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hey * my name is chelsea! i know a lot of stuff about a lot of different things so if you ask me a question i can probably answer it. :) -
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Okay so Im planning my Sweet Sixteen and I dont know what theme to make it, my mom wants roses and flowers, I like the idea but I want something more me, but can u help me??? please
What theme should it be????
I think you should think of something you like and make that be the theme. We can't really decide what is more "you", only you can. ♥
ok i was hangin out with my bf who i only get to see wednesday, friday saturday n sometimes sunday bc we go to diff skools n stuff...and hes PERFECT i love him alot n weve been goin out for about 4 months...well he ALWAYS forgets to call me or watever but today was reallie pissing me off...last nite i told him to call me when he got home n to not forget so he laffed n wrote it on his hand n he neevr called...and today we wer gonna plan to do something since we both have it off and he didnt call ALL day! i decided i wasnt gonna call him bc its up 2 him to call me now! wat shuld i tell him when he finalyl does call? i kno hes gonna make up some excuse on why he ddint call or he wont bring it up at all...how can i bring it up n tll him wat he did wat messed up..
why don't you just call him and say that you are really mad he forgot? it is not solely up to the guy to call all the time because they do forget a lot of times or get caught up in what they are doing and lose track of time. if you want to talk to him be calm and ask why he never calls, what he is doing when he forgets, and if he doesn't bring it up then you have to bring it up. you need to talk about it because it won't sort itself out. ♥
Hey, Im 13 and Im in 8th grade, and I have a crush on Travis my friend hes also 13 and in 8th grade. We have alot in common, but Ive always been kinda shy and not telling people that I like them. But i wrote travis a note one day that i thought he was hott i didnt get a bad responce:) or a good one :(, and nothing is different between us and we are still good friends, i talk to him all the time. I wanna go out with him, but Im afraid of rejection so I dont know if I should ask him out. I feel that he might like me but I can never be positive. One of my bestfriends, Brittany thinks I should ask him out cuz if i dont i might miss a chance to go out with him if he likes me, and he might get over me and go out with someone else:( SO... my question is should i ask him out, i would really appreaciate your advice! THANKS!
im very scared and confused!!
I agree with your friend Brittany. If you don't ask him out it might end up being one of your greatest regrets in life. We really only have one life so we need to make the best of it. If you are afraid of rejection, like most of us are, I would ask in way that won't completely put you out on a limb if you are not completely sure of what his answer will be. When I was your age and I was in the same situation I asked my guyfriend "What would you say if I asked you out?" If he says I don't know it probably means no but he just doesn't want to hurt your feelings or if he says no then you no. If he says no, don't push it because it may ruin your friendship. If he says he would say yes go on and say "Well then will you go out with me?" Hopefully all things go well for you, good luck and let me know how it goes! ♥
okay well i've always told myself that i'm going to wait until marriage before i have sex... but now that i'm older and in highschool i've faced reality. and i'm not gonna kid myself. if i'm ready to have sex, i'm going to. of course i'm gonna wait for the guy i love, but still. everyone always says "wait til marriage" but in reality WHO REALLY DOES? and even if i have sex with a guy and we break up and regret it, that doesnt mean i'm gonna be depressed for the rest of my life would it? so whats the big deal? who agrees.
go ahead with it! you won't be depressed for the rest of your life unless the sex was bad. ;) haha, but it's just living your life and you only have one life, so you should make the best of it and do what you feel like doing. ♥
OK, well I've gone out with a guy multiple times, and he broke up with me one time. The last time we broke up we both decided to try to get a little comfortable around eachother..but the thing is..i really love him..and i mean REALLY love him. He is pretty much obsessed with me, it's just the communication when we're face to face that has a little problem. And that's it. But I really love him, and do you think it would be wrong to go out with him another time? Don't say "omg you went out with him a lot don't go out with him anymore" cuz that's not what I want to here. If it's what you're going to say, don't bother saying it. You can IM me on pinkxbaby 09 if you wanna talk about this more too..
If you believe you do love him and he loves you I don't see why you shouldn't go out again. A problem in communication can be easily sorted out in my opinion. Since I don't exactly know what kind of communication problem you are having I will just tell you what I've learned from experience. If you have a problem talk about it as soon as it comes up so it doesn't develop into a bigger problem. If you need more specific answers let me know. ♥ rate if you want.
If a guy wanted to go down on me should I let him? I mean girls say it feels good n everything but I dunno. I mean I know im clean down there but DOWN THERE isnt the best lookin and juss yeah down there. I mean u cum and what if it starts to smell or somethin or I dunno.. Juss thinkin bout a guy doin that..Doesnt it taste BADD I mean why would a guy wanna..??
It really just depends on how you feel about the guy. If you feel completely comfortable around him then I would say to go for it because if it does taste/smell bad, which there is a strong possibility of, he might be grossed out but he won't be mean about it. If you are worried about the way it looks then you might want to trim or even shave, that's really the only thing you can change. If you don't want to do that just make sure you feel comfortable with the guy to let him do this because it's a very intimate act. If you are worried about the taste/smell I would suggest eatting pineapples or another tropical fruit a couple hours before because it makes it smell better and in some cases taste better. I've heard it tastes kind of bad. The reason is because of what you eat (meat makes it taste bad, while ditrus fruits make it taste better) and because it is not clean down there. If you have any other questions let me know. ♥ rate if you want.
ok why does every 1 say drink water to lose weight? wat does it do? and why do they say cold water is better? how does it make u lose weight??
cold water is better because your body has to burn claories to raise it to your body temperature. the same thing happens when you take a cold shower, you body has to burn calories to raise your body temperature up to normal after a cold shower. so, do that if you're looking to burn some extra calories without doing any work. ;D ♥ rate me if you want.
my neighbor fingered me but i didnt get an orgasm. did he do something wrong?
you usually don't get an orgasm from just fingering unless the g-spot is there. it mostly comes from the clitoris. it really just takes practice with the person for them to find out what you like the most. ♥
Does anyone know a site where I can ask a question on sex. I believe my question would be too graphic for this site because of how young most of the people here seem to be. :\ Or maybe a girl that would be old enough to answer my question (im 16)
you could ask me. i know pretty much everything. ♥
on the song milkshake what does milkshake mean?
i'm pretty sure it just means her sex appeal. like she has the whole package. her body, everything. i'm not entirely sure but i've heard that numerous times.
Is there anyway that you can make...down there...taste better?
there is actually! the things you eat change the smell and taste down there. Less meat is a good idea because meat has a lot of iron. Also, less "smelly" vegetable such as asparagus and cabbage. Tropical fruits that are high in sucrose,fructose, and acids will make it smell better as well. Pineapple is one of the best known to do this. (it works, i've tried it) It effects different people in different ways. The taste difference might be slight but it also could be significant. its mainly trial and error
to see what works best for you! (rate me if you get the chance.) ♥
Will Clorox Bleach bleach your hair? I don't want to try it out and find out that it works! This isn't really important but I would apprechiate it if you would answer this.
I appoligize if I didn't spell apprechiate right.
i've never tried clorox to bleach my hair, but i've always wondered if it worked because it would be cheaper than buying real hair bleach. haha. to all the people- i bleach my hair all the time so my color is better and my hair hasnt fallen out. they are overexagerating A LOT.
appreciate* ♥
im lookin 4 a good pair of shoes u can skateboard wit but are still cute got any ideas
i wouldnt get etnies or roxy because although they are cute they are terrible for skateboarding. i'd recommend vans though, for sure!
ok im a chic and my hair is down to... well almost my shoulders and i wanna put it in liberty spikes. but i duno what kind of gel to use or w/e or how i would go about doing it. so can anyone help me? girl or guy??
first off - ignore anyone who says spikes are gross on girls, look at brody from the distillers! shes has spikes, mohawks, everything and shes drop dead sexy. okay, the only suggestion i have is using eggwhites. i used it one time (mixed with some other things) to put my hair in spikes and it worked pretty good. also, glue. i would bypass the gel. gel isnt strong enough to hold that long of hairfor a very long time. just buy a thing of elmers glue and get to work because it takes a long time to get girl hair into liberty spikes. have fun! ♥
im 16 and my penis is about 5.5 inches long is that the average size? Does it matter to girls?
i will have to say i dont really know the average size of a penis, but even if that is not average size you still have plenty of time for it to mature, its still growing. if the size of your penis matters to a girl, she isnt worth your time! she should like you for you - not your penis! hope that helped. :)
Ok, this might sound a little weird.. but my vagina keeps breaking out! I don't know what it is.. but there are all these little bumps on it. Sometimes i even get in grown hairs. To top all that off it smells HORRIBLE! My boyfriend went down on me last week and he almost threw up! What should I do?!? HELP!!
the little bumps are razor burn. if you have any other questions about that just ask me. for the smell- i would recommend eating pineapple and drinking the juice a couple hours before doing anything with your boyfriend. the smell comes from different things and changes, it can come from eatting meat or just not washing down there enough. but pineapple is supposed to make it smell and tasty better. hope that was helpful.
ok... i'm 13 and idk wat this stuffmeans:
fingering,blowjob and y do people do that?my friends say its fun... but i dont wanna feel stupid asking tham wat it means!please help!
okay, both of those answers are horrid.
fingering- when someone sticks their finger(s) in the girls vagina. it is not gross! it will prepare someone for sex so it wont hurt as bad when that time comes around. also, it feels good.
blowjob- this is when someone puts a guys penis in their mouth. there are many different techniques to "blowjobs"/"head" and you just need to keep communication open with the guy.
it is lots of fun if your safe about it.
what a good thing to say while cybering
its not illegal like the last person said, but maybe you should just come up with your own things to say. :)
Everytime I shave down there or my bikini line I get these red dots a few hours afterwards...I've tried
- Shaving cream
- Shaving the way the hair grows
- Putting lotion on
Is there anything else I can do??
hey, i rarely get razor burn and i just put deorderant on the bikini line. it works really well! just make sure to put it on right after shaving. hope it works for you too. xoxo
What is the point of fingering a girl? I heard it was to 'stretch them out' for sex. What is fingering supposed to do? Bring them to orgasm?
Also are handjobs supposed to be done to bring your partner to orgasm?
I am 13, female, and I just wanted to know why you do these things (orgasm, pleasure, stretching, etc.). Thanks!
fingering is just the lesser version of having sex- at least thats how i see it! i've never thought of it as to 'stretch them out' but it would be useful to get fingered before having sex to lessen pain. fingering is for pleasure! it mainly wont bring a girl to an orgasm unless there is some sort of clitoris stimulation though (but it still feels very good). when you give a guy a handjob you are basically maturbating him. it is very pleasureful for him and usually brings him to an orgasm. :) have fun, be safe.