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hey yall!im kinduv a prep gUrLiE gurl but not like totally mi name is carley i play b*ball for mi skool N i play soccer for a select team! im single but i luv sum1 ... HeHe guess who. neways i have tha best friends like ever alysa lauren kenzie monet haley bailey lacey chloe sierra taylor aisha julia chanler N like more! andrew (i luv u ur mi bestest friend EvEr i can tell u w/e!) tanner roman trey dustin (luv u 2) ben christian robbie eddie N more but those r mi closest friends well ask me w/e i guess ill answer quick! LuV xoxo *me*
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ok, well....for the basics..I have had sex with 2 different people in my entire life (and to make things worse, they tell people i did it with them like a WHOLE BUNCH!!!) , and now all of this persons friends call me a slut and say im sloppy seconds (because, i am now dating ther friend.)And, Im going to have to go to school with all these people next year...sooo, basically what im asking is how do i get these people to stop calling me names? I rate HIGH!!! please HELP!
Oh my gosh you are not a slut. It's just me but i would totally tell them off. But if u don't want to just tell them the truth be like yeah i did ... who cares? I'm called a slut sometimes and I don't even care JUST IGNORE THEM IF U CAN. Hope It HeLpEd xoxo
im 15 and well honstly ive only made out with 3 guys, and thats all ive ever sexually done... ive never "masterbated" whatever that means or anything like that but my bf keeps trying to finger me and stuff! if i let him do it..is it gonna hurt? can my "cherry" pop? is it gonna feel really bad? and if i let him do it will i be labled a slut? (me and my bf have been together 10-11 months now) anything?
I don't think it hurts but i wouldn't know. Ok it depends, i am labeled kind of a slut at my school I'm about 14 and i have made out with tonsof guys in the movies and stuff that i barely know and that are maybe two years older than me. And I went out w/ a guy rite after we recently hit it off with the biggest whore in our grade. But my school is full of sluts and whores so no one really points me out because people are bigger whores than i am. It all depends on iff you're ready! Hope it helped xoxo
My mom was an alcoholic, everyday she would drink. DUring christmas even more, just because she hated using all of her money and was afraid we'd be moneyless after christmas. On 12/23 I came home from school, all happy because it was the last day and now I have a 2 week vacation, and I came home to my mom being drunker then hell! I was sick of it and I went upstairs because I didn't want to talk to her. About 2 hours later my dad got home and yelled me from upstairs ( I was sleeping ) .. he said that we had to go to the hospital because my mother had passed out.. she had overdosed on anti-depression pills and was drinking ALOT of alcohol at the same time. when we got to the hospital we waited about 30 minutes and they came out and told me my mom was dead. I can't stop thinking that this is all my fault, like if I would've stayed downstairs maybe I would've stopped her from OD. I've been to a psychiatrist about this, but nothing seems to be working. What should I do?? Thanks for any help in advance! (sorry its so long)
WOW honey don't blame yourself it soo wasn't your fault! You can't stop any alcoholic from drinking and if you wouldnt have gone upstairs, she could have hurt you too. Aww you can ask me any questions you want sweetie ... IM to talk HuGznKiSSeS7074 luv you hope it helped xoxo
in about a month my family and i are driving to florida from ny. there are 6 of us and we drive an expedition. im afraid that my 3 annoying brothers (11,7, and 4) are going to make this trip hell..what are some ways i can prevent this from happening? Also..for anyone whos stayed at a disney resort..whats your favorite one and why? We love the Carribean Beach resort but in case we go somewhere else what do you suggest?
Thanks
Hey. The Pop Century resort is soo much fun and it's a good enviornment for kids. There's a few pools and fun stuff to look at and you really can't get bored there!(also I think it's really cute ... lol but it's not really anywhere close to any park!) The Polynesian is very nice but maybe not for you all. On the way down there, take some headphones and tons of CD's and zone them out lol! Hope it helped xoxo (hope u have a good time disney world is awesome!)
I always look at myself and see how not pretty I am. I hate it. Then I look around at all my friends..why do they get to be automatically pretty? No makeup for some--but still not ugly. I have kind of chubby cheeks but not huge. I have dark blonde, almost brown-ish straight hair a little past my shoulders. I'm sort of tan, but not much. My eyes are hazel, mostly green. If I go out or to school, I wear eyeliner and that's it. I also have a little bit of a belly. I really think I'm not pretty. I've never had a boyfriend, and maybe that's why? Any ideas for makeup that's not too drastic, that will make my face look better? If you have ANYTHING..please tell me.
Honey you're beautiful! You need to better your self concept! Try some mascara ... blush would look cute too. I wouldn't do foundation but maybe a LITTLE eye shadow? Hope it helped xoxo
Hey, i'm not the latest with all of the newset fashions, so I was wondering..... wat's in this season and what's out? I would really like to inhance my wardrobe, can you give me some useful tips?
signed,
Freaky Fashions
WeLL assuming your a prep ... abercrombie N fitch hollister american eagle gap express maybe aeropostale ? punk - pacsun mayb hot topic stuff like billabong and independent. (im a prep N most ppl at mi skool were abercrombie) hope it helped!
I have this friend and she is really nice on weekend
But when we have school she id do mean to me and using bad words. She sometimes can be nice but not
all the time. Help me
Rachel
Sweetie, this "friend" isn't one at all. hope it helped xoxo
My best friend Nicole has been my friend since 5th grade and were in 9th grade now. We're so close and we talk about everything together. One of our good friends who was 17 yrs old just passed away on december 5th from cancerous tumers on his brain. It was so sudden. We all got so scared after that becasue in our town, theres been alot of deaths from cancer. We didn't think it would actually effect someone so young, an ready to go off to college. The worst part about it is that his mother had already lost 2 other sons before him. So she basically just lost her 3rd son.
Sadly to say, just last week, about 2 days before Xmas, my best friend Nicole was diagnosed with cancer. The doctors said that the lumps on her neck were the beginning of Mono, but they were wrong. Her tests came back, and she now has cancer. Shes gonna be at Westchester hospital for about 4-5 weeks going through kemo and stuff. Me, and a bunch of our other friends are worried sick about her becasue its so sudden, and we dont want to lose her like we lost our other friend. I'm so sad, and I desperately need someone to make me think of positive things about her right now, becasue really all i can think of is our other friend who just died and if shes gonna end up like that. This is a very hard time for me, can anyone give me any advice on this? I just dont know how to think about something good. Thank You!
_Janine_*
I'm praying for you sweetie =). There's really nothing you can do,Nicole is in God's hands.
On New Years Eve im going to my boyfriends house. I'm a virgin but that night i think i want to lose my virginity with him. I'm 14 almost 15 i know i'm young but i'm tired of being a virgin. We've only been going out for a week today but we went out for 7 months a while back. Please don't reply if your just going to call me a hoe or yell at me because i don't need that. Would i be making the wrong choice if i do? I already know about the whole getting pregnant thing im not stupid..but other than that am i making the right choice? thanks..
Just my opinion, but I think for one you're too young. And one week ? It doesn't matter if you went out for 3 years a while back, PEOPLE CHANGE. Good luck sweetie ... hope u make tha rite choice! Luvs n hugs xoxo
13/M and i have liked this one girl for about a year now and her and her bf (my friend) of about 1 year and a half just broke up. How long should i wait before i do anything and should i just drop hints. i'm a really good friend of hers and i dont want to do something at the wrong time.
p.s- i was thinking of sending her flowers w/ a card in them or something any good ideas greatly appreciated.
If i was this girl I wouldn't be able to get over it that quick. Wait until she starts showing interest in other guys. This is just me, but I don't like guys to send me things like cards or whatever. If they just confront me then i know they care enough to ask! XoXo
My mom seems to think that only black people wear brands such as Roccawear, Baby Phat and Ecko. I like the clothes and she wont let me wear them because on the websites the people who are modeling them happen to be black. So tell me really, do these brands are truly only worn by Africans?
hey babe. well like the majority of people who wear them are black basically but like you're not a wigger or anything if you wear them. I'm a white girly girl and i have me some pink Phat Farms! lol tell your Mom that that is just a stereotype and go out there and find you sum cute clothes! Hope it helped xoxo
What are some really good movies to watch with friends..im 14/F?? Thanks
Chick flicks girl. Mean Girls, Clueless, movies like that.
im a 15/f see its like this all of my friends are all really fast i mean to tell the truth i kind of am fast too but i mean i havent lost my virginity yet but most of them have so yeah i dont know what to do like they kind of like leave me out of conversations and stuff and i think that i am ready to do it but i dont know what age you should be??
Hey babe. Well this is just my opinion but I don't think you should do it until you're married, it is a huge decision in your life and has messed up many lives. DONT do it just because you feel influenced by your friends, make sure the one you're with isn't going to just be down for a one night stand. LOL hope this helped xoxo
I just got spacers about 4 hours ago. I felt just a pinch when I got them on but now they hurt so much I cannot bite down. On Jan. 12 I will be getting braces. I am wondering are they going to hurt more then the spacers, and how can I relieve the pain. Thanks in advance.
Hey sweetie. Spacers will hurt for maybe 3 days at the max. Your braces don't hurt while your getting them on usually, but the pain afterwards can be really bad.(Trust me i got mine on last year and just got back brackets...=() Try to eat soft foods like yogurt and take pain relievers. It will feel really weird so remember to use wax and eat soft foods. Also sleep with gauses in your mouth because if it cuts you it KILLS! Hope it helped xoxo
i've had this cough for about a month long. at the beginning it was from a severe cold or something. but i've been around my sister a lot who smokes and i have asthma. could it be from second hand smoke getting into me? any ideas? i rate *HiGH*
Yes it definetely could be. The second hand smoke may not have started it but it could have def. added on to it. Hope it helped xoxo
Ok, I was just wondering what kind of Abercrombie fragrance for women is the kind that smells like the store- if there is a kind that smells like that. There's three different types: NOW Fragrance, Signature Fragrance, and 8 Fragrance. I would think it would be Signature Fragrance, but I'm not sure. Does anybody know?? Thanks!
I'm pretty sure it's the Signature Fragrance, because when i shop there my clothes later smell like that. My FaV is A&F Now, lol but I'm sure you'll luv Signature too!
ok, at my dads house my brother and sister constantly make fun of me. last night they kept calling me a pig, and a special ed. and they will pysically abuse me sometimes. and they call me "g" casue i listen to rap music. and they like sing a song about me eating all the time. they are really mean. and i don't do anthing to them, and i tell my dad and he sazys either, i start it or get over it, or say something back, but when i say something back he says i start it!! what do i do?? please help!
Heyy sweetie. The teasing may not be such a humongous deal, but the physical abuse is too much. I would tell ur Mom or any other family members you think can help you. Try and avoid your brother and sister as much as you possibly can. Sounds like they're so bored with their own pitiful lives that they don't have anything better to do than pick on you. Talk to someone about it, because this is not the kind of relationship that you need to be in with your family. Hope it helped xoxo