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I would like to ask something. My best friend and I experimented and were both girls and were both 13. We kissed each other, felt on each other and kissed each other's neck. As the days go on after we experimented I haven't had any thoughts about other guys. My friend and I act like were a couple or something. When she goes to her dad's house we miss each other more, I want to hug her and never let her go and we talk about experimenting again like it's just a regular thing to do now. Does that mean we like each other or that were lesbians?
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it sounds like your a lesbian. well thats natural talk to your friend about it.
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Greek Ouzo
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Well, one of my bestfriends kissed, went down on each other and shit like that but we was drunk as hell now we joke bout it sometimes...but we dont do it like all the time. But for your situation...u might be lEz or just lonely cuz u dont have a man to do these things with..well hope i helped <3 me
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EW, get a boyfreind plase you are only 13 so calm down
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If you are enjoying doing your 'experiment' it might mean your either turning lesbian or your bi. If you still like guys your bi or maybe if your still interested in guys you just miss not doing things with a guy and your lonely so you dont mind doing it with the same sex. So it might mean you like eachother.
<3 spiCy xo hoTt
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hey hunny * well i don't know exactly what that means, i would say that your young, your naive, and your confused! not lesbian or that you like each other. maybe since you guys 'experimented' you feel like you should do it more often because of the thrill or excitement you got from it. but then again, if you don't think about guys any more and all you think about is her, maybe you do like her. you could also be bi! i guess, you should just keep doing the same thing you've been doing and see where your heart leads you. hope things work out. <3 ex's oh'z *happy new year* <33 Brittany
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your 13 you dont know yet. its just hormones raging in teens!!!
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No you guys may just be bisexual...or bi-curious?
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Yes, it may mean that you are a lesbo, but that isn't bad. You must tell her how you feel about her and then be open to what she has to say. Maybe you guys should have so space from each other and then you will know if you really like her or just as a friend.
~soccrchick~
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First of all ewwwwwww.........! second of all, yea, your definately a lesbo.
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From what you've said, you are Bisexual. If you only like girls, you are a lesbian. There is absolutely nothing wrong with being either. But if you dont like the idea of being either, just confront your friend and tell her that you arent't truely ready to make the switch. *Happy New Year!!* love, Ali *feedback's greatly appreciated!*
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well i think my friend your a lesbian. because my best friend and i have known each other since diapers and we have NEVER "experimented" with each other. My personal thoughts are this is disgusting. but if you like women. that is your personal preference. just please keep it to yourself.
♥ Katie
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I think only you can really answer questions about your sexuality, as it's more to do with how you feel inside then things you've done, and only you can really know how you feel towards your friends and judge whether it is just a strong frienship or you do want something more from your relationship based on sexual feelings as well as friendship.
Talk to your friend about how she's feeling, as although it's fine to experiment in this way with friends, it can lead to somebody getting hurt if one person wants more than the other. If you both want to take things further and explore a romantic relationship, then go for it. This doesn't necessarily make you a lesbian - you could be, or you could be bisexual or just a straight girl experimenting with what feels good. If you aren't sure, don't label yourself yet. Labels are often confusing and restricting, and it's normal to not know where exactly you lie when your young and getting to know yourself. Continue to experiment with your friend if you are both comfortable with this, and see how your feelings develop to both her, other women and other men before you decide whether you are hetrosexual, bisexual or a lesbian. All the best.
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if you have no feelings for guys and just girsl your a lesbian but you like both guys and girls then your bi. your at a yound age and its okay experiment, you have your whole life to be with who ever you want so dont think of anything now, just do what you want to do
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If you have absolutly no feelings for guys whatso ever, then yes. You're a lesbian. If you have some feelings for some guys, you're bisexual. Since you've had so many intimite expierences with your best friend, thats probably why you miss eachother so fiercly. You probably do like her 'that way'.
Megan
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yep u are i consider any girl/guy maken out with the same sex homosexuals so i consider u 2 be one
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well ive kissed friends but it wasnt a big thing.. hun i think if you wanna do these things wit a female and dont think bout guys that you are a lesbian but then again it might be something you enjoy and would like to do.. but if you wanna see if you like it wit guys befor you rep your self as a lesbian i think you should..but if you have feelings for her more then friends.. do something bout it.. like make sure you guys are jus people who mess round hook up wit her.. *~DEZ~*
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You guys may have developed feelings for each other and may have become bisexual but there is nothing wrong with that... but alot of girl experiment with their friends who are also girls and there is nothing wrong with it I did it to...
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It sounds like you may be not to be like mean and its not a bad thing at all..but see what she feels about you tell her how you feel...
good luck
((xO-Kalene-Ox))
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I personally define sexuality by how you see yourself best completed.
If you think you can feel like a more complete, better, happier person if you are with a person of the same gender, then you are homosexual.
I don't think it has to do with the physical attraction involved. For example, when my friend first realized he was gay, he was not at all ready for the male body aspect of it, he simply felt he would be more "complete" with a man and not a woman.
If you do feel this way about her and no longer about other boys, then there is a good chance you are homosexual, or possibly bisexual. But you're a teenager, and many teenagers go through a lot of experimentation and searching for their sexuality, so what you feel now, you may not feel in a year, or two years, or whenever.
Just do what feels best.
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well u could be just curious because most ppl are at this age...but if you actually care about her as a girlfriend then id say yah you might be.
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from the sounds of it that would tell me yes you seem like lesbians, but mabey your just not usto doing things if you really wanna find out do somthing with a guy and decide what you like more then if you like them both the same your bisexual! good luck with that!:) *..Jess..*
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