My parents know i cut. And since then they have monitered me. Checking every once and so to make sure i haven't, i stopped. for a good week or two. no more cutting. i didnt need to. i jsut cried or did something else. but i had to the other night. i cut my shoulder. not deep not a lot. just enough. i woke up this morning with a sick feeling. my mom checked my shoulders today. found them. she started crying. she's tried to hard to give a perfect life and she has. im just to messed up to see that. it hurts her so bad everytime. i tear all our trust away and i hate it. I HATE CUTTING. but those who arent cutters dont understand. its almost addicting. u have to keep pouring your emotions out this way. you have too. usualy i dont even have a good reason so cut. i just need to. i might get sent to a mental house or just punished at the house. i was warned if i cut agian i'd never be allowed on the internet agian. so pleae some one help
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Health & Fitness category? Maybe give some free advice about: Mental health? MakalahLea answered Friday December 31 2004, 5:11 pm: You say that you hate cutting and your parents are already involved. If you do not want to be sent away suggest to your parents that you start seeing a therapist/counselor. If they are unsure how to find one, tell them to speak to a counselor at your school. They should be able to recommend someone that specializes in this problem and is local, eliminating your need to be sent off but getting you help at the same time. I think that since you recognize that you have a problem and you do seem to want help, putting you into an institution would be more detrimental than helpful. Tell your parents that you know you have a problem, that you want help and that you want to be near them so that they can help you through this. They can get involved with your counselling and help you follow the routine recommended by your therapist/counselor.
Toxicxoxo answered Friday December 31 2004, 4:49 pm: I used to cut myself everyonce in a while and i still have a few scars... its painful but it satisfies your needs to scream inside... my suggestion is to always keep yourself busy. try taking on a hobby that you love to do that will keep you happy and it will put your mind off trying to stop or doing it again... i hope everything turns out okay hope I helped ♥ Lexi [ Toxicxoxo's advice column | Ask Toxicxoxo A Question ]
Helper answered Friday December 31 2004, 4:39 pm: C'mon dude
its not right
Take Xtreme sports. THe PAIN of falling is as fun as cutting. plus you gain a bit of reflexes.
habituallysecure answered Friday December 31 2004, 4:35 pm: I used to be the same way. Trust me, i've had many friends go into a home and they hate it. It hurts you and everyone around you. What i did to stop was realize how many people cared and i did something. I took a piece of wood and a blade and anytime i felt like cutting i'd cut into the wood. It made me feel so much better. I helped my friend stop too. We found what she loved to do to take her mind off it. We drew on her walls. Its pretty relaxing when you stop and you won't feel so guilty. Hope i helped
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