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13/F
okay. i like this guy alot. We flirt alot, and he gave me his sn once. Well, he has a gf. he gets on every few weeks *almost every girl in school likes him* but he still flirts with me. But, i'm afraid to IM him i get nerve and afriad to emmbarrasse myself! should i? i mean he gave me his sn! and how to I NOT get nerve before i talk to him?!?!?!
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do it! he obviously likes flirting with you weather he likes you or not! plus everyone in the world can like him you just concentrate on yourself! just keep up your flirting and mabey add some more! IM HIM GIRL! if you get embarssed laugh it off a scence of humor is awsome! im sure he will just adore you! lol good luck! *..Jess..*
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just don't be afriad and just talk to him wut if he really liked u and he was planning to tell u online???(good luck)!!
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I think you should talk to him. Keep it cool, make good conversation, for example:
1. music
2. what's going on in school
etc...
Dont let him feel like he's too important either. Trust me that's the one of the biggest mistakes a girl can do. And remember to be yourself! If he's gonna like you he must like you because of who you are. Good luck!
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well take a deep breath. And start of with like a hey and if he doesnt answer or signes of do it again and when he does answer start a small convo. like sup and how r ya and school stinks or wat ever. what i like to do is when i finish talking with him i copy and past it on a letter and send it to my self and read are convo. and see what i did wrong and try to fix it. and when he breaks up with this gf. you can be the friend who helped him im sure he'll be sad after the break up so maybe you can hook up with him. <3 American Girl
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Heh. Sometimes I get nervous before I'm about to IM someone I like, or someone I haven't talked to in awhile. I just type "Hi" and hit the enter key before I can stop myself. I do that when I'm calling people sometimes, too. Like on my cell phone, I dial the number, then before I can stop myself, I hit the send button. I'm always glad I started the conversation.
If you think about it, he gave you his sn because he probably wants to talk to you! You talk - even flirt - with him in real life. The net's easier to talk on! Just be confident that he wants to talk to you.
But I really suggest hitting the enter button before you can hesitate. It works SO well for me. Lol. I hope this helps!
-Siren =)
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He might be just a flirt. So keep that in mind. You might want to ask people if they know if he is a flirt or not. Just say hey then he'll tlak then say whats up? and go from there-trix
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lol i used to be like that, when i liked somebody or was qorried about how things would go id get nervous, Just learn to be yourself and who cares.. i mean like dont be retardid your first time talking to him just more and more open up and things should go god, he obviusly has a thing going for you and wants to talk to you, so stop waiting and go and talk to him!
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You should IM him he gave you his sn because he WANTS to talk to you.SO i say don't be scared and IM him.Be yourself be he gave his sn to YOU not the person you might immatate! So don't be scared to IM him and go for it!hope i helped xoxo NiCoLe
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How would you embarress yourself my IMing him? just do it..if he didnt want you too, he wouldnt have given you his screen name..
Go for it..
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Just when you're totally comfortable, just IM him and be like "hey is this (name)?" and then he`ll say "yeah whos this" then be like "Oh hey its (name), you gave me your sn, wutsup?" and just treat him like any other person. He will be able to tell if your nervous, don't type so fast that it overwhelms him, and don't answer right away, that way it just seems like, chill. I hope I helped. Good luck -Angel
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You should talk to him. He GAVE you his sn. its not like you went around asking and/or searching for it. I would say go for it and talk away lol
hope i helped
sam
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GO for it !!!!
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Sweetie, just IM him. How are you going to embarrass yourself online? Just IM him and say "Hey, it's (your name), what's up" There's nothing embarrassing about that. Besides if you do think you said something out of the ordinary, just tell him you sent him the wrong IM or something. Think before you type something. Hope I helped :)
-Karen
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