Hello, I am a 14 year old female that lives in central illinois. i would love to help anyone out there with any problems that they might have. i have over 300 pets and am an only child. i love animals and want to be a vet someday. i also wish for world peace. i am a freshman and have a lot of really close friends that i can depend on, but it wasn't always like that. before i moved i never had a friend to confide in or get help, which is why i am doing this because i want to help ne1 out there like me!!
Gender: Female
Location: central, IL
Occupation: Student
Age: 14
AIM: Boycrazmnk
Member Since: December 29, 2004
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Okay, this may sound dumb, but im confused.
If you call a suicide hotline, do they call the cops? Especially since you are in danger? I have always wondered this and my councelor at school gave me a list of hotlines because I am always thinking about suicide.
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no they offer counselation and it is all confidential. if they were to call the police then that is against the law. if you were seriously thinking about suicide then you need to call one of these hotlines or get one on one counseling. hope i helped.
**SpAz**
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Okay, there is this teacher at school that I feel very close to, she is amazing and helps me all of the time with my problems, i think of her as a mom. I spend all of my study hall time with her because its her free period. I call her at home all of the time and we talk and joke around. I am 16 (17 in feb) and she is 26, i call her by her first name and we are really good "friends". I am going through a rough time with my mom and may be going into foster care, well, she said if that happens i can live with her. AM I weird for being this close to a teacher? (link)
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no as long as you are just friends and there is something more to this. if you are having problems with your mom then it is normal to have someone who you take in as a mother figure. hope i helped.
**SpAz**
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I hate reading. We have to accumulate so many points per quarter.Like we read a book then we take a test on it and you get points for the book depending on how many questions you got right on the test. But i hate reading. I don't like any kind of books and i think ive already read all the books in the library! Maybe not..but still..i hate reading! Does any one have any tips on how to like reading? Or any good books to suggest? and our quarter 2 cut-off date is jan 7th..i have no points!! i need to get 13..any tips on how to get my reading done? (link)
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what are you interested in? if you like sports find books on sports that should work. secondly find a book that is on your list of books to take oa test on and it doesn't have to be in your library try a book store or a public library. hope i helped.
**SpAz**
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Okay, my ex best friend Lana betrayed me. How? Well, she went and slept with this boy that I had a MAJOR crush on! And not once, but twice! I can't believe she would ever do that to me. And to make it worst, she told me she might be pregnant!! So you could imagine how much I hated her at this point. Anyway, to get her back, I told the boy (Clad) that she WAS pregnant, and that he was the father. So she was really pissed at me. But can you blame me? Now she's saying that what I did was 10 times worse then what she did to me. But I dont think so. What's your opinion? (Thanx for helping me out) (link)
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my opinion. well if you never expressed to this boy that you liked him or never gave it a go at getting with him then hey she got him first. a lot of close friends like the same boy i know that my group of friends do, but it is first come first serve. what you did back to her was horrible because you could have made him sooooooooo mad, that even if they break up now he will never like you. and sorry to say this, but your friend is right. what you did was worse. you need to apologize to them and pray that they forgive you which they might not. let her have the boy she got him first and if she isn't prgnant then you could have caused a lot of problems. hope i helped.
**SpAz**
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I was seperated from all my best friends this year. My close friend, my bestest friend, and I are still realy close. But the other friend I met last year is sinking really far into depression. She is always eating and complaining. I have made alot of new friends but she clings to us. Now she is hanging out with all the scary depressed, weird people and won't even say hi to us. She only talks to complain and we always end our conversation with her saying that her uncle was right when he commited suicide... I have talked with my other friends about it but whatever we try she screams at us for. Help? (link)
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tell an adult!!!!!!! you have to tell someone older that you trust her parents your parents a school counseler. she is showing signs of suicide and if you don't help her she could try it and succed. hope i helped.
**SpAz**
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i'm a total pimplehead and i have been for a long time.. like.. um.. since grade 5 i think.. i'm in grade8 now.. i've been using these cleanser things they're getting kinda better but i keep on breaking out.. any tips?? *omg i'm so embaressed asking this.. i need help!!* (link)
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go to your doctor beause there is medical treatment if it is bad enough. hope i helped.
**SpAz**
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I'm treated pretty badly at school. Like, people pick on me and call me names. I don't do anything to deserve such treatment, and it's been like this since Kindergarden. I have friends and all that, but a lot of people still threaten me and what not. Don't tell me to tell a teacher or what not because they already not yet fail to do a damn thing about it. I can't defend myself because I can't fight, and I don't like making fun of others. If there is any advice people could give me to maybe help me stop the torment, that'd be great.
Thank you for your time,
♥Shattered Soul in Shelby♥
P.S-Don't ask to be rated. (link)
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this sounds like the story of my life unless you want to do something as drastic as i did and move the only thing i can tell you is to ignore them at least you have friends. do these friends talk behind your back because if the do then they are no friends of yours. if you ignore the people doing this it should stop unless they are that persistant. one major bit of advice if the get you so worked up NEVER let them see you cry, because it will just get worse. hope i helped.
**SpAz**
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Hey. My fiancee broke his back a couiple of years ago. Ever since he has had back pain where it broke. He broke it in his lower back, and the very bootom of the back. Lately though that pain seems to have travelled farther up his back. Anytime anyone touched his lower back it would hurt really bad ... now whenever someone touches the middle of his back it hurts. Is this normal??? Please help, i'm really worried. (link)
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My period is really weird- it comes every 2 to 3 months, lasts for ages (around 10 days), is excruciatingly painful and has a VERY heavy flow. Is there something wrong with me? Please help,
Zoinatrobe. (link)
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i'd double check on this, but this happens to people sometimes it lasts sooo long because it doesn't come as often as normal. the only part about this is how painful because a lot of women have painful cramps. if it doesn't get any better or you can't stand the pain i would go get it looked at. hope i helped
**SpAz**
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well me and my boyfriend have been together 9 months now and everything is great i guess we hang out alot and everything and the first 4 months of our relationship we just talked on the phone alot and hung out a little now we hang out more and were talking on the phoen the same but its kinda like everytime we get on the phone we sit and listen to eachother breath!!! he complains about it alot but i just cant think of anything to talk to him about! i mean i love him alot and i dont want things to end but is this soposto be telling me somthing? do you have anything to tell me? talk topics? anything? (link)
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i have this same problem with my boyfriend. if he is getting mad about it then talk to him and tell him that you are out of things to talk about and have him try and think of something. or just tell him you have to get off of the phone and talk to him later. hope i helped/
**SpAz**
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My best friend Nicole has been my friend since 5th grade and were in 9th grade now. We're so close and we talk about everything together. One of our good friends who was 17 yrs old just passed away on december 5th from cancerous tumers on his brain. It was so sudden. We all got so scared after that becasue in our town, theres been alot of deaths from cancer. We didn't think it would actually effect someone so young, an ready to go off to college. The worst part about it is that his mother had already lost 2 other sons before him. So she basically just lost her 3rd son.
Sadly to say, just last week, about 2 days before Xmas, my best friend Nicole was diagnosed with cancer. The doctors said that the lumps on her neck were the beginning of Mono, but they were wrong. Her tests came back, and she now has cancer. Shes gonna be at Westchester hospital for about 4-5 weeks going through kemo and stuff. Me, and a bunch of our other friends are worried sick about her becasue its so sudden, and we dont want to lose her like we lost our other friend. I'm so sad, and I desperately need someone to make me think of positive things about her right now, becasue really all i can think of is our other friend who just died and if shes gonna end up like that. This is a very hard time for me, can anyone give me any advice on this? I just dont know how to think about something good. Thank You!
_Janine_* (link)
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first off you need to find out if the problem with cancer in your town can affect you because you need to look out for number one. talk to a friend, family member, or someone you trust about what's going on with your life. you need to get your negative feelings out otherwise they might get bottled up inside you and you might do some ting really bad like cut yourself or even attempt suicide. just remember eventhough your friend isn't there in body she'll always be there in spirit. hope i helped.
**SpAz**
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my family and i have a major probleam.... we get into arguments a lot!!!! i think it happenes almost everyday!! and i get pissed by my family so does anybody know how to not have an argument and juss talk??? (link)
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one night during a quiet period when no one is fighting sit your family down and tell them that you want to discuss the problems that you have without yelling. it will take a lot of guts, but it is almost certainly going to work. hope i helped.
**SpAz**
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How do you ask a guy out without making it seem like your completly stupid? Like, how do you make it come up in a conversation? because I'm talking to this boy online, and I really like him, and we're awesome friends, and I want to know how he feels about me. How do I do it? None of my friends will do it for me because they say thats "cheating" (link)
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your not going to be stupid if you ask a boy out. just say hey you know i really like you and i was wondering if maybe you wanted to go out with me. he won't think your stupid in fact he may like you even more becaouse maybe he felt the same way and was afraid to do what you did. hope i helped.
**SpAz**
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Alright, this might take a minute, I have this really good friend Jake. He tells me he's "in love with me", and is planning on asking me out this friday. We have went out once before for a short time, and broke up because I had alot going on and didnt really want to deal with a boyfriend. He got really upset and hurt himself. He knows that I'm not so sure if i want to go out with him or not, but still, his hopes are high. I do like him sometimes, but it's weird and when i'm in certain moods i just dont like him like that at all.
Then, I really really like this other friend (Nick) of mine. He is alot older than me, and at our age difference right now nothing would happen. But I still do like him and he's one of my good friends. I have no idea if he likes me like that, but sometimes he does give me weird signals.
Anyway, I am not sure if I want to go out with Jake or not. I am in a few classes where there is Nick and Jake and (they are friends, but nobody knows I like Nick except my best friend.) I know that it would be weird, Nick wouldnt say anything but I know he would be kind of disappointed in me. Either way, if i say yes or no, i know that I am going to be unhappy with my answer. if i say yes i'll wish i said no and if i say no i'll wish i said yes. I don't really know what Im getting at, but this is my problem and i need to know soon.
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you know what you should do? tell Jake that you aren't sure at the moment if you are reall into dating him or anyone else for that matter. your not saying yes and your not saying no. and then no one's feelings are hurt. hope i helped
**SpAz**
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im a 15/f see its like this all of my friends are all really fast i mean to tell the truth i kind of am fast too but i mean i havent lost my virginity yet but most of them have so yeah i dont know what to do like they kind of like leave me out of conversations and stuff and i think that i am ready to do it but i dont know what age you should be?? (link)
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it all depends on how you feel inside. if you aren't ready to lose ur virginity then don't do it for the sake of fitting in. you only have it once so don't waste it on someone you might not like just so u aren't an outkast. if your friends are really like that then maybe you should find some new ones if you don't feel comfortable. hope i helped
**SpAz**
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a couple of weeks ago.. i got in trouble for having a picture trail.. and some of the captions.. but ne ways..earlier like in august.. i got in trouble with aim.. and i really want to earn my parents trust back.. how can i?? they wont let me have a cell phone b/c they can;t trust me.... but the thing is.. i didnt really get in trouble for that stuff.. i just lost their trust, and that fesls awful.. my question is .. how can i earn my parents trust back??
***i will rate HIGH*** (link)
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getting your parents trust back isn't going to be easy trust me i know. it will take a while depending on the magnitude of what it was you did to lose it. i know from experiance you shouldn't point out things that you do b/c then they might think that you are just being trustworthy to get trust back. let them figure it out on their own. it will be a lot better. hope i haelped.
**SpAz**
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14/f my friend got mad at me because of something i said. i didnt mean for it to hurt her at all, and actually i dont think its rude in any way at all. i told her i was sorry and she refuses to talk to me now. what should i do (link)
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well it depends what did you tell her if it was someting serious that you think she REALLY needs to know then explain to her why it is that you said it. if it is someting that you think she could live without then tell her it was all a big joke that is if her friendship means that much to you!
**SpAz**
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i got my cartilage pierced yesterday. is it normal for the cartilage to be a bit swollen? thanks (link)
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yep it is completely normal if it keeps up for a long long time then you need to get it looked at, but for right now it it ok! hope i helped.
*spaz*
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ok i have these white dots on my nails. there in any random spot, anywhere on my nail. does anyone else have these or know what they are?? thanks (link)
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there's an old wise tale that says these spots show up when you tell a lie so have you been ling a lot latley?? other than that idk
*spaz*
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i like this guy.. and he likes me too.. well see he says that he likes me but he doesnt want to get together.. whats wrong with him!?!? (link)
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maybe he has a girlfriend and doesn't want you to no
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