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Question Posted Saturday July 17 2004, 10:18 pm

once a cheater, always a cheater?? TRUE OR FALSE?

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TheAdviceGuru answered Friday July 15 2005, 5:12 am:
that isss sooooo false its not even funny i cuold go on for hors how its false mainly cause i know cause i cheated on my gf one time althought it was a total accident i felt sooo terrible about it, it all depends on the persons consionce i felt so terrible about hurting her that i realized/felt that i was an asshole and never wanted to see a girl i cared about go through what i put her through i dunoo w/e long storyshort FALSE again

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KoTaKiTtAy44 answered Tuesday July 20 2004, 6:16 pm:
well i no that sum ppl would say true..but actually..i would say false because guys CAN change! it depends if hes actually in love ya know? because who in their right mind would play the person you love?? if you do..then you have problems!! haha *hope i helped* <3/Dakota

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HollyAnn2282 answered Monday July 19 2004, 6:13 pm:
I'd say true.... because all the guys that i've seen cheat do it more than once. But i think theres hope for the chance to change.
-holly-
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XxXBoredCuriousMeXxX answered Sunday July 18 2004, 7:59 pm:
Oh man a lot of people would say True but my answer is somewhat both because once someone may cheat on you they may never do it again because they realized what they did was pretty damn wrong but ummm i'll lean more towards True

<3~Nikki~<3

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Sexy~Gurl answered Sunday July 18 2004, 5:11 pm:
well in some cases it is true and some false...it just depends on the guy!!
bunches of luv,
KaTiE


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XSweetiePieX answered Sunday July 18 2004, 3:13 pm:
Probably true. it depends though..

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drifting_nimbus answered Sunday July 18 2004, 12:20 pm:
No, atleast in my case. My current bf used to be a huge player, cheated on ever girl, flirted all the time, all that jazz. But when we started going out he completely changed. We have been going out for 6 months and are actually thinking about marriage! When you meet the right girl, or the right guy you won't be able to look at another person! Hope I helped, Em'lee

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Roxybabii922 answered Sunday July 18 2004, 3:54 am:
true

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rainbowcherrie answered Sunday July 18 2004, 2:30 am:
FALSE. you can always change your attitude if you *WANT* to.

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XoTruebrunettExO answered Sunday July 18 2004, 1:46 am:
false.. not every one, but most

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iLuVkOaLaS answered Sunday July 18 2004, 1:31 am:
False,dont think that they will do it again, because sometimes they will straighten up. thank you! hope my advice helps. please rate me **jessica**

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BsimmzAsergi answered Sunday July 18 2004, 1:03 am:
false.. People Change and mature

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jj15 answered Sunday July 18 2004, 12:59 am:
it all depends ,if u cheated more the once true

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hotcherry answered Sunday July 18 2004, 12:48 am:
most of the time it's true...but i guess it just depends on if the person really has changed..

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jzchillen answered Sunday July 18 2004, 12:46 am:
that is so true

love
nat

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kevin1986 answered Sunday July 18 2004, 12:41 am:
You bet.

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bAhAmAmA0250 answered Sunday July 18 2004, 12:38 am:
Well to be honest.. I have cheated before and i dont cheat anymore so that is false. Unless I kept it up then yes.. i would be but im not and i dont like to known as a cheater that was a mistake and i wish i could take it back-trix

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Porkin00 answered Sunday July 18 2004, 12:14 am:
Everyone Shoud Get a second chance.. people change.. but u decide if they are worth the risk!

KYLE

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clanker answered Saturday July 17 2004, 11:41 pm:
false. if you have recently been cheated on, yes, it will hurt. a LOT. but you will get over it. promise. all you need is a really reliable and trust-worthy friend to help you through it. people change. remember a few years back when you drew something that was really really awsome? well now think of it. is it still so awsome? no. people change, and cheaters, as low as they get, can change as well. there is always room for change. once a cheater, they are not always a cheater, but that is their choice.

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L0VELLE answered Saturday July 17 2004, 11:31 pm:
mostly true but there are instances when it could be false- alcohol/drugs get in the way and make you cheat when you wouldn't have done that soberly..but that's the person's own fault for putting him/herself in that situation =] love elle

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storageanddisposal answered Saturday July 17 2004, 11:27 pm:
I want to say false, but I have no proof of it. One of my friends has cheated on his now exgirlfriend, and I'm not sure if he'll ever change in that department. I don't think I'm capable of cheating anyway. I'm not the "fling" kind of guy. Even if I was with someone who wasn't "the one", and then I met "the one", I still wouldn't cheat.

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dancer_freak05 answered Saturday July 17 2004, 11:20 pm:
True

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xcutesyallyx answered Saturday July 17 2004, 11:17 pm:
FALSE! people change all the time..enough said!

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GoDdeSsOfEveRyThInG answered Saturday July 17 2004, 11:14 pm:
People can change, but usually cheaters dont! I say true!!

LoVe,
HeAtHeR!!

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Mackenzie answered Saturday July 17 2004, 10:52 pm:
True!

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LoViny0ux914 answered Saturday July 17 2004, 10:49 pm:
ppl can change...even the most unlikely people...so i say false

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exyweetee99 answered Saturday July 17 2004, 10:48 pm:
in my opinion its true every time i give a guy thats cheated on me a 2nd chancec he does it again.so this isnt a fact jus from MY exsperiance
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jessica

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Lizzy answered Saturday July 17 2004, 10:41 pm:
False, everyone gets a second chance
Lizzy

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Maisie answered Saturday July 17 2004, 10:35 pm:
My answers to questions like this are all the same:

All people are different. Somebody said this can be both true and false and I agree with them. I know people that cheat all the time and see no problem with it. I, however, cheated once before in my life and immediately knew that what I was doing was wrong and have never done it since. (I'm assuming this question is in regards to relationships, rather than just cheating in general)

If you know somebody who has cheated once before, there's a good chance they won't do it again. Sometimes when I'm getting into a relationship with somebody I'll let them know that I've cheated before but that I haven't since. It's a whole trust factor. If they trust me, they trust me. If they don't, they don't. If you're going to be in a relationship with somebody who has cheated, let him/her know that you're aware they cheated and tell him/her what you feel about it and let them know what will happen if they cheat on you (what happens is up to you).

I lost where I was going with that. I'm starting to develop a really bad habit of rambling and going off topic. In any case, I hope this has helped.

-Maisie

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sundaymorning18 answered Saturday July 17 2004, 10:35 pm:
mainly true. people do change but cheating is a hard habit to break for most. if someone cheated on you, dump them

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BleedingHeart answered Saturday July 17 2004, 10:28 pm:
I would say true.If it happens once it is bound to happen again.

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superstar10 answered Saturday July 17 2004, 10:26 pm:
I would say true. If he has done it once, he can/could do it again. ~rate me~

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Mandee answered Saturday July 17 2004, 10:24 pm:
<span style="background: url([Link](Mouse over link to see full location); Either way. People change, so it could be false. Then again people can stick to their ways and still cheat so it could be true too. You just never know! lol Love you! -Mandee </span>

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BeAcHbAbE2978 answered Saturday July 17 2004, 10:23 pm:
I would say..it can be in between..because look..if he is the playa type then yeah oh course he will cheat on just about anybody..unless he does have an actual heart like most human's do..lol if u catch my drift..then he might understand what he's doing to a girl. But if he's not really the playa type then yes he might have a learned a lesson and would never do it again..believe me..i've been down that road!

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