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Im 13 years old- what do guys my age want? (link)
Guys your age want more video games and time to be stupid ... my little brother is 13 and he is intrested in girls but he just goes for the looks like he'll think shes cute .. but he dont really care about the whole girlfriend idea ... Hes more into sports and having fun being a kid then calling his girlfriends ... believe me hes got many ha ...


I've always strived for straight hair.. but it never seems to stay straightened.. when ever i flat iron it.. it always goes back to its natural fall.. and when ever i blow dry it straight.. its all poofy.. and i can't get rid of it.. any suggestions on how to get my hair to stay straightened? (link)
Get a relaxer if your hair is that bad, get a Amonium Thyglocolate Relaxer, unless you have color in your hair or a perm or any type of chemical already because then its only going ot damage your hair. Just realize that once you put this chemical in your hair you cant put any other chemicals at all in your hair or it will fry automatically ...



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My best friend is pissed off at me just because my science teacher chose my suggestion/idea on my project over my best friend's idea. She is giving me an attitude and is refusing to talk to me. What should I do? (link)
you should talk to your firned, but if shes that dramatic over something so stupid thne find new friends .. thats so dumb


I feel like having sex with a crush of mine that lives acrossed the street! Can you help me? (link)
Okay, if you are trully ready and you feel like it's something you want to do, and your not going to regret it then do it. If you and your crush across the street are good friends i'd advise you not to, if you think anything with you two is going to change. If you guys don't really talk , then what makes you think that he's the one to share something with. If you feel like you just want to up and do it then do it ... all i can say is realize the aftermath yeah you do only live once, thats why you wanna make sure your living it to the extent where you wont regret every little thing you do ...


Okay well I have this friend Casey that is reallie jealous of me bcuz I know alot of guys and I have a bf and all.Casey goes around calling me the worse names in the book like c*nt and sl*t and a whore and all.ANd the funny thing is I only have one bf and she likes spreading rumor to everyone so now my bestfriend is mad at me bcuz Casey said I fucked her bf and now I dont know what to do and evening Stephaine bf told her that we didnt have sex which we didnt and now I dont know how for her not to be mad at me:(So please help what should I do:(
-Kimmy (link)
Um honestly if that girl was your bestfriend she wouldn't beleive just anybody so evidently this girl aint a real best friend... And if the girl is spreading stuff that aint true gettin all worked up about it is the wrong way to go just let it ride shes just jealous but your true friends wont beleive the drama and lies that shes starting, and if its not true it shouldnt get to you . I think you should just act like it don't bother you cause evidently she wants you to get really upset and make your life miserable just like hers, cause apparently her life sux.. remember you have to love yourself before anyone else can and i guess this girl don't quite love herself right about now cause hse sure aint letting anyone else.... Theres no place for jealousy in your heart only love and honesty purity and feeling.. So let it ride it will all go away soon .. Try talking to her or something tell her to her face how you feel .. maybe that will work


Does anyone else have flashbacks about things they regretted doing or things other people did that unnerved you? I have never done LSD or anything like that. I know they aren't real. It doesn't keep me from doing things, but it makes me shrug sometimes in reaction to it. (link)
Sweetie it's normal, its like you just get chills when you think about stuff that has happened to you or something... Almost like your re-living it right ? .. I get em all the time and you don't have to of done drugs or something to get em... it's just a flashback don't worry everyone has em !


wut r sum good love songs? list as many as u can think of please!!....tHaNkS...ill repay u by givin u advice!! (link)
omg you kno what the bets song ever is .. SOUTHSIDE omg thats the best song ever i love it .. and burn an you got it bad .. haha


ok whenever my friends get together i get jealous like that i'm not invited...i mean obviously i cant be invited to everything but i get jealous anyway..is there something wrong with me? (link)
No your just scared of loosing your friends, ina way you shouldn't be like that but ina nother way its natural i mean jealousy is a human natured thing so you can't control it... You just gotta remember that your not gonna be dissed by anyone if so then their not your true friends so just chill and have fun enjoy your life its much too sweet!


i like this guy who goes with my best friends sister is that wrong? (link)
well, that would cause conflict between you an your best friends siter then causing you an your best friend to get arguing over who side she should take so more then likely it is wrong and you should just try to find another cutie ..


okay, this might seem really nasty, but i don't know how to have sex. i just don't. and i need someone to tell me... soon.
what are some things we should do?? i'm sooo clueless... i don't know what to do!! (link)
If you don't kno how to have sex, then ask your boyfriend. I hope thats who your having sex with- even so if your not with your boyfriend and just having it to have it then ask whoever you are with that night...Just be staright up with whoever it is i mean you guys are sharing something so you should not feel the least bit uncomfortable you kno .. No one should ever think that any question is a stupid question the mor eyou aks the WISER YOU GET...

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I feel really alone and wish i could find Mr Right,my mom says if i have one good boyfriend then Im good, But how will I know where Mr Right is
(Im 15/Female)
PLz If u know whats best answer this Question
Jenipher HELP!!!!!!!!!!!!! (link)
It'll come to you when the time is right ...

I have a best friend who is 17 going ot be 18 soon and had always been gettin hurt, NEVER found the right guy .. until justa little while ago .. her whole world changed i mean we didnt even kno it was happening she hung out with a group of guys with me and one thing lead to another and her old flame was her MR RIGHT .. im so happy for her and im just sitting back waiting for mine...


So you gotta go with the flow , and let the good things come to you because you know that saying .. Good things come to people who wait! .. Hope it's good for you -You've got alot of life to live sweetie dont sweat it your only 15 !


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Are tampons supposed to hurt? because i hate wearing pads, but tampons hurt sooo bad that i cant even walk some of the time and im a very heavy bleeder so i can wear the small tampons. also does your eating habits have to do with how heavy you bleed? like if i eat healthy food and fruit and stuff will it make me bleed lighter? (link)
maybe its the brand of tampon your using what brand is it ? I kno that when i use playtex gentel glides.. they dont gently glide in I have to use pearl i am proud to say im a PEARL GIRL .. or maybe it's because you might not be sexually active and in that case its going to hurt i fyour using the wrong size.. some people cant use them until they loose their virginty.. hope i helped rate me if you can!!!


ok u see my b/f well actually i dunno if i wanna call him that ne more but i still will for it wont be confuseing!!ok u see my b/f was cheating on me with me best friend and i found out he broke up with her then he promised me he would never do it ever again so i believed him i mean everyone deserves a second chance i think and today he was at his cuzins and his cuzin fren my other best friend was there hanging out well her and her brother was there and my b/f and her were flirting then they went in his cuzins room and locked the door then her brother walked in on them doing "something" i didnt wanna know wat that sumthing was i stoped my b/fs cuzin which is like my brother but he really isnt and the girl that did it is like my sister and she has a b/f that god she loves him she would never cheat on him and my b/fs cuzin wouldnt lie to me but my b/f and her are both denieing it and i dont know who to believe!!!Confused
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Well if he cheated on your with your best friend, don't ever dout tha thes not going to do it again... And evidently he has no respect for you or your feelings to mess with your best friend. But at the same time- if you really like him your not goin got believe all the he said she said stuff.. I know its hard but maybe its just best for you to leave him alone- but always remember * It's always better in the end, if its not better IT NOT THE END .. and the TRUTH ALWAYS COMES OUT !


me n my boyfriend talk on the phone...a lot! It's not like he doesn't want to talk to me because he is the one who calls me (most of the time) but i mean we are talking 24/7!! He has even passed up going to the movies to talk to me cause he said he would be bored without me and without someone to hold on to. My problem is, I think we talk a little bit to much on the phone! i mean i stay up til around 3:00am talking to him then he has to go to work, and sometimes on his way to work we talk on his cell phone. I think i am not getting enough sleep, but i really love talking to him and he does too! what should i do???? (if it helps in 14/f n hes 15 august 10th (link)
okay, well thats how me an my ex boyfriend of a long time were. We would talk and talk. It felt like SO RIGHT ? .. We never argued and I loved that we had this connectiion where we could never get bored, I was always scared that things would change and we'd eventually get tired of eachother... Well i did the what i thought was impossible, i stopped talkin to him so much . I told him that we talked a little more then what we should. But i think that is what drug us down... And eventually nothing was ever the same so we broke up. I think that unless you honestly don't wan tto talk to him 24/7 then don't worry about it. Atleast you kno he is not messing with any other girls. And he's devoted to you , i mean any guy that makes his life evolve around you has a definite DEVOTION to you ... but if your worried about your sleep ethics then tell him when 12 rolls around that your just too tired, and if he really cared about you he'd be okay with you going to sleep and he wouldnt get mad and you guys could just talk in the am .. Ihope everything works out for you in however you settle your issues....




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