rumors include you with like Stephanie's bf for instance, talk to him and tell him that you need his help to turn down all these rumors. Without his help people are just going to think you are lieing. Try ignoring them or maybe try telling a teacher or family member that this person is spreading horrible rumors around the school about you. No one should have to deal with this kind of stuff. Good Luck!! [ Basketball3846's advice column | Ask Basketball3846 A Question ]
OxKHoneyxO answered Friday July 9 2004, 9:44 am: Kimmy I think what you should do is keep your head up high and get your other friends that hangout with you to tell Steph that it wasnt you.And those are just some of the whore names to call a girl,you shouldnt evening be friends with her that isnt a true friend if she calls you names like that and also spreads rumor what I think is just talk to Steph and her bf all three of you together and tell her that you didnt.But be calm when you do it and keep your head up high things will turn out fine.Goodluck!
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