My best friend is pissed off at me just because my science teacher chose my suggestion/idea on my project over my best friend's idea. She is giving me an attitude and is refusing to talk to me. What should I do?
TRYINurLUCK answered Friday July 16 2004, 8:39 pm: i think u should, just not feel bad, cuz its not ur fault, and i tink u shouldnt talk to her for a little while, so that she can see thats shes acting unreasonable, and see what shes missing, and she'll eventually come running back to u.
needtobe answered Friday July 16 2004, 8:23 pm: no one needs a friend like that. tell your friend that if they are gonna be mad at your for such a stupid reason that u dont need them
hope this helps,
chynna [ needtobe's advice column | Ask needtobe A Question ]
kelli7956 answered Friday July 16 2004, 7:23 pm: Tell her your sorry he choose yours but that is no reason to be mad at you. If that doesnt work then maybe yall arent as god as friends as you thought. ( rate me) **Kelli** [ kelli7956's advice column | Ask kelli7956 A Question ]
KateStar1011 answered Friday July 16 2004, 11:46 am: That's a really stupid reason to get pissed off with somebody, but just give her time to get her head out of her butt. Let her realize...WOW that was dumb. She'll come around soon enough! :) Good luck hun! [ KateStar1011's advice column | Ask KateStar1011 A Question ]
endilwen answered Friday July 16 2004, 4:48 am: Ignore her.
Seriously, if you ignore her and just let her cool down, let her have her little tantrum, she'll realise just how immature her reasoning to give you attitude is, and she'll apologise.
kevin1986 answered Friday July 16 2004, 1:45 am: Tell your friend to grow up and quit being a baby just because she lost out this time. I'm sure you've lost a few times and she's won and you never bitched too loud about it. [ kevin1986's advice column | Ask kevin1986 A Question ]
BaBii_Dancer answered Friday July 16 2004, 1:29 am: I think she is just jealous. Let her cool off for a while and then call her and talk to her about it. Or maybe she'll call you first and be like, "Sorry, I over reacted." My friends and I do this all the time and then later on we are back as friends again. It is just a temperary thing unless if she takes it seriously and it ruins your friendship. But if you guys have been friends for a long time, then I don't think that will happen. Hope everything works out well!
TheLovex8 answered Friday July 16 2004, 1:27 am: Tell her to get over it you had no controll over it!! and if she gets mad that easily theres oviousily more wrong than just that!! x0x0 Kay [ TheLovex8's advice column | Ask TheLovex8 A Question ]
bAhAmAmA0250 answered Friday July 16 2004, 1:23 am: Tell her its not your fault and you cant help what the teacher chooses maybe you could talk to the teacher and tell her whats up and ask her if she could combine both the idea's together-trix [ bAhAmAmA0250's advice column | Ask bAhAmAmA0250 A Question ]
sxyxbabii answered Friday July 16 2004, 1:13 am: compliment her on her idea and tell her it was awesome and maybe next time you guys could combine ideas or something so you both get credit and she wont feel bad or something?? [ sxyxbabii's advice column | Ask sxyxbabii A Question ]
AdNaMa answered Friday July 16 2004, 1:11 am: you should talk to your firned, but if shes that dramatic over something so stupid thne find new friends .. thats so dumb [ AdNaMa's advice column | Ask AdNaMa A Question ]
DorkyJay27 answered Friday July 16 2004, 12:33 am: I'm gonna guess you want to keep the friendship goin...so try to explain to her that you cant help what your teacher chooses.Hope i helped :-/ [ DorkyJay27's advice column | Ask DorkyJay27 A Question ]
Lizzy answered Friday July 16 2004, 12:28 am: Tell her you think her idea was so much better then yours and that you would have liked to do her project. Tell her you didn't mean to hurt her feelings but it just happened that way
Good Luck
Lizzy [ Lizzy's advice column | Ask Lizzy A Question ]
its okay if she's mad at you...sometimes ppl just get jealous fer watebe reason and frends hab stoopid fites ova thah kind of stuffs...me and by bff do it all the time and such...
you hab two options...1)try reallie hard to get her to talk to you and be frends agin and stuff like thah or 2)wait till all he rstema like cools off and stuff, then talk to her...whichebe way you put it im gessin your frend mite be jealous of you for some unknown reason and its best thah you guys talk about thah too sometime...if not you guys can hab these constant fites like on and off and it gets annoying...ya noe? [ missing-identity-seeker's advice column | Ask missing-identity-seeker A Question ]
MissJ1414 answered Friday July 16 2004, 12:18 am: Just tell her that her idea was really awesome and that you don't think that it's rite that she didn't get picked. Tell her that if you were the teacher you would have deffently picked hers. Tell her that your sorry that hers didn't get picked and maybe it will next time. Ask her why she's acting like she is, as nicely as you can, and yall just talk about. [ MissJ1414's advice column | Ask MissJ1414 A Question ]
BrEeBuZz answered Friday July 16 2004, 12:17 am: I think that shows that your best friend has no confidence in herself/himself and if they get mad at such a small thing as that then they might get more mad at bigger things...try talking to your friend and showing him/her the he/she has had better ideas at one point or another and that both of ya'll are better at diffrent things. [ BrEeBuZz's advice column | Ask BrEeBuZz A Question ]
iLuVkOaLaS answered Friday July 16 2004, 12:14 am: Well thats stupid forn a friend to act like that.. she will eventully not be mad but if u get a friend to like call her and tell her its stupid and yall should be friends and stuff like that.. thank you ~jessica~ [ iLuVkOaLaS's advice column | Ask iLuVkOaLaS A Question ]
united_python_cheerleader answered Friday July 16 2004, 12:04 am: Tell her her idea was good too but it isnt your fault ur teach chose urs not hers
sWeEt_x3_BaBii answered Friday July 16 2004, 12:04 am: Your best friend seems a little jealous. This is perfectly normal with friends. However, do not, i repeat, DO NOT stop trying as hard in science just to appease your friend. Did your teacher make it clear that he favored your suggestion/idea over your friend's in front of the class? If so, she may be embarrassed. This is a kind of hard question to answer with so little information. If you have any questions you can IM me. My AIM screen name is sWeEt x3 BaBie. Feel free to ask! [ sWeEt_x3_BaBii's advice column | Ask sWeEt_x3_BaBii A Question ]
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