Question Posted Thursday December 23 2004, 7:46 pm
I just turned 14 and I am wondering how far most people go with a guy at this age? like what would you consider reasonable?? I havent done much with guys so far but if the time was right I want to know my limits!!! whats idea of a 14 yr old?
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? S_C answered Friday December 24 2004, 8:02 am: Well, I say making out is fine for your age. Go as far as you are comfortable. I mean if you're comfortable with having oral sex, have oral sex. Just know that you can get STDs such as
syphilis(sp?) from oral. And I think sex would be too far because then you have chances of pregnancy and STDs, so for now making out and whatever you're comfortable with, just not sex. You'll find a lot of 14 year olds aren't virgins, especially in high school, but it's better to wait until you can handle the consequences... [ S_C's advice column | Ask S_C A Question ]
common_sense answered Thursday December 23 2004, 11:23 pm: dont take it to far....u got alot of tym u are still young...just go as far as making out...but if u decide to go that far use protection and remind urslef about the consequenses that can happen hope i helped *common sense* [ common_sense's advice column | Ask common_sense A Question ]
Makoto answered Thursday December 23 2004, 11:21 pm: In my opinion a 14 year old should NOT go beyond making out. Being a guy, i know how they think. Making out would be America and "the beyond" would be the Sun. Don't let any guy do anything that would make you feel uncomfortable. And don't set your standards to low because somethings lead to other things. [ Makoto's advice column | Ask Makoto A Question ]
lyDia_LoU answered Thursday December 23 2004, 11:16 pm: Damn... I read those answers some of those girls are pretttty slutty. I wouldn't go father then making out.. if you do then by the time you're like 18 you'd prolly be having sex with random guys and wind up pregnant. [ lyDia_LoU's advice column | Ask lyDia_LoU A Question ]
iggyl27 answered Thursday December 23 2004, 10:54 pm: grls at your age have probably gone far but for my advice dont becasue you will regret it sooner or later. i say go up to making out with a guy you dont need anything else and if the guy doesnt want that then hes not for you. [ iggyl27's advice column | Ask iggyl27 A Question ]
xxxxxx answered Thursday December 23 2004, 10:53 pm: no more than kissing. people are going way too far these days. back in the 40's it would be like a sin to even think of doing anything. [ xxxxxx's advice column | Ask xxxxxx A Question ]
onlythebestadvice answered Thursday December 23 2004, 10:50 pm: NOthing!!! Absolutley nothing! YOU SLUT!!!
tish answered Thursday December 23 2004, 10:37 pm: i think that your limits well be at kissing thats as far as im going!!!!!!!-tish [ tish's advice column | Ask tish A Question ]
jamziix16 answered Thursday December 23 2004, 10:09 pm: there is no ideal stage for a 14-year olds sex life. i'm 14 .. i have friends that aren't virgins, they have done everything but that, and some haven't even had boyfriends right now. ha u don't have limits.. just do whatever. don't go off of what everyone else is doing :o) hope i've helped [ jamziix16's advice column | Ask jamziix16 A Question ]
Karen answered Thursday December 23 2004, 9:36 pm: Everyone is different! Some people start having sex at the age of 12 and 13! Most people at the age of 14 usually either made out with someone or have given/received oral sex! Some people actually don't do anything! Hope I helped :)
-Karen [ Karen's advice column | Ask Karen A Question ]
Attention: NOTHING on this site may be reproduced in any fashion whatsoever without explicit consent (in writing) of the owner of said material, unless otherwise stated on the page where the content originated. Search engines are free to index and cache our content. Users who post their account names or personal information in their questions have no expectation of privacy beyond that point for anything they disclose. Questions are otherwise considered anonymous to the general public.