Question Posted Wednesday December 29 2004, 5:12 pm
im a 15/f see its like this all of my friends are all really fast i mean to tell the truth i kind of am fast too but i mean i havent lost my virginity yet but most of them have so yeah i dont know what to do like they kind of like leave me out of conversations and stuff and i think that i am ready to do it but i dont know what age you should be??
laurad answered Friday December 31 2004, 8:50 pm: There is no specific age to be having sex. Whenever you are ready to have sex then you should. Don't just do it because your friends are. [ laurad's advice column | Ask laurad A Question ]
whattheHELLO1514 answered Thursday December 30 2004, 8:40 pm: there really isnt a specific age for when you are ready to have sex. parental units will tell you to wait until you are much older and some will say " wait until you are married". but really, our generation is not typically going to listen to that. wait until you are trully ready. wait untill you feel trully comfortable with a situation with your partner. when YOU feel like you are ready, then by all means go for it. but if you are going to decide to have sex, use protection. hope this helps. [ whattheHELLO1514's advice column | Ask whattheHELLO1514 A Question ]
frenchfries21 answered Thursday December 30 2004, 2:03 pm: theres no specific age, go ahead when your ready to. its your choice and your choice alone. if your ready and you know that then go ahead. if you feel pushed and your not ready then dont. its your decision.
hope i helped!!
~~StEf~~ [ frenchfries21's advice column | Ask frenchfries21 A Question ]
southernchick answered Thursday December 30 2004, 11:43 am: theres not a certain "age" you should be to have sex.. you should find a person that you love and trust! thats where people go wrong they put a age on things and say okay i'm 16 now i can have sex with whoever.. but im sure theres 15 y/os out there that have sex with someone because they LOVE them and not because they just wanna have sex!!
xdelightfulpainx answered Thursday December 30 2004, 4:16 am: Ok first of all dont feel any less than them for being a virgin, that's actually a great virtue. If you wait I'm sure you will be very proud of yourself and men will respect you. As for the right age I believe it is somewere around 18. [Good luck, feedback & rates are appreciated] [ xdelightfulpainx's advice column | Ask xdelightfulpainx A Question ]
sExY_LiL_BoO_BeCkY answered Wednesday December 29 2004, 11:03 pm: It doesn't matter what age, if your ready, your ready! But I think you are to young lol I have had A LOT of offers,but I am only 14 so I haven't really done it...yea well don't just have sex with the first guy who comes around...wait for mr. right!
iluvchristianshhxo19 answered Wednesday December 29 2004, 10:00 pm: Hey babe. Well this is just my opinion but I don't think you should do it until you're married, it is a huge decision in your life and has messed up many lives. DONT do it just because you feel influenced by your friends, make sure the one you're with isn't going to just be down for a one night stand. LOL hope this helped xoxo [ iluvchristianshhxo19's advice column | Ask iluvchristianshhxo19 A Question ]
frenchy answered Wednesday December 29 2004, 9:47 pm: hey. i dont really think that there is a time for age. but i think that you should be in love to have it, it may sound really cheesy, but thats what i think. in my opinion, 15 is too young to have sex, but it all depends on the guy that you're seeing and on how you feel about doing it. just be careful, cause it may bring something that might regret later on. if your friends leave you out of conversations, how good of friends are they? dont feel pressured to have sex just to fit in or not be left out when your friends talk about it. thats not what sex is about. hope this helped, peace and love [ frenchy's advice column | Ask frenchy A Question ]
bAhAmAmA0250 answered Wednesday December 29 2004, 9:30 pm: Good for you on being a virgin. Dont move that fast.. thats a lil to fast if you ask me. You shouldnt be a certain age.. i think you should at least be legal to live on your own.. so 18.. and only if you love the guy and can pic. yourself with them but if you cant then dont lose your virginity. Just cause your friends doesnt mean you should to- Trix (**plz rate**) [ bAhAmAmA0250's advice column | Ask bAhAmAmA0250 A Question ]
blondebombshell33 answered Wednesday December 29 2004, 9:06 pm: hEy HuN! weLL 2 bE hOneSt... thErE iS nO cErtAiN aGe! ummm girls keep getting sluttier and sluttier... so the age keeps going down! there was this one girl in my town who lost her virginity (willingly) at age 12.... haha cRaZy! anyways... theres no limit that says you must be this old 2 have sex... its just whenever YOU personally feel you are ready. don't let your friends persuade you... look around... alot of people around u r still virgins.. and you want your first time 2 be special rIgHt? ;) sOoo keep that in mind babe! bUt wHeNeVeR uR rEaDy! gOOd LuCK!
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xolilabbs214ox answered Wednesday December 29 2004, 8:05 pm: hey.. some people think that you should wait until your married.. but if you are ready to give it up.. and are ready to take the chances of what can happen.. then do it.. dont let people tell you if your ready or not.. hope i helped! please rate!
x0x0 abbey x0x0 [ xolilabbs214ox's advice column | Ask xolilabbs214ox A Question ]
NikNik answered Wednesday December 29 2004, 8:00 pm: you should wate untill your married, dont do what your friends do because thats them they are going to be the ones who end up growing up and regreting the things they did, dont have sex untill you know the guy and untill your with the guy so i would say wate untill after your married, believe me you wont regret it! I know thats a long time away but you will be happy that you didnt do what your friends did, because there are the chances of getting pregnant or getting an STD and if i were you i would wate untill after i was married,..Hope i helped! *feedback is greatly appreciated* ~Nikki [ NikNik's advice column | Ask NikNik A Question ]
MrCoolGuy answered Wednesday December 29 2004, 7:49 pm: usually its good to wait till your 17 or older...it gives you a chance to see different people and het to know other people... [ MrCoolGuy's advice column | Ask MrCoolGuy A Question ]
BabyBlue848 answered Wednesday December 29 2004, 7:36 pm: WEll really its not how old you should be its are you really in love with this person I mean you dont want to have sex at a young age just because your friends did I know its hard I am 14 and allot of my friends started to have sex already you should make sure the person you have sex with you love because you will alway remeber it...
MissEmmyBoo answered Wednesday December 29 2004, 7:24 pm: Honey, do not let your friends pressure you into having sex! Wait for the right time and do it when you're ready! I would say an appropriate age is like 17 or 18! Trust me, you have the rest of your life for stuff like this, and you'll regret it later if you do it now.
*Hope I helped!*
~Miss Emmy Boo~ [ MissEmmyBoo's advice column | Ask MissEmmyBoo A Question ]
PeAcEoNeArTh answered Wednesday December 29 2004, 7:23 pm: it all depends on how you feel inside. if you aren't ready to lose ur virginity then don't do it for the sake of fitting in. you only have it once so don't waste it on someone you might not like just so u aren't an outkast. if your friends are really like that then maybe you should find some new ones if you don't feel comfortable. hope i helped
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Helpinghand1231 answered Wednesday December 29 2004, 7:19 pm: Well in my opinion (me being a virgin as well) i would wait until you find someone you really really REALLY care for because virginity is something that you can lose in a heartbaet but WILL NOT get back. so good luck hope i helped. [ Helpinghand1231's advice column | Ask Helpinghand1231 A Question ]
NEVERLETG00 answered Wednesday December 29 2004, 6:53 pm: dont compete with your friends, youll do things when you want to be, and when their talking about it, dont mind them and dont feel left out about it, sex isnt just all talk, its something special to remember throughout your life. you can be any age as long as you dont have any doubts or any bad feelings that your going to regret after. x0 [ NEVERLETG00's advice column | Ask NEVERLETG00 A Question ]
CoKeIzZle answered Wednesday December 29 2004, 6:29 pm: Hey sweetie,personally I think you should wait until you are married. Don't do it because your friend did it.You could be taking the cahnce of getting AIDS.Its a treasureus momment and i think you would wanna spnd it with the person you will be with all your life.If you disagree I think you are around the right again USE PROTECTION!hope i helped xoxo NiCoLe [ CoKeIzZle's advice column | Ask CoKeIzZle A Question ]
FunnyCide answered Wednesday December 29 2004, 6:22 pm: married. that is the only age that is good to lose your virginity. don't follow the crowd. you will lose something special and have a chance of a STD, HIV and or AIDS, or an unwanted CHILD!!!!
not a "fetus" or a "half fish/half monkey". A BABY PERSON. the only person that you should have sex with is your husband. don't say "well, me and my boyfriend are really close. we will probably get married someday." maybe that is true. but if it IS true, you can wait until you are married. believe me, it will be worth the wait.
-FunnyCide [ FunnyCide's advice column | Ask FunnyCide A Question ]
Sherry answered Wednesday December 29 2004, 5:35 pm: Just because you have sex doesnt mean its cool. Your friends are actually stupid for doing it at like 14 and stuff. You should wait until you feel the guy your going to do it with is special to you..dont do it just because your friends are. [ Sherry's advice column | Ask Sherry A Question ]
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