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Hey, Im 13 and Im in 8th grade, and I have a crush on Travis my friend hes also 13 and in 8th grade. We have alot in common, but Ive always been kinda shy and not telling people that I like them. But i wrote travis a note one day that i thought he was hott i didnt get a bad responce:) or a good one :(, and nothing is different between us and we are still good friends, i talk to him all the time. I wanna go out with him, but Im afraid of rejection so I dont know if I should ask him out. I feel that he might like me but I can never be positive. One of my bestfriends, Brittany thinks I should ask him out cuz if i dont i might miss a chance to go out with him if he likes me, and he might get over me and go out with someone else:( SO... my question is should i ask him out, i would really appreaciate your advice! THANKS!
im very scared and confused!!
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I agree with your friend Brittany. If you don't ask him out it might end up being one of your greatest regrets in life. We really only have one life so we need to make the best of it. If you are afraid of rejection, like most of us are, I would ask in way that won't completely put you out on a limb if you are not completely sure of what his answer will be. When I was your age and I was in the same situation I asked my guyfriend "What would you say if I asked you out?" If he says I don't know it probably means no but he just doesn't want to hurt your feelings or if he says no then you no. If he says no, don't push it because it may ruin your friendship. If he says he would say yes go on and say "Well then will you go out with me?" Hopefully all things go well for you, good luck and let me know how it goes! ♥
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