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Waiting time?
13/M and i have liked this one girl for about a year now and her and her bf (my friend) of about 1 year and a half just broke up. How long should i wait before i do anything and should i just drop hints. i'm a really good friend of hers and i dont want to do something at the wrong time.
p.s- i was thinking of sending her flowers w/ a card in them or something any good ideas greatly appreciated.
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Hey babesz,i would wait about 2 weeks.It takes a girl awhile to get over something!But a girl likes when a guy helpes her get over there ex.So just help her out and she might fall 4 you!!hope i helped and everthing works out!!!xoxo Nicole~
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That flower idea sounds really sweet you sound like a nice guy. Well if she's feeling low I suggest you be there for her try to comfort her, just dont rush into things or wait too long either. [Good luck, feedback & rates are appreciated]
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Go ahead and send the flowers! That is soo sweet! A girl who is getting over a breakup needs a guy like you. Don't drop any hints yet- give her a little time to get over the breakup. Make sure you ask your friend if it is okay before you ask her out or you could ruin your friendship! Good Luck!
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If i was this girl I wouldn't be able to get over it that quick. Wait until she starts showing interest in other guys. This is just me, but I don't like guys to send me things like cards or whatever. If they just confront me then i know they care enough to ask! XoXo
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wow i think every girl who's going through a break up needs a guy like you around, to send a girl flowers and a card, thats soooooooooo sweet, i think you should do it!! Every girl needs a sweet guy like you, Good Luck and i hope everything works out ok!~Nikki
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ur only 13 ok flower and a card u mite be a bit younge for that but who no's it mite just work but new years sounds likea good day to drop hint or maybe just ask her out
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aw flowers and a card would be such a sweet thing! you should def do that, it would be really nice and i think she would get the hint that you like her . do this for new years (how cute!!) hope your friend doesn't get mad at you =/ but hopefully you guys will go out, x0
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I would wait until he doesnt really mention her. Or she doesnt really mention him. I like the flowers idea.. but i'd wait on that.. maybe for valentines day.. that'd be a good time!!-trix
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Hey Darlin'. The flowers may seem like a good idea... But what would your friend think about it? Maybe you should just tryin talking to the girl and being there for her.. Be careful how you handle things. Make sure what you do will not interfere with you friendship with either one of them. Good luck. <3
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Thats perfect flowers are a great idea! And drop lil hints here and there. Give her a good 2 weeks and then she'll be ok you can be there to help her get throught it it always works! good luck. <3 American Girl
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Hey sweetie,
Thats soo sweet, you wanna send her flowers. I would feel so much better if that happened to me when I got dumped. I would wait a little while though. She may not be over it. I don't know about her ex...he's your friend. He may still like her. I would still send the flowers. Take things slow, though. Gradually start to hang out more, and then drop hints :)
Hope I helped =)
Pura Morena :)
xo0x adriana
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As Julia said, you might be sacraficing a friendship. You should definately talk to your friend about it first. Say something like, "Hey ____ I have a question. Would you be mad if I went out with ____? I've had feelings for her for a while and I totally understand if you say no. I wont if you dont wan't me to and its totally up to you." good luck! * hope i helped * love alwaiiz, aLi * feedback is greatly appreciated! *
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Make sure you are ready to sacrifice a friendship for something that may not work out. The flower idea is wonderful, you should go with that=)~Julia
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be nice and ask her out but wait and she if shes upset about loseing this guy if she is be her support to help her get over him
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