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my boyfriend is confusing me...
ok i was hangin out with my bf who i only get to see wednesday, friday saturday n sometimes sunday bc we go to diff skools n stuff...and hes PERFECT i love him alot n weve been goin out for about 4 months...well he ALWAYS forgets to call me or watever but today was reallie pissing me off...last nite i told him to call me when he got home n to not forget so he laffed n wrote it on his hand n he neevr called...and today we wer gonna plan to do something since we both have it off and he didnt call ALL day! i decided i wasnt gonna call him bc its up 2 him to call me now! wat shuld i tell him when he finalyl does call? i kno hes gonna make up some excuse on why he ddint call or he wont bring it up at all...how can i bring it up n tll him wat he did wat messed up..
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Don't give him a huge hard time. Guy's dont think about deep into stuff. They're freakin idiots, lol well all know that. Just ask him why he didn't call. i dunno.
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why don't you just call him and say that you are really mad he forgot? it is not solely up to the guy to call all the time because they do forget a lot of times or get caught up in what they are doing and lose track of time. if you want to talk to him be calm and ask why he never calls, what he is doing when he forgets, and if he doesn't bring it up then you have to bring it up. you need to talk about it because it won't sort itself out. ♥
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when he calls u definently need 2 tell him that he screwed up big time. i would bring up today and ask him wut yall were gonna do and then tell him that if ur gonna do stuff 2gether then he needs 2 call u and not leave u responsible 4 all this getting 2gether stuff. hope i helped ya!
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This happened with my boyfriend and I, he always would forget to call and finally I said to him, ok honestly it really hurts when you don't call when you promised you would, its to the point where I think you dont care about me, and if you do care about me try harder to call and basically he called alot more or would remember more. You also have to keep in mind, some guys memories suck! so give him some leeway when he doesn't remember.
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dont get mad at him. guys have such a short memory span it not even funny. he loves you and he prolly doesnt mean to hurt you!
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