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i wrote a question earlier today picking in between parties. i picked to stay home with my boyfriend. he came over, and he was drunk. he's always a little mean when he's drunk. we got into this huge fight about nothing and we broke up. i started bawling and he said i was overreacting. i haven't stopped crying since 11:30 and i can't stop. i feel worthless and stuff because everytime we fight, it's my fault. what can i do to get over him because i won't stop having feelings for him? and what can i do to stop this feeling of worthlessness? please help me. i can't stop crying
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Awww hunnie don't cry! He was drunk, and half the things people say when the're drunk, they don't mean. When he's sober, talk to him about it, and see what he has to say. Eventually, he'll realized he made a mistake. Hunnie, don't put this on your shoulders, because this is not your fault. You should've made it clear in the beginning, if he wanted to keep you, he needed to stop drinking. If he didn't make the promise, he obviously wasn't good enough for you. I hope I helped!
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its sooo not your fault when you fight he shouldn't be such an ass. break up with that drunk bastard. it's a new year so get out there and flirt.
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Awww.. I am sorry.. I read ur ? before too.. if he is that big of a dick i think u should just get over him.. I know it is hard... Maybe later when he gets sober he will know how much he has lost.. try talking to him later about it.. sorry hun.. -Kaydee
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Drop the boy he isn't worth feeling like that. I konw it a terrible feeling to lose a really great bf but you have got to move on girl. I mean with a temper like that is he got too mean he could go too far an might hit and then what will you do. Think about it, cry for like 1 to 2 days stop then forget about him and go out and shop with your friends or just hang with your friends somewhere outside(not on the porch or in the back yard). If you still feel crummy it's normal, but just don't sit in the house. Everytime you feel like thinking about him go out for a walk, exhale, or just be with a close family member or close friend and just let it all out. But staying in the house or looking at him at school makes it worse.
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omgoodness hunny i know just how u feel! boys r dicks! dont worrie about him!!! if he doesnt respect you when hes sobar or when hes drunk he doesnt deserve you!!! hes not worth it! all guys can be mean i know but you dont deserve that! you can do so much better! and just cry!!! crying gets it all out! then you wont feel so crappy!! good luck hun if ya need me u can email me or add me on any im!!! *..Jess..*
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Sweetie,
I'm really sorry about that! It hurts alot. I'm also guessing you have alot of feelings for him...But there is no way anyone can really help you get over him it's something that you have to do yourself...And your not worthless dont ever ever ever think that...and feeling worthless is something that is just in your mind and the only way to stop feeling it is to stop thinking it...I can't really give you an excat answer on what to do but if you need to talk rant whatever you may need email me at miss_adriauna04@yahoo.com ummm crying is very good so maybe once you cry alot and vent you will feel better and you can maybe talk to him and try and get him back
Good Luck Sweetie
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If he was drunk he prob wont remeber nething in the morning and prob doesnt no what hes doing hopefully in the morning he ll wake up nd say what the hell did i jus do if not get lots of ben and jerry icecream lots of movies 2 boxes of tissues and cry your heart out hunnie..
good luck
((xO-Kalene-Ox))
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Never feel worthless over someone like him. He comes over your your house drunk. What kind of boyfriend is that? You don't need him. You may think you love him and the feelings are strong, but you can do so much better than that. You just have to remember how he is making you feel right now. How worthless and degraded you feel. You don't want to feel like that, and you'll keep feeling that way unless you let things end. Cut all ties. He's a loser anyways.
Best wishes,
Megan
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i dont really know all the details but my guess is that maybe it was the acholhol in him talking...maybe if you just talk to him about it then you two can work it out and if you dont want to get back together with him then you can always forget about him by maybe hanging out with your freinds like have a girls day out or go shopping or something i hope i've helped a little. i'm really sorry about what happened.
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