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me and my friend got into this huge fight!!! over gym class!! it was sooo stupid!.....now she deosnt talk to me!....how do i confront her abuot this....
help me and i will rate you....you can also answer this in my advice coulmn....but pelase help!!
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If it were me and my friend i'd write a note or just corner her and say this is stupid, you're my best friend and i care about you too much to let it end like this. Tell her just how you feel. If you really care about her and shes your best friend it's not worth losing what you have over something like gym class. hope i helped.
-nikole
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ok i have this ex who is always trying to get back with me but is also always hitting me and leaving marks. I know it makes me sound stupid but i still keep coming back to him, i cant help it i still like him. Is there any advice someone can give me out there and by the way this is monkeygirls friend not her!! (link)
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Oh my. Get out of the situation!!! HE HITS YOU!!!!!!!!!!!! I've seen teen girls in my school who were in the same situation, they're dead now! Ah if he hurts you he doesn't care about you. =(
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My parents know i cut. And since then they have monitered me. Checking every once and so to make sure i haven't, i stopped. for a good week or two. no more cutting. i didnt need to. i jsut cried or did something else. but i had to the other night. i cut my shoulder. not deep not a lot. just enough. i woke up this morning with a sick feeling. my mom checked my shoulders today. found them. she started crying. she's tried to hard to give a perfect life and she has. im just to messed up to see that. it hurts her so bad everytime. i tear all our trust away and i hate it. I HATE CUTTING. but those who arent cutters dont understand. its almost addicting. u have to keep pouring your emotions out this way. you have too. usualy i dont even have a good reason so cut. i just need to. i might get sent to a mental house or just punished at the house. i was warned if i cut agian i'd never be allowed on the internet agian. so pleae some one help (link)
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I used to be the same way. Trust me, i've had many friends go into a home and they hate it. It hurts you and everyone around you. What i did to stop was realize how many people cared and i did something. I took a piece of wood and a blade and anytime i felt like cutting i'd cut into the wood. It made me feel so much better. I helped my friend stop too. We found what she loved to do to take her mind off it. We drew on her walls. Its pretty relaxing when you stop and you won't feel so guilty. Hope i helped
-nikole
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I hate school so much and i am trying to get in a new school but i think my principles hate me or something they are so mean to me and i cant stand it! Well I need someones help what would you do if you were in this situation?
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I don't exactly understand your situation here. Did you talk to them about it? Or are you just assumin they hate you? Did you investigate other schools? Do you have parents to talk to about it? Or friends that can help you out?
From the little information: i would probably find a friend to go with me for support. Talk to the principles nicely (i'm not saying you didn't talk to them nicely) or tell them your concerns on why you want to change schools, and maybe they can help you find a better choice or improve the one you're in. Chances are if you don't like your school there are others who hate it also.
Hope i helped.
-nikole
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hey i need your help i just saw the guy that i lost my virginity too and havent seen for 5 months. He started flirting with me again and told me he never meant the stupid shit he said in the past. He then told me that i could call him whenever i wanted and if he ever hurt me again he would let me kick him where it counts. Then he said he loved me dont call me stupid or anything but i really love this guy. do you think he was just telling me that to get down my pants or somthing please help me i really am confused and it actually hurts realyl bad! (link)
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Well maybe you need to go into this a little more. I'd give him a call and see what he really wants. If he hints that he wants to have sex, you take it from there. But i wouldn't jump the gun quite yet. Give him a chance, especially since you don't know what he wants ( you back or some lovin'). Hope i helped.
-nikole
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okay, Me and this guy have been together 9 months tommorow..nd I love him more then anything it is a long distance relationship which sucks, and i never thought this would work out, but it has been..I see him 2 or more times a month because my gramother lives down there and soon he ll be able to drive, but anywho I really feel like he loves me, when im with him we lay together and he holds me soo tight and tells me how much he loves me and its like perfect..soo anyway about 4 months ago he dumped me or we *took a break* and he went out with this girl that lived down there named kirsten..and i was very upset but then 2 days later he called me back and at that point i didn't even wanna talk to him but anyway he said that he dumped her because he loved me and it took him this to see that he really does and i was completly understandable about that and we were only togethr for 5 months..okay that is along time but ?..so neway we got back to gether and everything was going great then 2 weeks ago he seemed weird like he was alway s like ill cal you back and never would but then it ended soo i thought u no he was busy..well he just admitted that he liked this taylor girl and she is very pretty but shes a flrt who gets guys to like her then doesnt go out wit then but then i found out she liked him soo i told him and he like said ill call you back soo he got online he didnt talk to me but taylor was on soo i figured he was asking her if it was true so then he called me saying he wants me to think about are relationship and maybe we should take a break i cried and stuff and he said ill call you back well he called me back and said he was an idiot he doesnt want lose me then that nite i foudn out that he called her nad was tallkign to her and her friend for awile so i asked him abotu it and he tod me that he had feelings for her again but there all gone and i said you know you shouldnt even be thinking about other girls and he said im sorry and then i went to see him 3 days lata and everything was perfect and he kept telling me he was soo stupid and im soo beautiful and everything too make you feel good about yourself and everything seems fine but im afraid he mite do it again..soo anyway sorry this story goes on long there is this other guy named nick who this past fall i hung out with alot at these dances thats where i met him adn we got rele close and i almost dumped my bf for him bc hes soo sweet to me nd well we ve kept in touch and stuff i mean he lives here lol soo i can see him whenever but mi bf doesn tlike him bc he knows that he lieks me alot this nick kid he always tells me how much he wants to be wit me and that he loves me and im alway slike im sorry..u no and everyone tells me that mi boyfriends treats mme like shit and i dont deserve it but he doesnt he jus has in the past..so am i being stupid should i dump him and move on? or stay wit the guy that im rele in love with but mite hurt me in the past?
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Well. If it was me, I'd dump your bf. I would be totally fed up with the nonsense he's been feeding. I mean, saying he'll call and never does, or ignoring you... I wouldn't deal with that. If you're interested in this guy Nick, go for it. Why are you waiting around for the other one when you know he's going to hurt you AGAIN? It just seems like he's playing with your mind.
-nikole
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