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i wrote this question befor but i left out somethings. I'm like a tomboy and boys think of me as one of the guys. One of my best friends is the guy i like. People say he likes me. My friends that are girls say he likes. they say they can tell. i cant they say im not girly anough to like a boy. People pick on me about it and some are my crushes good friends. im cunfused can anyone help me.
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hey if u get on with this guy then why shouldnt you go for it, it doesn't matter what you are ( e.g tomboy) you are obviously interested in the same things and because of that you are probably a bigger turn on for this guy than your other girly girl friends. hope i helped. x
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ummm just ask him its hard i use to be like that but now im like a girly tomboy but boys still confuse me
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sometimes being intrested in the same things as guys is a good thing!! alot of guys want things in common w/ the girl they like! if it bothers you that much try changing for a while just go really girly for just one day see if you like it or mabey just do more girly things! you dont have to change who you are just experment and if you dont like it who cares what everyone else thinks! good luck!! *..Jess..*
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Who cares it is awesome to be one of the guys, and I used to like one of my best guy friends but he didn't like me as more than a friend. Also don't worry about what other people think, and if they are your chrushes good friends and they are guys chances are they are just messing with ya because they think of you as one of the guys.
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don't listen to the people who pick on you. don't worry. i am a tomboy too *WE ROCK!!* anyway, i get picked on too. i think that its normal for people who see someone that is different to tease the other person. it's not cool, or fun, but you can know that you're not the only one who has that issue its ok. tell a close friend (girl or guy, it doesn't matter, take your pick) about the guy that you like. in fact, you can tell all of your friends (except maybe the guy that you like) about your crush. it will help you feel better about it when more people know about it. you might feel better about it if you only tell your closest friend. thats ok too. i think that "confused" is the most awesome emotion lol seriously though, its ok. yeah, i know people (girls) who say that they can tell if a guy likes a girl, but i think that the best way to know is to ask. then you know for sure. get a close friend to ask for you. or ask yourself, it depends on what is more comferatable for you. or, if you are cool with just not knowing, then don't ask. if the guy likes you, he'll make himself known and maybe ask you out. i don't know how to "tell" if a guy likes someone. i don't want to know, 'cause that would only cause problems in the long run. just ask. and it's ok to feel confused, i guess it's normal when you like someone... or (like me sometimes) the only emotion you have is confused lol for no reason at all... i think that the best way to get over it is to tell his best friend how you feel and tell your best friend in the whole world how you feel. or, tell everyone in the world!! hope you get "un-confused" soon, and hope it helps and it all works out!!
-FunnyCide
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Hey Hun. Maybe you should try to find out your friend's feelings. (The one you like) Maybe even suggest going on a date. No strings attached, just to see how it would work out with both of you. If you two like it maybe it could turn into something a little more serious. I hope all works out for you, but remember every person is an island and can be an island, you don't need someone else to make your life significant. The right person will come long eventually. You need a few wrong ones to really appreciate the right one. Good luck! <3
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