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i have a friend who has liked this guy for 4 months...she obsesses over him...he is friends with my group of friends and recently i have started talking to him...he is really nice and really hott...i dont want to admit it, but i like him...he told all his friends that he thinks im hot and that he wants to go out with me...i feel bad because this is making my friend pretty mad...i want to go out with him really bad, but i dont want my friend to end up getting hurt... what should i do...
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if your friend is a true friend she will be happy for you. i would sya go for it and jsut be happy and you will soon find out if your friend is there all the way to support you
hope i helped
sam
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Hey Sweetie, First talk to your friend about this.And if she doesn't understand don't date him.No guy is worth losing a friend.But you have to think about her feelings too.Think how she feels!Hope i helpede and it works out! XoXo NiCoLe
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even if she doesn't admit it yeah she probly will end up getting hurt but it's up to you. if going out with him is that important then yeah you should. but your best friend will probly always be there for you. he probly won't. hope i helped. please rate.
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If i were you, i would tell me friend how i feel about this guy that you like him also and u wanna got out with him and hopefully ur friend will understand and get over it..if she doesnt and is like really mad at you then you should apologize and try to make her feel better. This exact same thing happened to me and im going out with the kid right now, i called my friend and talked to her for like 2 hours and she forgave me, and now she likes someone else and we are still good frens! So all you have to do is talk to her
Hope i helped!
~becca~
xoxo
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its not your fault he likes you more than your friend...if your friend doesnt see this and gets pissed at her...screw her she isnt your friend anyways...
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Tell her that you like him and he likes you its not your fault and that your very sorry and im sure that you will find someone perfect for you. I very sorry please dont be mad at me! <3 American Girl
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talk to your friend tell her how u feel tell her you dont want to make her mad but just explain how u feel about both her and him! you shoud have something in common i mean you like the same guy! but be carefull not to hurt her feelings and dont let him get a big head about it!! becareful what you say because no matter how hard you want to you cant take your words back!! *...JeSs...*
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tell your friend that you like him and want to go out with him ask her if she would get mad if you do. if you guyz like each other you should go out you friend will get over it after a while
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I don't think you should go out with him right now. It'll betray your friend. I know it's hard, since you and him really like eachother, but put yourself in your friend's position. You and him could still be really good friends, since it's not her place to tell you who to be friends with. But just don't go out with him. I think you should try to find out if he likes her. There's no point in obsessing over a boy that doesn't like you back. If not, try to get her to move on. Or you can try to explain the situation to her. Tell her it's really hard for you because you really like this boy, and you think he likes you too. But tell her that if she's not cool with it, then you won't go out. Hope i helped!:)
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well, from experience i think you should talk to your friend about this. Maybe she will understand. Give it a shot. Maybe you should hang out with her and him at the same time and see how it goes. : ) </3 stef
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Hey! Thats really cool that the guy you like likes you to! But it sucks that your good friend likes him to....I would suggest talking to her and explaining to her the situation....If that doesnt help then think about it by yourself....Think about what the outcome could be...Like what happens if you and him date and then you and your best friend stop being friends...and then say a few months later he decides he doesnt like you nemore but your friend doesnt care...you made the decision of dating him in the first place so she doesnt wanna be friends with you nemore...nor does she wanna try to work things out....but then again you and him may date for awhile and get married lol....so it could be a win win situation....just think about it....im sure you'll make the right choice. <3 always.....
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This is a tricky situation. I would suggest talking to your friend about it. Tell her how you feel about him and how he feels about you. Tell her that you are attracted to him but you do not want to hurt her. If you value her friendship you will let her make the call. If she doesnt want you two together because of her feelings for him, respect her wishes and explain to the guy why you cannot go out with him. If she does give her blessing you can try going out with him but be careful that you do not flaunt the relationship in front of her. While she might be alright with the two of you dating, to see you two together, being loving and to hear about the relationship would make her uncomfortable. Above all, respect her feelings on this, however she wants it to work out. Best Wishes!
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I really think you should tell your friend how you feel about him. See if she is okay with it and if she isn't then don't go out with him because your friends are more important than any guy and you don't want to lose her. I was in a situation like that before so I know exactly what your going through.
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I think if you went out with him your friend wouldnt take it so well. So for now i would talk with him and hang out with him.Get to know him and get closer...maybe after awhile your friend will calm down over him and eventually..after awhile the two of you could get together. Dont do anything to ruin your frienship though. Meanwhile, I dont see the problem in hanging out with this guy :)
-melissa
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