I just cant seem to get over my ex girlfriend...i know first loves are the hardest to get over, but im still really really really into this girl..and its been a year, i miss everyting about her, but its jut not gonna work out again between us.....what should i do?
BlueEyedBlondie725 answered Sunday July 18 2004, 1:35 am: Love hurts, I hate love sometimes. =( I'm sorry. But, are you sure its never going to work out again? I mean, if it's meant to be, then you two will get back together, maybe not today or tomorrow, or next week, but later down the road it may be. But, all I can really say is to get her off your mind, you have to go out and live your life and have fun. Go out with new girls (but don't be a player lol), go to partys, the mall, friends houses, anything that is fun in your neighborhood, because when you're having fun, you get things off your mind, don't you? But, when you do meet a new girl, don't get scared and freaked out (since you're still in love with your ex). And don't compare her to your ex girlfriend because that'll get you know where and it'll just make you think of your ex girlfriend and you don't want that. But, first, are you really sure it isn't going to work out, I mean after all you're in love! Did she say hey buddy its not ever going to work out again! But, if she didn't, maybe you should call her up or something and just tell her how you feel. I know that sounds so dumb. But, its love!!! But, you should try saying something like "Hey, I know we haven't talked in awhile or hung out or anything, and I know its been a year, and trust me its been long, but I still miss you and still see those feelings for you and I just want to know if you still feel them for me too" Say something like that and just tell her how you feel. But, if you know it'll NEVER work out, then go and try to have fun like I said. I hope this helps, if you still need help, just leave a message in my inbox, I'll try to help you!
Sweetie2oo4 answered Sunday July 18 2004, 1:31 am: aww sweetie..i totally know how your feeling..you could always talk to her and tell her how you feel and maybe give the relationship another chance,but if you're 100% sure it won't work out then forget what i just said. try hanging out with your friends and get her off your mind...i know you might think it's been a whole year, but it WILL take some time, especially being your first love. maybe another girl is exactly what you need? interested in any1 else?..give someone else a chance. i know when you get your heartbroken you kinda close up and you think you can never love again. but my opinion is, that's exactly what you need right now, go out, talk to some other girls. honey, your still young, live it up.
Ugahottie321 answered Sunday July 18 2004, 1:31 am: Hey dude,
that really sux iv ben ther bfor r u sure that it wont work?! cus if ur not then mayb u should really go at trying to get her bak and tell her ur feelings. but if u r positive then u need to try to move on i no it seems imposible but eventually it will happen! try to look at hoo else ther is to like. is ther sum1 hoo uv looked at but never really seen (from a movie idk wat movie lol) jus try to to look at ur options u never no! hope ur situation gets better! write to me sum times!
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kevin1986 answered Sunday July 18 2004, 1:30 am: I feel you,dude. You're right,first cut is certainly deepest. If you really wanna ball your eyes out,listen to Away From The Sun by Three Doors Down. But life wouldn't be life without heartbreaks. I thought that no girl would ever compare to my first heartbreak. Then,you meet somebody else later and you start over again and you kinda forget about number one. I'm sorry that you lost her,but hey it's her loss. Life goes on. Always has,always will. [ kevin1986's advice column | Ask kevin1986 A Question ]
Kissxme1121 answered Sunday July 18 2004, 1:27 am: AHHH!! First loves!! I'm sorry dude. All I can say is talk to her and get to be close again and hgint to her about how you feel! And see if she feels the same way you do! Maybe it WILL work! Rate me plz and I hope everything works out the way you want it to! [ Kissxme1121's advice column | Ask Kissxme1121 A Question ]
iLuVkOaLaS answered Sunday July 18 2004, 1:27 am: You should try telling her how you feel and remember that if its meant to be then it will work out,but if not then shewasnt meant for you. thank you **jessica** hope my advice works. please rate me!! [ iLuVkOaLaS's advice column | Ask iLuVkOaLaS A Question ]
xChainMeUp13x answered Sunday July 18 2004, 1:26 am: you try to go out wit other people if u totally believe it will not possibly work with this girl again, if u hav hope enough in this girl u could tell her how you feel nd try to work things out wit her [ xChainMeUp13x's advice column | Ask xChainMeUp13x A Question ]
jj15 answered Sunday July 18 2004, 1:24 am: sweetie move on , sorry if u cant get over her, just try and do stuff with ur friends to get ur mind off of her
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