My friend just told me that her and my boyfriend have been dating, and she said that she didnt want to tell me because she didnt want to ruin our friendship. Do I ditch the guy and her, or just the guy and keep my friend
~*Bre_Babbles*~ answered Sunday July 18 2004, 3:56 pm: i would ditch them both they both hurt you and if your friend was really your friend she would have not done that!! and if your bf was really luved ya then he would not do that either so ya i would ditch them both!!
spoiledx3shortii answered Sunday July 18 2004, 2:47 pm: in my opinion- you should ditch the guy and give your friend another chance... i dont know why but i feel friendships are more important than bf/gf relationships
hope i helped
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xevilpenguinsx answered Sunday July 18 2004, 9:36 am: i would ditch them both cuz thats MAJOR trust issues...cuz like u need ur friends to be loyal and trustworthy cuz how do u know they arent gunna do it again or are gunna start talkin bout u [ xevilpenguinsx's advice column | Ask xevilpenguinsx A Question ]
Roxybabii922 answered Sunday July 18 2004, 3:52 am: It depends if you think a guy is worth all the trouble of losing your friend then ditch them both, but if you'd rather have her as a friend just ditch the guy [ Roxybabii922's advice column | Ask Roxybabii922 A Question ]
kevin1986 answered Sunday July 18 2004, 2:42 am: Well,did you make it clear to your boyfriend that you both were dating each other exclusively? If not,then I gotta side with him and your friend. If, on the other hand,your friend knew this would piss you off and did it intentionally,then ditch her and,if you feel like it,him too. [ kevin1986's advice column | Ask kevin1986 A Question ]
Ugahottie321 answered Sunday July 18 2004, 1:53 am: Hey gurl!
hmm u gotta toughy ther definantly ditch the guy!! wat a jerk! but about the frend... is she a really good friend that uv ben frends with awhile or jus a so-so? if shes a so-so ditch her.. wat a biatch! if shes a bff give her a chance to talk but she better make it good or else! ur bf couldve broke up with u and she couldve made him uck! in my opinion actualy u mite jus want to ditch both ur probly better off with out em as far as i can tell! hoo would want a frend like that?! sry i dont like frends hoo steal my bf and u deserve better then that too its up to u tho, hope u get it figured out! write me sum time
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dancer_freak05 answered Sunday July 18 2004, 1:51 am: Def. Ditch the guy. Hes not worth your time. For your friend, Its pretty obvious that she was never a good friend. You really need to talk with her about this, find out why she did it. If you think that you will be able to forgive her AND trust her in the future, then keep her around. But it will be hard to trust her again in the future. [ dancer_freak05's advice column | Ask dancer_freak05 A Question ]
allyorlo21 answered Sunday July 18 2004, 1:50 am: well for one thing you should deffinetly ditch the guy, because dont hold on to something your not sure you want anymore. and as for your friend just think how loyal she is to you and how good of a friend she is. think about if you could do with out her and if not then its best to keep her as your friend. you might want to talk to her about it as well. eventually itll all work out and whats supposed to happen with most always happen. hope i helped [ allyorlo21's advice column | Ask allyorlo21 A Question ]
XoTruebrunettExO answered Sunday July 18 2004, 1:44 am: Ditch the guy definatly.. but i dunno about ur friend... it depends on how shes treated you up to this point.. is she worth keeping? But think about this.. she didnt want to tell you about ti cuz that would ruin ur friendship, but what made her think DATING him wouldn't!? if you think she deserves a 2nd chance after this then you should give it to her, but only if she was a really good friend to you up until this, if she wasn't then forget about her.. you can find better friends.. also if you do decide to forgive her, don't forgive her right away.. you have a right to be mad even if you don't wanna throw away the friendship, you can still be mad at her for a while.
chump7291111 answered Sunday July 18 2004, 1:44 am: u shouldnt ditch ether. if thier both your friends then u should stick ^ 4 thier relationship. and back them ^ if it dosent work out between the 2 its more then likely u will be part of thier fight if u ditch them.
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iLuVkOaLaS answered Sunday July 18 2004, 1:38 am: Well i would defenitly ditch the guy. But if she was a good friend she would not have did that. I think you should ditch both. thank you! hope my advice works. please rate me **jessica** [ iLuVkOaLaS's advice column | Ask iLuVkOaLaS A Question ]
strawberrydaiquiri answered Saturday July 17 2004, 10:32 pm: It sounds like to me that she isnt a very good friend. I think it was a pretty shitty thing to do, but if you think that you could find a better relationship with a guy, then dont mess with the guy you're dating. And if you think that your friend wont do it again be friends with her, but watch what she does.
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