Question Posted Thursday December 23 2004, 7:38 pm
my best friend likes my ex-boyfriend and i still like him too.. but i was the one who broke up with him.. i told her i didnt still like him because she really likes him and he likes her back! but im pretty sure he still likes me because he still acts like it. i am fine with my best friend going out with him because she actually asked me before but i will just be so sad.. i dont know what to do!
CoKeIzZle answered Friday December 24 2004, 7:15 pm: U might wanna try to accept it and move on. there are more guysz and i think your friend wants her chance.there r probably other guys out there that like u!Hope I helped!Happy Holidays too! ~*NiCoLe*~ [ CoKeIzZle's advice column | Ask CoKeIzZle A Question ]
ThugGirl041790 answered Friday December 24 2004, 3:04 pm: Well me and my friends have like this thng like once you gone wit somebody and had feelings for em none my friends is allowed to go wit em.. but you should probably do something like that wit your friends cause it will probably lead to more then you jus bein sad you probably dont think that now but you might get jealous or something seein em together.. so i hope i helped.. Baby D [ ThugGirl041790's advice column | Ask ThugGirl041790 A Question ]
bAhAmAmA0250 answered Friday December 24 2004, 3:03 pm: Day-Ja voo! This happaned to me actually. Cept we broke up because it was a mutual thing. I just told myself that they wont go out forever and i highly doubt that anything will go to far. I was right they broke up like a month later and i had already moved on. I was in a serious relationship and she always told me she wouldnt go out with him unless she got the word from me that I didnt care. So just know that they probably wont go and if he had true feelings for you they wouldnt go out. Maybe you could just let your best friend know that you still like him and let her make the decision but dont let a boy come between you guys. Happy Holidays!! Trix [ bAhAmAmA0250's advice column | Ask bAhAmAmA0250 A Question ]
Shortie8959 answered Friday December 24 2004, 10:12 am: You just have to learn to accept it. Try being happy for her. The best way to get over him is to find another guy of your own. There's probably a whole line of guys who want to go out with you! Good luck!
Hope I helped!
Happy Holidays!
~*Erin*~ [ Shortie8959's advice column | Ask Shortie8959 A Question ]
iggyl27 answered Thursday December 23 2004, 11:01 pm: you could tell your friend to not b all over him while your around but try not to split then up bc you did give her the ok that she cold go out with him [ iggyl27's advice column | Ask iggyl27 A Question ]
onlythebestadvice answered Thursday December 23 2004, 10:54 pm: That was a bit hard to follow...but I caught the jist of it. Your friend should know that ex-boyfriends are absolutley OFF LIMITS! No matter what. It's one of the many laws of best friends. If she doesnt know that, then tell her the truth,that you still like him and that you would be really hurt if she dated him. If she gets upset...screw her... [ onlythebestadvice's advice column | Ask onlythebestadvice A Question ]
lyDia_LoU answered Thursday December 23 2004, 10:52 pm: First, you shouldn't have lied to your friend. She didn't want to hurt you and wanted to ask you first. There's nothing you can do anymore, sorry but you'll have to deal with it when or if they date. sorry! but good luck! Aw and i'm sorry that sounded really harsh [ lyDia_LoU's advice column | Ask lyDia_LoU A Question ]
tish answered Thursday December 23 2004, 10:45 pm: hey there,i think that you should accept the fact that your boy friend has moved on and that you should find a next guy that you like and go with him your a great girl and a great friend any guy would be lucky to go out with you .-tish [ tish's advice column | Ask tish A Question ]
bRiTtRoCkSoHaRd answered Thursday December 23 2004, 10:01 pm: Hey Hun,
All you can do is tell your friend about how you REALLY feel about him, and DON'T HOLD BACK! I've been in this situation before, if you want anymore advice Email me @ tomdelonge182_@hotmail.com or IM me @ brittrocksohard. Hope it helped!
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