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confusedteen
hey i need your help i just saw the guy that i lost my virginity too and havent seen for 5 months. He started flirting with me again and told me he never meant the stupid shit he said in the past. He then told me that i could call him whenever i wanted and if he ever hurt me again he would let me kick him where it counts. Then he said he loved me dont call me stupid or anything but i really love this guy. do you think he was just telling me that to get down my pants or somthing please help me i really am confused and it actually hurts realyl bad!
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just call him and talk to him for a few hours and se if there is still cemistry
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Get back with him if you want, but for like a couple of months don't do anything except for making out. Do not let him feel you up or feel you downstairs. If he can wait just to touch your boobies then you can say that he loves you.
-Inga
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you are really fuckin stupid, of course he wants in ur pants, if he was good, then go along with and get some more shit nigguh
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Hey babe he's lonely his last gf left him so he's trying get down those panties of yours. So don't try it and close your legs to him. Give it to someone worth it hun! Peace out 8 town!!! Hope i help!!!
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well is he that type of guy that liks to have sex and is real sexual or is he a good boyfriend who wants u to be comfterbale with having sex..i think u know the answer to this one if he is one of these two
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He may really like you. And you should talk to him first befor you go have sex w/ him or what not. If you really like him then go for it.
~soccrchick~
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Hey there. Well, i don't know the guy. If he is a generally sweet, nice, honest guy then he wants you back in a relashinship kind of way. If he is the opposite of those things, you know, tries to go with the crowd, then he just wants into your pants. It's a whole personality thing
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Well hun I am going thru the exact same thing and I am telling you know save ur self the heart break again...my ex did that shit and i just found out he had a gf!! Well IM me if u wanna talk...
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He may really mean it cause my ex which did the same things is saying like the same things...but we never had sex but are thinking about it... email me at miss_adriauna04@yahoo.com for more help
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he must just be trying to get into your pants . if he really ment all thoughs things then why didn;t he contact you earlier ... i mean he just saw you and he may have figured your an easy target because if things dont go his way he can just see you ten months from now .
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well im not sure. just try talking to him. if he tries to get down your pants then don't let him if you don't want him to. he could really mean it. please rate!
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JUs try to be friends and see where it goes...if he still feels the same way then mabee go out again..if you still feel the same as him
good luck to ya
((xO-Kalene-Ox))
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Try being his friend first. Avoid anything romantic until you get to know him again and feel that you can trust him. Perhaps the 5 months that you two have been apart changed him as time always can. There is a better chance though that he is wanting you for physical purposes. Do NOT let that happen. If he really does care about you, he will not press you for a more intimate physical relationship (remember if a guy loves you he will NEVER pressure you for sex). Start with friendship and see how it goes from there. If he bolts you know what he was there for. If he stays around (I'm talking about more than a few days here) then you might have a foundation on which you can build a relationship. Just be careful. Sex can have serious consequences (STDs, babies, broken hearts) and since you know that he has the potential to leave you again, tread carefully. Let time be the best judge. Best Wishes!
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Alright, you like him. He likes you. You're in a situation where you really miss this guy, and you want to see him pretty badly from the sounds of things. I think you should go for it, but procede with caution. Make it clear to him you want something more than just sex. You have to set clear and distinct boundaries for him, and if he crosses them, you have to make sure he realizes you're serious about them. You have to stand up for yourself if the situation calls for it. Well, good luck!
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Try this test.
Date him but don't give sex for like 9 months to him. IF he asks for it too much He is using you.
Remember
rather be saffe than sorry(again)
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Well maybe you need to go into this a little more. I'd give him a call and see what he really wants. If he hints that he wants to have sex, you take it from there. But i wouldn't jump the gun quite yet. Give him a chance, especially since you don't know what he wants ( you back or some lovin'). Hope i helped.
-nikole
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