Hey, everyone my name is Natalie. I've always been there when my friends needed advice, I never really thaought of myself as a person that give good advice, but my friends started taking my advice they said I was good at it. N-e-ways I know I'm a good listener and I've been told I give good advice ohopefuly I won't stir n-e-body out there in the wrong direction.
E-mail: Twobolitas@aol.com
Gender: Female
Location: California
Occupation: California
Age: 14
Member Since: July 14, 2004
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i hate my life so much, all my mother cares about is my sister and i hate them both so much. she always gets her way and shes so perfect and were only a year apart. they both drive me crazy. and theres this boy in my school who i really like, im like in love with him and hes in all my classes except 1 so i always see him and he doesnt like me and he saids he has a semi girlfriend in hamden, and i just cant take this anymore. everyone i love doesnt love me. i feel like no one cares and im alone... i really dont care about my mom or sister all i want is him (link)
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hey don't worry I jut broke up with my bf and I feel as if the only solution is to kill myelf. But it's not. I can't realy give you advice b/c life and love are both a bunch of shit. But all you can do is work hard be better thatn your sis then laugh at her face (harsh thing to do) but thinking about it will make you feel better.
Let me know how it goes.
Here to help
Nat
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(sorry for the length, in advance, but i really want advice :)) hey! ok here's the thing. i like love this guy that i know and all ithink about is him. well until like a month ago i thought he liked me (he knows i like him, he asked me, so i told him) because he had all the signs like would sit next to me and like look at me, you know the whole "flirting" type of thing and all my friends thought he liked me and i thought so, too, i have to admit it and i'm very, uh, what's the word oh yeah modest. but then my friends told him i liked him and then he asked me so i told him and he, too, is modest so he wondered WHY i liked him (what's there to like?) so then from then on i was very shy and like a chicken to talk (i still am lol) and so we kind of drifted from talking even though i saw him everyday. ok well everyone thinks he's trying to get to know me more b/c he knows i like him. he said that youc ant like someone unless you know them well so i think hes trying to get to know me,to see what would happen. well, he started now tosit and talk like during a class and sat close. well my friend thinks that he likes me, and that he's trying to get to know me. well, she and i and everyone were wrong before and i just don'tto do. id on't know if i should believe it or what to do. please help! ANY advice of anything. even if its just simple!
(sorry about the length!)
xoxoxo (link)
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hey, it ounds to me as if he does like you, but is shy like you. What I think you should do is just ask him straight out do you like me? Because belive me that guys will lose interest and if you keep going on just by hardly talking he'll start to think that you lot interest.
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Nat
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i like this guy but i alwayse make excuses not to see him. I broke up with my last boyfriend, and it was really bad. I think i'm just scared this new guy will hurt my feelings again. What should i do? (link)
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hey its me well Ive been in the same possision your in b4 but all you can do is follow what you think is the right thing. I mean maybe he won't be as bad as the other guy, get to know him and you might be surprised with what you find out.
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Nat
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this question is kinda complex...but im gonna try and make it as simple as possible...Basicaly i see myself as getting less and less attractive by the day lol, and im getting the idea that the girls are thinking the same thing. See, i used to be pretty damn popular and liked by the ladies, and i still am, but its waring off, and im not getting the attention i used to, which is fine, but im wondering.....is a girl gonna loose interest in me based more on my looks getting better or worse...or are they gonna stick around for my personality????? Thanks, adam (link)
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If you thinkyour getting less atractive and girls are leaving you b/c of your look then they're not your true friends. But the ones that are still sticking around and are acting the same are your true friends. In other words in the end whoever is still stickinking w/u are what you call friends. Let me know how it goes
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Nat
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ok so i went out with this girl (we'll call her jane) ok so me and jane started goin out last year march 20th 2003 and we were good for the first 3 months talkin and hangin out like we were meant for each other and really havin a good time then she broke up with me but i kept goin at it and we started goin back out keepin our original date so bout 9 months into the relationship shyt started gettin bad and we hardley ever talked, hung out or nethin but we still loved each other and shyt but when we talked we constantly fought.. so when march 20th came up this year it would have been a year and i thought that was pretty special idk maybe that sounds gay cuz imma guy but i really thought it was special and i wanted to spend time with her and everythin.. but we didnt talk or see each other at all and she didnt even call me so i got mad like ne other person would.. so we talk the next day and shes actin like nothins wrong so i get tired of it and i ask her if she still loves me and all that and shes like i love u but i dont have the same feelings for u nemore so i was like iight well then i dont wann go out with u nemore..... so its been over 3 months since we broke up but im in love with her and i dont wann let her outta my life ya kno so i keep goin at it but she stays at sayin that shes not ready for a relationship and so my question is....should i keep goin at it with her or just move on?
thanx
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hey I know what your going through and my advice is to try to move on i know you might think this is cheap advice but it's the best thing you can do. If that doesn't work then let her know what your feeling r 4her, by doing something romantic for her like flowers or write her a poem or send her a card or a bear, maybe the only reaon she didn't feel the same was b/c you weren't being romantic enough so she probably thought you ddn't feel the same.
let me know how it goes
always
Natalie
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once a cheater, always a cheater?? TRUE OR FALSE? (link)
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that is so true
love
nat
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ok..there is this guy, and ive gone out with him a couple times now, but then he dumped me the last time for no reason. i tell people im over him, but im really not. and when im w/ him he makes it seem like he still likes me, but then online hes really mean to me and will just start yelling at me for no reason?? what should i do?..
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Bealeive me i know just how you feel it's hard to 4get someone like that. i was w/this one guy that made me feel so special. When we were alone he made me feel great, but when he was around his friends he acted like a jerk, i gave him 7 chances and it still didn't work out. The best thing you can do is talk to him tell him how you feel and if that doen't work out you can do better
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