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ok the other night i was at a party/sleepover and me and my friend got dared (for 10$ each) to make out with each other. we did it because we figured it wasnt a big deal and we were getting ten dollars each. but then everyone started taking turns doing it and i ended up doing it at least three times. im not lesbian or bisexual but i feel like what i did makes me one now. not that its a bad thing but its just not what i want to be. does what i did make me a lesbian? i dont know what to think about myself anymore.
please help!
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it doesnt mean that you are bysexual it was a dare and u were geting payedunless u liked kissing other girls than maybe your are
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of course it doesnt make you a lesbian... lesbian is where you dont want to be a with a male in a relationship (only friendship) but instead you want to be with a female.. for the part where you dont know what to think about yourself, I would call yourself an idiot.. because if someon caught wind of this.. some male who knew you or something.. it can get out of hand and rumours start forming and you are officially known as a lesbian.. even if you arent.. so you just gotta hope noone finds out ;)
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Well it didnt make you a lesbian but it was a lesbian thing. But its nothing that can turn you into one. Only if you liked it then you could be bi. Which i doubt you are-trix
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Hun,
that does not make u lesbian...IM me sometime I have a question...
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Just doing a certain thing doesn't MAKE you a lesbian, it's a person's choice to be a lesbian or straight or gay or whatever. So unless, you CHOOSE to be a lesbian, you're not. But just remember that next time you do something like that, people might start spreading rumors, just make sure it's something you can deal with.
SaRaH:)
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of course not! just becuase you kissed your friend that doesnt make you a lesbian. a lesbian is someone who has a relationship with another girl, you dont have a relationship, it was just a dare, but make sure your friend knows that you dont have a relationship. lol = ) goOd luck!
write me back telling me how it goesz!
<33 AnGeL*
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if u enjoyed it you are a lesbian but if you didn't then don't worry about it. i know many girls that have made out with each other as a dare. dont worry.
♥ Katie
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Your sexuality is about how you feel, not what you do. If you are male and attracted to men but force yourself to date women to conform to society's norms, you're still homosexual inside, and that's really what matters. In this case, you've induldged in kissing other girls, but as you don't feel that way inside, it's just kissing, and doesn't have to mean anything more than that. You aren't a bisexual or a lesbian unless you are attracted to other women. Don't worry about it.
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Your not a lesbian! Just because you made out with a gril doesnt mean you became something your not! dont worry about it
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No, it does not make you a lesbian. It does, however, make you permiscous and look rather dumb. Do you not bother to think when things like this come up?
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Okay. I have a boyfriend, and I've done that at parties before. You're not a lesbian, no worries.
Megan
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you making out wit a girl doesnt make you gay.. you was jus goofying off.. and having fun.. i make out wit my friends sometimes.. jus to be goofy but dont think of yourself as somebody bad or nasty or something alot of girls do it..*~DEZ~*
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well same thing happened to me.. we all just were at a party and made out with eachother.. if you know you were doing it to experiment then thats what you were doing but if you actually feel bisexual or a lesbian than thats who you are.. but if you dont know just think about it.. dont regret doing any thing ......... good luck
-Kaydee
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No it doesnt make you one!! You were just experimenting...You may be bisexual though
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No you are not a lesbian. You were just having fun and being a daredevil. Don't be worried because just because you do something far from your personality doesn't mae you any different. It may make you a better open person for it. Just don't do any drugs or do things that might emotionally and physically hurt you or other people in the end.
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NO it deffintly doesnt i was dared that once before to and i felt soo grose after wards i mean if you felt grose afterwards then you are deff not a lebian if u kinda enjoyed it u may be and being a lesbian isnt a bad thing...but i dont think you are one!! good luck
((xO-Kalene-Ox))
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