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slut???
ok, well....for the basics..I have had sex with 2 different people in my entire life (and to make things worse, they tell people i did it with them like a WHOLE BUNCH!!!) , and now all of this persons friends call me a slut and say im sloppy seconds (because, i am now dating ther friend.)And, Im going to have to go to school with all these people next year...sooo, basically what im asking is how do i get these people to stop calling me names? I rate HIGH!!! please HELP!
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tell every one the truth guys lie alot
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spred a rumer about them or wich is chiledish butanywase u could just tell a teacher or something that boys r calling u a slut
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dont sleep with anyone
~morgan
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Well,unfortunately,you can't just make them stop.But what you can do is have pride in yourself,and walk down the halls with your head held high.You know what happened,and you know that you're not a slut at all,it's all just some juvenile boys attempt at feeling "macho".If someone confronts you about it,let them know "hey look,nothing happened the way he's saying it did.I know the truth,and in all reality,HE knows the truth.So you can choose to believe what you want,but the fact is,his story just isn't true!" I know it isn't always the greatest comfort in the world,but you know the truth,and you know you're not a slut,you're not a bad person,you're not any of the things these immature people are labeling you as.So,carry yourself with confidence and pride,and just have fun with your friends and new boyfriend.Smile,laugh,enjoy life.When someone confronts you,try what I said.And if someone does something like yelling "slut" down the hall at you,look at them and give them a sarcastic half laugh.The more these people see you laughing,smiling,having a good time with your friends and boyfriend,and letting this whole thing slide off your back,the less fun it will be for them to bug you with it.In the words of Jay-Z "go on,brush your shoulders off"! ;) I hope this helps you and that things get better.They will,I promise!
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Hm..you know rumors spread fast..there's really nothin you can do to make them stop calling you names..it'll blow over sooner or later...just ignore it as long as you know the truth that's all that matters.
~Anjela
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well iv been in your spot so i know how this feels you should confront them and ask why they are telling all there friends YOUR business.. and you should also confront the other people and tell them the truth about what really happend if you dont want them to think your a slut..hope my advice helped you *~*Tanya*~*
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Oh my gosh you are not a slut. It's just me but i would totally tell them off. But if u don't want to just tell them the truth be like yeah i did ... who cares? I'm called a slut sometimes and I don't even care JUST IGNORE THEM IF U CAN. Hope It HeLpEd xoxo
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Well my dear i advise you to get a new name, go to a new school, and don't sleep with any guy anymore. At least until your out the house!! Hope i helped my dear!!!
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if you ignore them it'll eventually bother them and then.. BAM! it will dissolve in time.
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You should tell the people that you had sex w/ to stop telling other people, and then you have to tell everyone who calls you a slut that it isn't any of their bisneuss then they will stop calling you a slut.
~soccrchick~
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The truth is, you made a few wrong turns, maybe hung out with the wrong crowd, and got yourself a bad reputation there, missy.
If these people have the gall to call you "sloppy seconds" then they will probably not let up and stop their harrasment. I reccommend that you tell them you don't appreciate it, change your habits, and find yourself some new friends.
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Well...your a teenager (im guessing) its normal for you to be doin sexual stuff. As far as being labeled, thats something that just happens...hopefully over time it'll just go away
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You can't get them to stop calling you names but what you can do is be the bigger and better person about the whole thing. For one all the ones that are calling you those names are probably jealous cause they did not have the oppertunity plus they are very immature. Keep your head up high and try not to let them get to you because when someone actually asks them why they are calling you a slut they are going to sound like dorks cause they have nothing to say other then well someone told me and in the end they look like the idiots they are. So in the end just ignore them and keep a smile on your face cause that will piss them off because then they know its not bothering you and they are more likly to stop.
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well hun first of all how old are you? Second of all... al I can say is ignore them because they know that they are pissing you off and they see it and trust me they like it when they start doing that shit just start laughing like your all cool with it... trust me it will suprise them big time!!
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Dear I am not a slut,
You cannot change what these people are saying about you. You can ignore and understand the truth behind the rumors and just get over it. Please note that sex is not a bad thing and that you should not put yourself down for having had sex with two different people. Wow, we are in the same category, sister. What you should do is learn from the choices you have made in boys. It is obvious that the two boys that you had sex with had to go and tell all of there little friends about what they accomplished. Here is a clue: find a person that is true to himself enough not to tell anyone about his sexual life and if he does once in a while, ok, he is male; but not lie about it. These people are immature and will get what is coming to them in the long run. Move on to bigger and better things, girl. Good luck.
♥Sarah
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you can be like..bitches back off, i cant help it that i get to shit faster than yoU! and i cant help it that i get more action than your ugly asses! ahah i know its funny but it will work..cause people call me names..and i say shit like that and they totally back off !
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