ok i have this ex who is always trying to get back with me but is also always hitting me and leaving marks. I know it makes me sound stupid but i still keep coming back to him, i cant help it i still like him. Is there any advice someone can give me out there and by the way this is monkeygirls friend not her!!
GroverTheStoNer answered Friday December 31 2004, 5:17 pm: Why do you like him? He's hitting you! Sure, he may be the hottest thing in the world, but HE IS NOT WORTH IT. He's a jackass, and I could have said more, but I chose not to, lol. Stay far away from him, don't look at him at all. This guy has issues and ovbiously doesn't know how to treat a girl. Tell him that you will call somebody if he ever even gets near you again...Listen to us! DO NOT GO BACK TO THAT LOSER! You deserve somebody so much better...Hope everything gets better...:)
*Randy T* ((Toni)) [ GroverTheStoNer's advice column | Ask GroverTheStoNer A Question ]
RainbowPolkaDots answered Friday December 31 2004, 5:06 pm: Sweetie, you need to distance yourself from him. It's not going to be easy because you like him and because he might not take well to you leaving him. You can do better, and you need to not see him for your own safety. A guy like that will mess with your mind. He can make you feel worthless, and he can ruin your life. It may sound like I'm over-exxagerating, but sticking with a guy who beats you could lead to this. You can do so, so much better; You really can. You should go out and meet new guys, hang out with your friends. Make yourself busy so you don't have the time to miss him and think about him. Eventually you'll get over him. Good luck! [ RainbowPolkaDots's advice column | Ask RainbowPolkaDots A Question ]
iggyl27 answered Friday December 31 2004, 5:04 pm: ok dont ever let a guy hit you again..there no one to do that to you. if they hit you they dont care about you..they might say they do but they dont..its gonna be hard forgetting him but remember your always hurt more than your happy. [ iggyl27's advice column | Ask iggyl27 A Question ]
Don't even BOTHER liking this guy. They may say they are sorry and trash, but they NEVER change. They hit you once, they WILL do it again. Why should you like a guy that abuses you?? You could have so much better... :)
You can HELP not to like him... :)
Hope I helped :)
Pura Morena
xo0x adriana [ x0x_surfergirl_x0x's advice column | Ask x0x_surfergirl_x0x A Question ]
CaLiEnTeBaYbEe answered Friday December 31 2004, 4:51 pm: okay....get away from him...if hes hitting you it will only get worse...its like that episode of degrassi...i dont know if youve ever seen it but the girl got really hurt....just get away from him...i know it will prolly be hard but still...do you enjoy getting smacked around? just tell him that your not going to hangout with him because he hits you... [ CaLiEnTeBaYbEe's advice column | Ask CaLiEnTeBaYbEe A Question ]
Karen answered Friday December 31 2004, 4:46 pm: You don't deserve a guy like that! Try to stay away from him. Try not to think about him so you won't go back for him. If a guy hits you, it means that they don't care about you. Seriously, stay away from him. Hope I helped :)
-Karen [ Karen's advice column | Ask Karen A Question ]
oxbrOkendr3amsxo answered Friday December 31 2004, 4:38 pm: Try staying away from him. Hang out with your good friends more. Maybe you'll forget about him. Maybe your friends will introduce you to someone else.
habituallysecure answered Friday December 31 2004, 4:36 pm: Oh my. Get out of the situation!!! HE HITS YOU!!!!!!!!!!!! I've seen teen girls in my school who were in the same situation, they're dead now! Ah if he hurts you he doesn't care about you. =( [ habituallysecure's advice column | Ask habituallysecure A Question ]
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