Question Posted Thursday January 27 2005, 10:23 pm
(sorry for the length, in advance, but i really want advice :)) hey! ok here's the thing. i like love this guy that i know and all ithink about is him. well until like a month ago i thought he liked me (he knows i like him, he asked me, so i told him) because he had all the signs like would sit next to me and like look at me, you know the whole "flirting" type of thing and all my friends thought he liked me and i thought so, too, i have to admit it and i'm very, uh, what's the word oh yeah modest. but then my friends told him i liked him and then he asked me so i told him and he, too, is modest so he wondered WHY i liked him (what's there to like?) so then from then on i was very shy and like a chicken to talk (i still am lol) and so we kind of drifted from talking even though i saw him everyday. ok well everyone thinks he's trying to get to know me more b/c he knows i like him. he said that youc ant like someone unless you know them well so i think hes trying to get to know me,to see what would happen. well, he started now tosit and talk like during a class and sat close. well my friend thinks that he likes me, and that he's trying to get to know me. well, she and i and everyone were wrong before and i just don'tto do. id on't know if i should believe it or what to do. please help! ANY advice of anything. even if its just simple!
Like everyone else is saying.. ask him if he likes you back. It's that simple, if he says yes... cool, talk to him, get to know him, and go out with him. Most likely he's not gonna flat out tell you NO if he doesn't like you... that'd be pretty messed up to do that. But if he is kind of stand off-ish and avoiding the question... odds are he doesn't like you... or he's really shy, but he doesn't sound like he's a shy perso from what you've told us. Good luck with it... [ that_1_guy's advice column | Ask that_1_guy A Question ]
Dr_Thom answered Thursday January 27 2005, 11:07 pm: you'll never know what to do until you get both sides of the story. ask him if he likes you or not. you have to find that out before continuing. [ Dr_Thom's advice column | Ask Dr_Thom A Question ]
hElpiiShErE answered Thursday January 27 2005, 10:56 pm: ask him if he likes you or not..thats gonna keep happening until either he does something or you do something..you should ask him xOx risSii [ hElpiiShErE's advice column | Ask hElpiiShErE A Question ]
dancinqueen08 answered Thursday January 27 2005, 10:43 pm: He probably does like you, but wants to talk to you to make sure. Just keep getting to know him and him you and time will tell what will come of it. He doesn't seem like the type to lead anyone on, so if he likes you (or doesn't like you), he will tell you eventually. Good luck. [ dancinqueen08's advice column | Ask dancinqueen08 A Question ]
jzchillen answered Thursday January 27 2005, 10:29 pm: hey, it ounds to me as if he does like you, but is shy like you. What I think you should do is just ask him straight out do you like me? Because belive me that guys will lose interest and if you keep going on just by hardly talking he'll start to think that you lot interest.
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