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HELP I THOUGHT I DID RIGHT BUT I MIGHT NOT OF!!!!!
ok there was this guy i dated not tooo long ago like over the summer for about 2 years. one night he came over the mom was away in her bed snoring and no one else was home. the guy kissed me and tried and tried to go further and further i pushed away adn said not ready..he kept trying. now 3-4 years ago i was raped so i got scared and so a little while later i heard from a good friend of his that he had a "girl" at school so ive been using this as an excuse to everyone whether its true or not. i am scared...i was raped once and I AM NOT ready to have sex. since then ive dated 2 guys and have no boyfriend now. but this guy is kinda coming back into the pic through a best friend...he asked my best friend why...WHAT DO I DO!!!!!!!
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tell him what happened to you, and tell him your not ready.
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tell someone, cuz its not good to keep things bottled up inside of you cuz it just makes you feel worse and worse, open up to a best friend or parents. im sorry, but HAPPY NEW YEAR! x0 =)
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Sweetie...
I'm not sure what to tell you. Myself I have never been raped. I know it must be hard but you should not build your life around being raped if you do it does not let you live life the way you should. And if you are not ready then tell them that your not ready... Plus since you have been raped you know like the warning signs...Good Luck
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Don't build your mind up that you have to have sex if your in a relationship and especially if your not even close to the guy. If a guy doesn't understand your not ready you need to let him go. Guys are never that important ever. You have sex when your good and damn ready not when your being pushed to do it or because everyone else is doing it. Fuck everyone else okay your not everyone your you. When you feel your ready to open your body to a guy be sure you want it not the guy don't sting him along that's just badly teasing him.
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