Question Posted Wednesday December 29 2004, 6:36 pm
Okay, my ex best friend Lana betrayed me. How? Well, she went and slept with this boy that I had a MAJOR crush on! And not once, but twice! I can't believe she would ever do that to me. And to make it worst, she told me she might be pregnant!! So you could imagine how much I hated her at this point. Anyway, to get her back, I told the boy (Clad) that she WAS pregnant, and that he was the father. So she was really pissed at me. But can you blame me? Now she's saying that what I did was 10 times worse then what she did to me. But I dont think so. What's your opinion? (Thanx for helping me out)
LoveCouldntBeAnyBetter answered Thursday December 30 2004, 2:08 pm: I think what you both did was wrong, she probably should have asked you first but on the other hand you werent going out with him so she was free to do what she wanted, but i understand that ur upset though, but you probably shouldnt have went and told him though, you should have let her find out for a fact first and let her tell him on her own because it is really scary to think you might be pregnant.... *Court* [ LoveCouldntBeAnyBetter's advice column | Ask LoveCouldntBeAnyBetter A Question ]
LiLxXhOtTiE answered Thursday December 30 2004, 1:41 pm: damn chica i think wut you BOTH did wazz wrong. you should apologize to each other cuz friendz 4 forever and guyz r whatever. hope i helped !!! [ LiLxXhOtTiE's advice column | Ask LiLxXhOtTiE A Question ]
PeAcEoNeArTh answered Thursday December 30 2004, 10:00 am: my opinion. well if you never expressed to this boy that you liked him or never gave it a go at getting with him then hey she got him first. a lot of close friends like the same boy i know that my group of friends do, but it is first come first serve. what you did back to her was horrible because you could have made him sooooooooo mad, that even if they break up now he will never like you. and sorry to say this, but your friend is right. what you did was worse. you need to apologize to them and pray that they forgive you which they might not. let her have the boy she got him first and if she isn't prgnant then you could have caused a lot of problems. hope i helped.
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xdelightfulpainx answered Thursday December 30 2004, 3:02 am: Well I think that what you did doesnt begin to measure up to what she did. Most probably Clad was going to find out sooner or later. Anyway, honey if she did that she's no good friend. Dont feel bad about what you did at all she should be the one to go to hell. Good luck. [ xdelightfulpainx's advice column | Ask xdelightfulpainx A Question ]
iNsAnelyKrAzie76313 answered Thursday December 30 2004, 2:21 am: I think what she did was extremely worse.i mean all you did was tell the guy who probably is the father that he is the father of her kid.How is that mean? Its better to let him know then keep it from him.He would find out sooner or later anyways. and if she didnt want to have his kid she shouldnt have slept with him.Plus she new you really liked him which is even worse.ITs not as if she was just like oh hes cute i guess ill go sleep with him..But its not really my opinion that counts cause it wont affect thats already been done.Im sry about her doing that to you though and i hope things work out for the better. [ iNsAnelyKrAzie76313's advice column | Ask iNsAnelyKrAzie76313 A Question ]
SwEeTdReAmZ answered Wednesday December 29 2004, 10:28 pm: Personally, i think what she did to you was way worse. If you guys were that good of friends then she wouldnt have ever done that to you. Just ignore her rude comments if she has any about you. my point here is that, in my opinion, what she did to you is way worse. [ SwEeTdReAmZ's advice column | Ask SwEeTdReAmZ A Question ]
xXxpinky615xXx answered Wednesday December 29 2004, 9:48 pm: If she went and slept with the guy she knew you liked, then she obviously wasn't your friend to begin with. No true friend would do that. And I would have done the same thing if I was in your position she is at total fault for what she did to you and I don't blame you for what you said to they guy. If she wants to be a slut and sleep with a guy that YOU, her best friend, had a crush on, she can go and do that but it's her own stupidity because she should have at least been smart enough to know that you'd get pissed off about it. She's a fucking idiot. I don't blame you for what you did. It's her fault. Not yours. Yes, two wrongs don't make it right but in this case who cares? She betrayed you and you're pissed off about it. I don't blame you at all for what you did. [ xXxpinky615xXx's advice column | Ask xXxpinky615xXx A Question ]
sPicYx0hoTt answered Wednesday December 29 2004, 9:40 pm: Heyy..well first of all i think what both of you guys did was pretty bad because a friend should never sleep w/ a guy that the other friend has a crush on but i also dont think its right that you told the boy that she was pregnant because it is her business and she should've been the one who should've told him...
NEVERLETG00 answered Wednesday December 29 2004, 9:40 pm: did your friend even know that you liked this boy that she slept with twice??? i dont think she did cuz then i dont think your best friend would go do such a thing like that, and i dont think what you did was right at all, you got clad scared because what is he sopossed to do?! raise a kid at his age?! i dont think so. even if she was pregnant be a good friend and keep it to your self. im sorry. x0 [ NEVERLETG00's advice column | Ask NEVERLETG00 A Question ]
DevilChild answered Wednesday December 29 2004, 9:40 pm: HA what you did is suppose to be 10 times worse? ok no its not. what she did is far worse. its as bad as she could ever do to you. besides if she thinks she prygnet hed have to know about it sooner or later so you were doing her a fav over what she did and the conseqence. and friends dont do that to friends. its pretty bad that she slept with him even more worse when its twice and more when she might have his baby. she doesnt sound like a good friend to me, i would never do that to someone i care about [ DevilChild's advice column | Ask DevilChild A Question ]
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