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what should i do
okay, Me and this guy have been together 9 months tommorow..nd I love him more then anything it is a long distance relationship which sucks, and i never thought this would work out, but it has been..I see him 2 or more times a month because my gramother lives down there and soon he ll be able to drive, but anywho I really feel like he loves me, when im with him we lay together and he holds me soo tight and tells me how much he loves me and its like perfect..soo anyway about 4 months ago he dumped me or we *took a break* and he went out with this girl that lived down there named kirsten..and i was very upset but then 2 days later he called me back and at that point i didn't even wanna talk to him but anyway he said that he dumped her because he loved me and it took him this to see that he really does and i was completly understandable about that and we were only togethr for 5 months..okay that is along time but ?..so neway we got back to gether and everything was going great then 2 weeks ago he seemed weird like he was alway s like ill cal you back and never would but then it ended soo i thought u no he was busy..well he just admitted that he liked this taylor girl and she is very pretty but shes a flrt who gets guys to like her then doesnt go out wit then but then i found out she liked him soo i told him and he like said ill call you back soo he got online he didnt talk to me but taylor was on soo i figured he was asking her if it was true so then he called me saying he wants me to think about are relationship and maybe we should take a break i cried and stuff and he said ill call you back well he called me back and said he was an idiot he doesnt want lose me then that nite i foudn out that he called her nad was tallkign to her and her friend for awile so i asked him abotu it and he tod me that he had feelings for her again but there all gone and i said you know you shouldnt even be thinking about other girls and he said im sorry and then i went to see him 3 days lata and everything was perfect and he kept telling me he was soo stupid and im soo beautiful and everything too make you feel good about yourself and everything seems fine but im afraid he mite do it again..soo anyway sorry this story goes on long there is this other guy named nick who this past fall i hung out with alot at these dances thats where i met him adn we got rele close and i almost dumped my bf for him bc hes soo sweet to me nd well we ve kept in touch and stuff i mean he lives here lol soo i can see him whenever but mi bf doesn tlike him bc he knows that he lieks me alot this nick kid he always tells me how much he wants to be wit me and that he loves me and im alway slike im sorry..u no and everyone tells me that mi boyfriends treats mme like shit and i dont deserve it but he doesnt he jus has in the past..so am i being stupid should i dump him and move on? or stay wit the guy that im rele in love with but mite hurt me in the past?
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ok hun, lets look at the facts. your boyfriend almost left you for some girl that flirts with everyone and he knew she wasnt good for him. and now you like a guy that really sweet and wants to be with you and you obviously like him. your boyfriend...and taylor...with them, she probably turned him down and thats why he called you all sucking up and stuff. i say if he does it again then dump him, nick is right. you dont deserve that. but make sure you keep in touch with nick becuase he is a potential boyfriend. he could be very good for you. just dont break up with ur boyfriend on a holiday or very close to it. thats not nice lol. good luck and keep me posted.
*~Carrie~*
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Sweetie,
Dump your boyfriend and go out with Nick...If you want if not stay with your boyfriend but it's just gonna up with you heartbroken...Nick seems really sweet..But I can't tell you what to do because yeah I have made that mistake before...So just listen to your heart not your mind or what anyone else says...
Good Luck Sweetie
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Well. If it was me, I'd dump your bf. I would be totally fed up with the nonsense he's been feeding. I mean, saying he'll call and never does, or ignoring you... I wouldn't deal with that. If you're interested in this guy Nick, go for it. Why are you waiting around for the other one when you know he's going to hurt you AGAIN? It just seems like he's playing with your mind.
-nikole
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i wanna be honest with you!
stay with him and see what happens. if he hurts you dump him! lol! he has hurt u a lot in the past so i think u can also dump him!
((x o ♥ Michelle))
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wow you guys have alot of problems in your relationship, take a break until he can drive, thats what my friends doing, shes seeing other guys and once this one kid can drive their going to try to work their relationship out again. i dont think that you should give into him each time he says that hes stupid and doesn't want to loose you, because hes hurting you and i think your jsut afraid to be alone or getting hurt so you forgive him, i think you should move on hunie, your just getting hurt, sorry. x0 Renee
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