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I'm 15 and i like my best guy friend
I have a little problem.
I Like my bestest guy friend ever. His Name is mike, i don't mind if you kno his name, but anyway. I asked him out and now he is like avoiding me or sumthing. It is weird.... When i asked him out he said.." Umm, let me think that thru a little." and i dunno why he can't just be like no or yes. and i think by him saying that, it is a definet NO! and since he won't talk to me and is like never online and isn't home when i call him, i dunno what to think..
what should i do?
- Signed
In guy trouble
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Ouch. The thing you have to remember here is:What would you mean if you had said that? If he liked you,he would've immediately answered yes i like you and i wanna go out with you. Your instincts are correct:he doesn't like you and he just doesn't know how to say it. He's probably a little weirded out by the fact that he knows it now. But don't worry,this happened to me in February and now i hate the bitch. You'll get over it.
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Dear in guy troubl,
cute name btw! lol! umm wat u should do... im not a expert or anything but i think most people hav gone tru the liking ther best friend thing and its sux usualy. he obviously really likes u as a frend and is very confused. i think his problem is that he doesnt like u "that" way. this sux and im sry about it. but it kinda sux for him to cus now he doesnt no how to act around u cus hes afraid that 1)he will hurt ur feelings or 2)it will just b awkward. in my opinion u should tell him that if he doesnt like u its fine and that u stil want to go back to being them same frends that u wer and that u dont want it to b wierd or anything.write me sum time!
hope it all works out
<3fran
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Well i would tell him you thought it over and you dont want to risk the friendship so you are just going to call its quits from where it was and thats will probably get him back to talking to ya again but you really got to think about him if you dont want to lose a friend exspeacially a best friend at that-trix
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TO: In guy trouble
as i sed to the last person before you gib him some time and space...who noes mehbe hes not into getting in a relationship rite now er if he is mehbe he has his own reasons...gib like two er three weeks and if you still get no reply then talk to him face to face and tell him you wanna noe there and then...ya noe?
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I think its weird.. that happened to me in a way and personally I got freaked out by it.. im sure he felt the same way.. when u are close with someone in a FRIEND kind of way to me it would be like dating someone kind of like my sister.. and for me thats weird.. but. im not really sure what his preference is!
Kyle
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<span style="background: url([Link](Mouse over link to see full location); Aww. I think he just got freaked out by this. He might think that this will screw up the friendship you have with him or that he is just not interested in dating and wants to keep it on a friend-based level. And there is nothing wrong with that. Whenever you get a hold of him ask him what he is feeling. Tell him to be honest because then you will know exactly what he wants. He could be giving you hints that he doesn't want to go out with you without telling you. But don't just assume. Find out from himf or sure so that you know. Give him time to think it through if he needs to, and maybe you can think about it too. And if it is worth the risk of losing your friendship. I hope things work out for you and him! Love you! -Mandee </span>
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Dear In guy trouble,
It seems to me like this guy might be a little nervous of being more than just friends. I'm really sorry that he wont talk to you or give you a plain yes or no. Whenever you get the chance to talk to him, ask him if it makes him feel uncomfortable to be more than friends or if he even likes you in return. Guys are really shy when it comes to their feelings and with something new like this. I bet he didnt know what to say because he was in shock and very surprised, not because he was trying to be nice and not say no. The best thing to do now is be patient and give him a chance to think and then talk to him. He'll come around! Good luck hun!!
LoVe,
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