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Should I or should I not??
I just moved back to my hometown, and I've seen all my old friends. One in particular, my "best" friend as she said, thinks that we're still "best" friends. She said to me before.." get on with your life...", and " you dont like rap". It seems like shes trying to mold me into the "perfect" best friend. I love any kinds of music. How can I stop her from controlling me? And to tell her we aren't friends anymore?? 15 F same as her.
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Why cant you be frIends anymore? just becuase you moved dosentmean you can still have freinds there.. stp being so negative geez
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Just tell her. Try writing a note, IM, or email, if you don't want to tell her face to face. No one has the right to control you. Everyone is different and unique and she shouldn't be trying to change you. Good luck!
Happy New Year!
♥ Erin
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Well, if you're having trouble with her be honest, spill it out. Tell her how you feel. And, if you feel you two aren't friends anymore, just tell her, if you really feel that way, it shouldn't be hard.
-Chish
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Well sense you did move back i would give everybodi a second chance. everybody deserves a second chance. I mean i would of course talk to her about it and let her know things change exspeacially when you move.. HAPPY NEW YEAR!! trix plz rate me!
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Just be honest with her, tell her everything that you have stated in this question. She may get mad because she sounds like person that will but not all friendships last. Don't let her change you. You are you and no one has the right to try to make them perfect in their eyes. We are only perfect for us. I believe that to be true.
Luck and hope.
AG
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be honest. tell her that time has changed and that you aren't close anymore. its best to be frank. don't let her control you or your life!!
**_Nicole_**
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Well hun it seems like you have a control friend on your hands. I had friend like that and we just ended up not being friends anymore because i had to drop her. Sooner or later if you don't do anything about it she's going to be worse. You will feel like a puppet dancing for her and you can't even breathe for yourself. She's going to make you try to forget who you are and what you can accomplish also make you feel low with low self esteem for yourself. So go up to her in person tell her how you feel and command her her to hit the road if she can't handle the way you play ball or the way you are inside. If she doesn't get the message tell her to get her own puppet and leave you the hell alone to at least breathe. ~MegaQueen~
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Be like "Look i dont how your controlling me around! You need to stop your making the friendship of ours father apart. I dont know now if i still want to be your frien." she will apogijized or w/e and hope fully you can save your friendship
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