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how do you ask?
How do you ask a guy out without making it seem like your completly stupid? Like, how do you make it come up in a conversation? because I'm talking to this boy online, and I really like him, and we're awesome friends, and I want to know how he feels about me. How do I do it? None of my friends will do it for me because they say thats "cheating"
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Be brave and ask him. The only thing that could go wrong is him saying no, but from that you'll recover. Believe me I know this from experience. I asked him out, he said no, nad then a month later he asked me out. Good Luck. p.s. It WAS really embaressing, but really worth it for me! ~*AmAnDa*~
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your not going to be stupid if you ask a boy out. just say hey you know i really like you and i was wondering if maybe you wanted to go out with me. he won't think your stupid in fact he may like you even more becaouse maybe he felt the same way and was afraid to do what you did. hope i helped.
**SpAz**
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Ummm...this is really not my kind of thing but I'll try to help. Have you ever tried asking him about his past relationships with anyone. I tried that once for my friend and he started to move closer to her. It might not work for you but it's worth trying.
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You could like casually bring the subject up. Say somthing like "wanna hang out sometime" or you could be like "wanna grab a berger with some of my friends.-~Laura~
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If you're such great friends, just add it into the conversation like a joke. And by then, that can spark up the topic of that and you can really talk it through. And if it's good enough, go for it! Hope it works! Best of luck.
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okay.. well.. i would be like.. " so.. ho0 do you like??" and if he saez you.. or flirts.. then let him knoe you like him too! and then if he doesnt ask you.. be like.. *in a joking wae* omg.. we shuud ho0k up! l0l.. and then be like.. no.. seriously.. l0l.. and yeah.. uhm.. that usually works for me! :)
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Thats not cheating. If you want i can ask him im always doing it for my friends. If you are to nervous. But you could be like hey.. i have a question.. its kinda of hard to ask but i just want to know.. You might find this one a lil wierd to believe but i just asked a guy what he thought of me.. and i said i mean honestly lol it took me forever to hit enter but i did and he like i think of u umm what? wut do u mean wut do i think of u like wut? and i said u no what do u think of me and i got a pretty good answer :) hope i helped!!-trix!
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Might be best if u did anything at all to do it in person than the internet..he might think you were kidding..wouldn't be a good thing to go through haha but i think the best thing to do would be to let him make the move..but of course let it be known ur interested if hes given you signs that he likes you..good luck!
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"i like you would you like to go out with me?" works really really well. seriously the direct approach is usualy the best
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yea dotn have your friends do it, just be honest with him and tell you how you feel about him, you guys probably have alot in common and hes probably just afraid to bring it up too. but just be cool about it be like what are you doing next weekend, would you like to go see a movie or hang out at the mall? thats usually waht my friends say to whoever they want to get with. hope he feels the same to you! x0
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Invite him to go w.you and a bunch of your friends (*assuming you have the same friends..) somewhere (*movies, mall, bowling, hanging out @ someones house...) and be kinda flirty w.him and see what he does..you're w.your friends so it's not like a date, but after hanging out w.him a couple times (*w.other people) and if you think he's into you, then be like "hey do you wanna come over on _____" and see what he says and then after he says whatever he says tell him that it's going to only be you and him there and you have smthn important to tell him, and then when you guys hang out tell him how you feel about him!! Like seriously, you will NEVER kno how he feels unless you tell him first. But hanging out first in a group gives him a chance to really see how you are, bc in school you probably act a little different then how you are in real life. Really, whats the worst that can happen?? If he doesn't like you bak, it'll seem like the end of the world but you'll get over him eventually and it'll be ok. And if he likes you bak, then it'll be really good!! It's not weird for a girl to like a guy...soo go for it and tell him how you feel!
=) HoPe I HeLpEd!
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dont take this the wrong way..but your friends are right. if they ask the guy if he likes you then he would think that you cant do things for yourself..see what i mean. if you ask him if he likes you on your own then he will think that you are confident in yourself and he will like that about you a lot. if he tells you that he does like you then you will feel GREAT and then you'll kno if you want to ask him out or not.
hope i helped
~Sammie~
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just be like, have you ever wondered what would it be like for us to like go out?, just something like that thats not saying like OMG I WANT TO GO OUT WITH YOU, but at the same time hinting that you do or have thought about it. and, i kinda agree with your friends(Sorry!), its way better and way more meaningful if you do it yourself, and if everything works out, then you'll be really glad that thats the way it happend!
lots of love and good luck!
~Haley~
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Well first of all it is not good to date over the internet, But if you really like him then You should start my saying like are you interested in oneline dating then ask "how do you feel about me" Most guys like it when the girl asks them out. But to be sure you should get to know him as best as you can!
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