Question Posted Thursday January 27 2005, 10:13 pm
(15/f) My friend totally didn't invite me to his 16th birthday party. It's actually a couple of us that weren't invited, we're all on his tennis team and we've known him since 7th grade when I showed him around the school, on his first day. We hung out a lot freshman year, not As much this year but still. I saw him everyday. nI actually went through a stage of liking the kid, and he liked me for awhile to. Basically, we've *my friends and I that weren't invited* laughed about it but it still hurts! How can we 'jokingly' approach him about it?
xohsusannaxo answered Thursday January 27 2005, 11:23 pm: abolutely! i would sweetly consolt him about it. he will understand. just (as my mom always says) kill him with kindness! it always works. :)
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Reesespieces022 answered Thursday January 27 2005, 11:13 pm: Go up to him and just be like...listen, im not mad, just a little hurt. whats the deal? even if your really mad, just play it off and be calm. your more likely to get an honest answer, rather than him just trying to defend himself. if he gives you a ligitimate, honest sounding answer, be the bigger person and tell him you understand, but that he might wanna consider some of his friends feelings next time he decides to just avoid the topic. if he gives you some bullshit answer, than tell him you really thought he was more considerate than that...and walk away. as long as you stay totally cool, you'll have a bigger effect on him than if you yell at him. [ Reesespieces022's advice column | Ask Reesespieces022 A Question ]
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