Member Since: January 1, 2005
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Last Update: January 2, 2005
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ok...im a 15 year old female and i have a pretty big chest (34 c/d)...everyone calls me a slut cause i have a big chest..i mostly wear sports bras so people dont see exactly how big my chest it, but yesterday was my friends sweet 16, and the dress i wore really showed alot of clevage... all the guys at the party talked about how hott i was and how they wanted to hook up with me...i feel like i cant be myself because of my chest..and the worst thing is... i swim and im in a bathing suit all the time..well my friend told all the guys i was on the school swim team... and my friend came up to me and told me that all of them were gonna be at my next swim meet...is there anything i can do about my chest????HELP
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God made you that way(whatever god you believe in..) so be happy your healthly and remember that most at this age never get that attention. Just learn how to use it to your advantage and tell those friends to step off. Ur a big grl and can handle things on your own. Ur a real woman so take grasp of that power before your so-called friends take it into their own hands. The right guy will show up looking into your eyes, not your chest. Hope i helped!!(gay ending..i kno)
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ok lately my boyfriend has been telling me hell call me back in 10 minutes...and he wont for like 3 hours...i know things come up and ive talked to him but he still does it...we were on the phone pretty late last night an d he was like hey can i call u right back?? and i was like ok and we hung up...and he never called back...he still hasnt called...im supposed to call him @ 12:30 and we were goning to make plans..but i dont know if i should just call ..or if i should just do what he does to me and not call him....but the thing is i dont know if his dad said he couldnt call me back last night...because it was pretty late...what do i do?? (link)
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Dump him likes he's never been dumped before okay!!! Don't stand for that dumb shit your better than that i hope!!! hope i helped!!!
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Im 15/f and i really like this boy that is 13 and he likes me too. we are very close we talk on the phone and he even had told me that he had fallen in love with me.Everyone thinks that we go out cause we always together. I dont know what do to because he ask me out, and he is waiting for an answer, whats holdin me back is his age and that peoples might be talking like am too old for him, So im really confused what should I do? (link)
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Don't hold back girl if it doesn't hurt go for it. If he's cute don't pass that up alright!! Hope i helped!!!
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My teacher likes me and he stinks.I do not think he uses deoderant.so because of this he is always coming near me,like i said i aint pretty being near him.I want him to stop liking me but i do not want to affect my grades of conduct report.what should i do?
-dont like stink dudes-
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Hey Hun, tell your parents now that's a thought uh! hope i helped!!!
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hey i need your help i just saw the guy that i lost my virginity too and havent seen for 5 months. He started flirting with me again and told me he never meant the stupid shit he said in the past. He then told me that i could call him whenever i wanted and if he ever hurt me again he would let me kick him where it counts. Then he said he loved me dont call me stupid or anything but i really love this guy. do you think he was just telling me that to get down my pants or somthing please help me i really am confused and it actually hurts realyl bad! (link)
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Hey babe he's lonely his last gf left him so he's trying get down those panties of yours. So don't try it and close your legs to him. Give it to someone worth it hun! Peace out 8 town!!! Hope i help!!!
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ok, well....for the basics..I have had sex with 2 different people in my entire life (and to make things worse, they tell people i did it with them like a WHOLE BUNCH!!!) , and now all of this persons friends call me a slut and say im sloppy seconds (because, i am now dating ther friend.)And, Im going to have to go to school with all these people next year...sooo, basically what im asking is how do i get these people to stop calling me names? I rate HIGH!!! please HELP! (link)
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Well my dear i advise you to get a new name, go to a new school, and don't sleep with any guy anymore. At least until your out the house!! Hope i helped my dear!!!
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I just moved back to my hometown, and I've seen all my old friends. One in particular, my "best" friend as she said, thinks that we're still "best" friends. She said to me before.." get on with your life...", and " you dont like rap". It seems like shes trying to mold me into the "perfect" best friend. I love any kinds of music. How can I stop her from controlling me? And to tell her we aren't friends anymore?? 15 F same as her. (link)
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Well hun it seems like you have a control friend on your hands. I had friend like that and we just ended up not being friends anymore because i had to drop her. Sooner or later if you don't do anything about it she's going to be worse. You will feel like a puppet dancing for her and you can't even breathe for yourself. She's going to make you try to forget who you are and what you can accomplish also make you feel low with low self esteem for yourself. So go up to her in person tell her how you feel and command her her to hit the road if she can't handle the way you play ball or the way you are inside. If she doesn't get the message tell her to get her own puppet and leave you the hell alone to at least breathe. ~MegaQueen~
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i like my boyfriend alot but every time we talk he never seems to wanna talk and he always gets frustrated with me.. so i try not to call him anymore but i really wanan talk to him and then he says that he can never see me.. what should i do?? (link)
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Well my dear first try to get him in a private place to really talk, not over the phone. If he still doesn't listen let him know if something's wrong and he won't tell you then how will you two be in a relationship with no communications and no sharing feelings. If he still doesn't understand your gonna have to drop him and move on because it might be you two aren't on the same level in the relationship so I wish you the best hope I helped ya. Happy New Years!!!
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I would 1st like to say that I have never drank through my pregnancy, I know that is very bad. But my question is If you are 40 weeks pregnant and have a small amount of wine like 2 oz. Will it harm the baby or make you go into labor? (link)
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No way , My mother is a nurse, i know these things. I had a baby. As long as you didn't do it all through the pregnancy your fine don't worry about it. but don't drink any more okay you'll be just fine sweetie i promise.
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ok there was this guy i dated not tooo long ago like over the summer for about 2 years. one night he came over the mom was away in her bed snoring and no one else was home. the guy kissed me and tried and tried to go further and further i pushed away adn said not ready..he kept trying. now 3-4 years ago i was raped so i got scared and so a little while later i heard from a good friend of his that he had a "girl" at school so ive been using this as an excuse to everyone whether its true or not. i am scared...i was raped once and I AM NOT ready to have sex. since then ive dated 2 guys and have no boyfriend now. but this guy is kinda coming back into the pic through a best friend...he asked my best friend why...WHAT DO I DO!!!!!!! (link)
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Don't build your mind up that you have to have sex if your in a relationship and especially if your not even close to the guy. If a guy doesn't understand your not ready you need to let him go. Guys are never that important ever. You have sex when your good and damn ready not when your being pushed to do it or because everyone else is doing it. Fuck everyone else okay your not everyone your you. When you feel your ready to open your body to a guy be sure you want it not the guy don't sting him along that's just badly teasing him.
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i wrote a question earlier today picking in between parties. i picked to stay home with my boyfriend. he came over, and he was drunk. he's always a little mean when he's drunk. we got into this huge fight about nothing and we broke up. i started bawling and he said i was overreacting. i haven't stopped crying since 11:30 and i can't stop. i feel worthless and stuff because everytime we fight, it's my fault. what can i do to get over him because i won't stop having feelings for him? and what can i do to stop this feeling of worthlessness? please help me. i can't stop crying (link)
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Drop the boy he isn't worth feeling like that. I konw it a terrible feeling to lose a really great bf but you have got to move on girl. I mean with a temper like that is he got too mean he could go too far an might hit and then what will you do. Think about it, cry for like 1 to 2 days stop then forget about him and go out and shop with your friends or just hang with your friends somewhere outside(not on the porch or in the back yard). If you still feel crummy it's normal, but just don't sit in the house. Everytime you feel like thinking about him go out for a walk, exhale, or just be with a close family member or close friend and just let it all out. But staying in the house or looking at him at school makes it worse.
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now that it is 2005 it got me thinking...i am 14 years old and 2005 means that i get to do alot of new things!! like..i get my braces on in a few months...not that exciting..but anywho..i also turn 15 which means that i am going to try and get a job at sonic and i also get to go to high school in augest as a freshman and i also get to get my driving permit!!! all of this is kinda over whelming...can anyone tell me what it is like to begin to drive or what it is like to be a freshman??? because i'm scared because these are all MAJOR parts of my life happening all at once! (link)
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Don't be scared okay! Just think of it is another part of your life that has been open and you can explore it now. Peer pressure is gonig to come your way but just try to keep all the friends you have and do good in school. Just have fun with it because this is a new beginning of something and how fun would it be if you were scared the whole time. Believe if you just look at it as a new exciting adventure you'll be just fine. Just think of all the hot guys there gonig to be in High School too!! Driving you finally get to get out of the house and drive anywhere. Parties, sleepovers, hot guys, and road trips are heading your way don't pass that up being afriad. You'll never get anything that way. Just take life as a toy and explore and play with it.
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Me and my ex bf were together a couple months but it had to go to a long distance relationshiops for awhile and he thought i hated him and then we broke up cuz we didnt talk cuz of that and now i found out he still loves me what do i do? (link)
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First of all if he wasn't cheating why break up? You should call him and tell him how you feel and let him know you don't hate him. See if you two can work something because if he still loves you he'll try to work out something for two's long distance relationship if he loves like that.
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ok the other night i was at a party/sleepover and me and my friend got dared (for 10$ each) to make out with each other. we did it because we figured it wasnt a big deal and we were getting ten dollars each. but then everyone started taking turns doing it and i ended up doing it at least three times. im not lesbian or bisexual but i feel like what i did makes me one now. not that its a bad thing but its just not what i want to be. does what i did make me a lesbian? i dont know what to think about myself anymore.
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No you are not a lesbian. You were just having fun and being a daredevil. Don't be worried because just because you do something far from your personality doesn't mae you any different. It may make you a better open person for it. Just don't do any drugs or do things that might emotionally and physically hurt you or other people in the end.
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