i am a 16 yr old male ..and i am not exactally what one would call a "smooth man" i am sort of attractive (at least i think) but to the question... i am never confident around girls that i think are pretty...and i think it is due to a lack of self-confidence that have come with bein made fun of by my friends over the years... and i was just wondering what sort of advice you could give me to help me in gaining some self-confidence around women especially new ones that i think are pretty
thanx
JessClendening answered Wednesday December 29 2004, 5:51 pm: well from a girls point of view, a guy with low self confidance isent a terible thing! whatever you do just dont pitty yourself and dont suck up just be yourself no girl wants a show off and no girl wants someone who thinks hes the skum of the earth! when your talking to a girl just talk like you were talking to a guy friend of yours, pretty gurls are the same as ugly girls we all feel the same about guys so just be yourself and if somthing goes wrong or you get embarssed just laugh it off!!! a scnece of humor is a good thing to have, expecually when your in a tight situation! [ JessClendening's advice column | Ask JessClendening A Question ]
jamziix16 answered Friday December 3 2004, 8:43 pm: just go up and talk to a girl! be nice, but don't suck up too much. if they reject you, it's not the end of the world.. you just gotta get back out there! don't listen to your friends if they rip on you.. i'm sure they aren't that great either! hope i helped :o) [ jamziix16's advice column | Ask jamziix16 A Question ]
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