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What is the best way to visually tease a guy? I don't mean like taking off your clothes... I mean like seduce.(I know this is a weird question, but I want to see what people say.) (link)
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flirt with him, kinda rub up on him in a cute and flirty way, dont nessassarly touch it and if you do then start to and stop then a little more then totaly stop! make him want it and make him willing to do anything to get it!
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okay. i like this guy alot. We flirt alot, and he gave me his sn once. Well, he has a gf. he gets on every few weeks *almost every girl in school likes him* but he still flirts with me. But, i'm afraid to IM him i get nerve and afriad to emmbarrasse myself! should i? i mean he gave me his sn! and how to I NOT get nerve before i talk to him?!?!?! (link)
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do it! he obviously likes flirting with you weather he likes you or not! plus everyone in the world can like him you just concentrate on yourself! just keep up your flirting and mabey add some more! IM HIM GIRL! if you get embarssed laugh it off a scence of humor is awsome! im sure he will just adore you! lol good luck! *..Jess..*
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i have liked this guy for three years now....he knows i like him..and i want 2 go out with him....really bad! hes also who i got my first kiss from..which made it even worse for me to try and let him go...n hes never answered my question whenever i ask him..will we ever go out..ever...or my question do you like me more than a friend?? what does that mean...he hates me...just wants to be friends????what?? please help me!!
I'll rate u a five if u ask me a question and rate me fairly... (link)
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hes probly confused! just let him know how u feel and stay a good friend! nothing can go wrong with friendship! evenetually he will craxk! all guys do!! good luck hun:) *..Jess..*
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i wrote a question earlier today picking in between parties. i picked to stay home with my boyfriend. he came over, and he was drunk. he's always a little mean when he's drunk. we got into this huge fight about nothing and we broke up. i started bawling and he said i was overreacting. i haven't stopped crying since 11:30 and i can't stop. i feel worthless and stuff because everytime we fight, it's my fault. what can i do to get over him because i won't stop having feelings for him? and what can i do to stop this feeling of worthlessness? please help me. i can't stop crying (link)
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omgoodness hunny i know just how u feel! boys r dicks! dont worrie about him!!! if he doesnt respect you when hes sobar or when hes drunk he doesnt deserve you!!! hes not worth it! all guys can be mean i know but you dont deserve that! you can do so much better! and just cry!!! crying gets it all out! then you wont feel so crappy!! good luck hun if ya need me u can email me or add me on any im!!! *..Jess..*
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Since its winter time my face is getting very dry , does anyone know any good daily face moisturizers. Thanks (link)
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ovala intence mostrising!
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okay, my friend, my good good friend is inlove with this kid,he's known her for a long time,and he only likes my friend as a friend.And she wants it to be a relashion ship, not a friend ship. How do i help her get him as her boyfriend instede of friends? (link)
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hello thats simple! get them to hang out have her flirt! duh its easy all guys will crack eventually just dont let her give up! *..Jess..*
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i wrote this question befor but i left out somethings. I'm like a tomboy and boys think of me as one of the guys. One of my best friends is the guy i like. People say he likes me. My friends that are girls say he likes. they say they can tell. i cant they say im not girly anough to like a boy. People pick on me about it and some are my crushes good friends. im cunfused can anyone help me. (link)
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sometimes being intrested in the same things as guys is a good thing!! alot of guys want things in common w/ the girl they like! if it bothers you that much try changing for a while just go really girly for just one day see if you like it or mabey just do more girly things! you dont have to change who you are just experment and if you dont like it who cares what everyone else thinks! good luck!! *..Jess..*
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I would like to ask something. My best friend and I experimented and were both girls and were both 13. We kissed each other, felt on each other and kissed each other's neck. As the days go on after we experimented I haven't had any thoughts about other guys. My friend and I act like were a couple or something. When she goes to her dad's house we miss each other more, I want to hug her and never let her go and we talk about experimenting again like it's just a regular thing to do now. Does that mean we like each other or that were lesbians? (link)
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from the sounds of it that would tell me yes you seem like lesbians, but mabey your just not usto doing things if you really wanna find out do somthing with a guy and decide what you like more then if you like them both the same your bisexual! good luck with that!:) *..Jess..*
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My cousin knows I do this advice thing, and she has a question, but she's embarassed to ask me and she wants to ask the whole site not just one specific user. The problem is, she's 12. Would I get into trouble letting her ask it under my username? What about if I at least convince her to ask it to just one specific columnist, would that be okay? She won't tell me what the question is, so how do I go about it? I know that you're supposed to be 13+ to ask questions on this site, but... I don't know. What kind of trouble would I get in for letting her ask under my username? I won't if I'd get into trouble, like if I'd lose my modship, or if I'd be banned, but I can't convince her to ask me. So, would I be breaking the rules? (link)
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if she needs someone to talk to she can email me on either of my emails or sillygoose4044@hotmail.com ide be glad to help with anything she has all my cusins have that stuff too its all good ide be happy to help her:) thanks *..Jess..*
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now that it is 2005 it got me thinking...i am 14 years old and 2005 means that i get to do alot of new things!! like..i get my braces on in a few months...not that exciting..but anywho..i also turn 15 which means that i am going to try and get a job at sonic and i also get to go to high school in augest as a freshman and i also get to get my driving permit!!! all of this is kinda over whelming...can anyone tell me what it is like to begin to drive or what it is like to be a freshman??? because i'm scared because these are all MAJOR parts of my life happening all at once! (link)
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Hey, from personal experiance let me tell ya being a fresman is fun but it goes by soo fast!! be carefull not to act like your better than everyone because then you will get a bad name but other than that you will be fine! dont stress it all goes by so fast and its alot of fun if you relax and enjoy it!*..Jess..*
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I cant ever find the right guy for me. Most guys get mad becuase i always turn them down and they think i do it to make myself look to good for them. I just want to be with someone that i can tlak to and someone i find attractive someone who can make me laugh and someone who i can have a good time with. I cant seem to find anyone out there. (link)
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just pay attention to who you turn down! because sometimes first impressions suck i mean he may pass you by when you dont even know it!! be careful because you may end up turning down someone u would really like and who would really like you!!! just take more time to get to know them before rejecting them!!*..Jess..*
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this one girl I like is playing hard to get, what
should I do? (link)
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If you want it keep trying, i also play very hard to get and like i always say if your not willing to try you dont deserve a prize so it all depends on how bad you want it!!Good luck! *..Jess..*
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i have a friend who has liked this guy for 4 months...she obsesses over him...he is friends with my group of friends and recently i have started talking to him...he is really nice and really hott...i dont want to admit it, but i like him...he told all his friends that he thinks im hot and that he wants to go out with me...i feel bad because this is making my friend pretty mad...i want to go out with him really bad, but i dont want my friend to end up getting hurt... what should i do... (link)
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talk to your friend tell her how u feel tell her you dont want to make her mad but just explain how u feel about both her and him! you shoud have something in common i mean you like the same guy! but be carefull not to hurt her feelings and dont let him get a big head about it!! becareful what you say because no matter how hard you want to you cant take your words back!! *...JeSs...*
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Well, i like this kid. I told this other kid that was friends with him and he told him when i didnt want him to. But he thinks his friend was just lieing. He always flirts with me and acts like he likes me. Now hes going out with this other girl and i am very dissapointed. What should i do?
I am a girl, age 13 (link)
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tell him you like him! and dont change the way you act! that way you guys may end up hooking up when they break up! just stay friends! im not saying try to take him away from her but just dont stop talking to him or avoide him just because he has a gf now! just stay good friends!!! *...JeSs...*
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how do u know if a guy likes you? i need advice cause i'm not sure if this one guy i like...likes me too? please help me! (link)
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well this is a question alot of gurls think they need to know! my boyfriend is here so i got him involved too! when i think about a guy liking me i think of somone who flirts alot someone who calls alot or you talk to alot someone whos not scared to be themself! my boyfriend says "if the guy looks or stairs at a girl alot and if like he talks about her or is some times mean to her in a cute way and plays her off and stuff he likes her" and hun if ya really wanna know just ask him!!! most guys r willing to tell expecually if you like them back! let me know how it goes!! *..Jess..*
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So my mom and my dad fight constantly and they are kind of alcholics...I always find myself crying myself to sleep and wishing that i had different parents...But neway..one night my dad locked me and my mom out of the house and it was so bad that my mom had to call the police on him....I have never done nething to my dad to make him treat me this way....This may sound horribe but im actually terrified of him...What should i do...please i need advice really bad bcuz this is something that has been bothering me for awhile and i never really had the guts to talk to ppl about it......HELP! (link)
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being scared is okay and probly best i cant say ive ever been put in that situation but usualy if a parent is taking somthing out on you, it isent because of you dont blame yourself if you think whats going on has anything to do with you your wrong and that may be what makes you so depressed. The best thing to do is find somone to talk to, find a good friend or even someone like me, someone u dont know that will just listen, not nessassarly make it go away or make it better. I know it makes me feel a billion times better when i talk about things!
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hey its me again i love this 1 girl i mean i cant get my mind offa her ive been tryin 2 forget about her for 6 months because all signs say she doesnt like me any more but im hopin she still does ya know???? i mean you got any ideas on how i could try and get her back or possibly forget about her ill try anything SOME! HELP!!!
Signed,
Crushed Heart (aka Jax) (link)
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well if you want my advise... forgeting her is probly best and hard definitly hard! you need to try and get her off your mind, find someone who likes you for you trust me girls know when you like only one person which is why girls wont come on to you, but whatever you do dont let this girl rap you around her finger!! when she sees you loveing someone else like you loved her mabey she will realize what a big mistake it was to let you go!! and mabey not but if she doesnt you will find someone a million times better for you anwyays and loves you for you and wont hurt you! i know how u feel and from a girls veiw knowning someone is there is awsome but seeing them loves someone else the way they loved you hurts big time!
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i am a 16 yr old male ..and i am not exactally what one would call a "smooth man" i am sort of attractive (at least i think) but to the question... i am never confident around girls that i think are pretty...and i think it is due to a lack of self-confidence that have come with bein made fun of by my friends over the years... and i was just wondering what sort of advice you could give me to help me in gaining some self-confidence around women especially new ones that i think are pretty
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well from a girls point of view, a guy with low self confidance isent a terible thing! whatever you do just dont pitty yourself and dont suck up just be yourself no girl wants a show off and no girl wants someone who thinks hes the skum of the earth! when your talking to a girl just talk like you were talking to a guy friend of yours, pretty gurls are the same as ugly girls we all feel the same about guys so just be yourself and if somthing goes wrong or you get embarssed just laugh it off!!! a scnece of humor is a good thing to have, expecually when your in a tight situation!
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