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I know everyone is asking about OCD..but I just have a question from reading their questions. Is one of the symptoms of OCD when you don't like to share? If yes, why is that? Is the "not sharing" thing heavy..like do you not share at all, or just a little bit? Thanks for the details. (link)
Why? Do YOU not share? Do YOU have OCD?


do you think its better to fit in and go agianst yur own beliefs OR to be a little ""less popular"" and do what you want to do? i am stuck in between. (link)
Be a freak..It's more fun that way. And please, for my sake and for the sake of everyone else reading this...Learn how to freaking spell.


I want to have sex with my boyfriend but he doesn't even live in my state and i love him but im only 16 and idk if he'll cheat on me if i dont have sex with him im worried he'll cheat but i love him withall my heart and i think im ready i just dont wanna get pregnant or stds...help. (link)
If you have sex you WILL get pregnant and you WILL get chylmidia


Ok, I have this friend that I have gone out with twice. We always hang out. He is my best friend, and I can tell him anything, and he can tell me anything, as well, or at least it seems this way. We act the same as we do when we're going out, just less affectionate. I have heard from several people that he still likes me, as juvenile as that sounds. They say that he is afraid to 'make me sad again' because he has broken up with me both times we went out, and I was sad about it both times. I feel depressed when I am not around him; being with him, whether we are going out or not, just feels right. I'm afraid to tell him that I like him, because I am afraid of him not liking me back. This sounds like a classic, doesn't it? But really, I don't know what to do... I'm just a stupid girl. (link)
If you really like him you should just go for it sister! If you've heard from your friends it might be right but it never hurts to take chances anyway. Live life on the seat of your pants!!


My best friend is pretty than me, more popular than me, smarter than me, funnier than me, just BETTER than me. And the thing is...I'm EXTREMELY jealous of her, to the point I get MAD at her when she gets more attention than me!! I mean I don't show it, but inside of me I wanna yell at her. I don't know whats the matter with me!! Today, my band teacher offered to my best friend that he would loan her the skill sax if I wanted to teach her how to play (the saxophone) so then she can join the band. I want her in band because it would be way FUNNER, but now I'm thinking I DONT want her in band. She'll be better than me, prettier than me, funner than me, and nobody will care about ME anymore! I'm so worried. But most of all I'm mad at MYSELF! I dont like getting mad and being jealous of leille but I can't help it!! Any tips on how to stop myself from getting jealous, then mad, at leille? (link)
If you really care that much, stop being friends with her. If you don't want to give up that friendship then STOP THINKING ABOUT YOU SO MUCH! Nobody will just forget about you alright?


my best friend likes my ex-boyfriend and i still like him too.. but i was the one who broke up with him.. i told her i didnt still like him because she really likes him and he likes her back! but im pretty sure he still likes me because he still acts like it. i am fine with my best friend going out with him because she actually asked me before but i will just be so sad.. i dont know what to do!
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That was a bit hard to follow...but I caught the jist of it. Your friend should know that ex-boyfriends are absolutley OFF LIMITS! No matter what. It's one of the many laws of best friends. If she doesnt know that, then tell her the truth,that you still like him and that you would be really hurt if she dated him. If she gets upset...screw her...


I just turned 14 and I am wondering how far most people go with a guy at this age? like what would you consider reasonable?? I havent done much with guys so far but if the time was right I want to know my limits!!! whats idea of a 14 yr old? (link)
NOthing!!! Absolutley nothing! YOU SLUT!!!














I'd say making out... or like...3rd base?


I'm 15 and kinda flat chested and I hate it cuz I don't fill out my clothes very well and I just wanna look good in my clothes and like im going to a wedding in a few months and I look so stupid in dresses becuz I look so flat, is there a way, like any exercises or foods or anything to make my boobs bigger? I heard that eating corn makes ur boobs grow.. is that true? (link)
Excersising will not make your boobs bigger. It will actually make them smaller so if I were you I would steer clear from working out. Yellow dye number five I hear makes your boobs bigger and yellow M&M's have that in them..so eat a lot of those. I was going to suggest a padded bra, but you decided to be difficult and say no padded bras....It's up to you now kid.


me and my boyfriend want to have sex.. but we want to have it somewhere where there wont be any parents. we aren't old enough to rent a hotel room.. have our own car.. etc. any ideas? (link)
If your not old enough to have a car, you're not old enough to have sex! Shame on you! God is watching!!


iz ther a certain wayy to makeout? like how DO you makeout?! someone said to bit they guys lip or like stick their tongue ACTUALLY down their throt? im sooooooooo stuuuck! (link)
Wow....I don't even know how to answer this. Um...The first time I made out it just kind of came natural. Don't worry and when the time comes, just let it flow. And by the way, "iz" is actually spelt with an 's' ....not a 'z'


Is is normal for the average teenager (only child) to cry at least once a day when she's by herself in her room. And being an only child has a big issue. I came to realize that I cry everyday. Sometimes more than once. I do it in private though because I don't want people to see me. I guess my biggest reason is my parents, and the fact that I'm sick of being the center of their lives...I've gotten to the point where I feel a lot of pain in me, but I can't take it out on anyone but myself. It all seems really stupid, because it all comes from my parents. They don't beat me, and they're not necessarily "overprotective" or anything, I just hate being the only one they have to worry about... I've gotten to the point where I don't know what to do. I can't even tell them I want to seek professional help, which is what I really want--thats how distant I feel. I don't know what to do.... (link)
Every teenager goes through this. It is a normal stage, it will pass, I promise. Just look on the bright side of things and it will all pass.


Can I please have suggestions or recipes for some good holiday treats I can bake, but ones that aren't too hard to cook or prepare? Thanks. (link)
OH I love cookin'. Before my mom past she gave me her cook book chock full of yummy recipes. Now, this recipe is easy AND very yummy. Find or buy a muffin tin, but they need to be the minnie kind,not like regular muffin tins,but smaller. also get some choclate chip cookie dough, and small reeses. put the cookie dough in the muffin tins and bake them. while they are baking you should start unwrapping the reeses because right when the cookies get out you need to stick the reeses in the center of the cookies and let them cool. they make for a yummy holiday treat! Good luck!


I have some weird red acne on my...rump. Is there ANY WAY to get rid of it? I shower every day, and i dont know why its there, its gross! PLEASE HELP! (link)
Well honey, you're not the only one with this problem darlin'. Some acne is caused by sweating and one of the best ways to fix this is to see a dermatologist. You may be embarassed but it WILL help and everything is confidential and you won't regret it!




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