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i just met this boy and hes 18 and hes wicked gorgeous and nice and he let me borrow his cd and im gona be burning cds for him and possibly chillen with him sometime..but the thing is i like him, alot and i cant get him off my mind..but he has a girlfriend. and i dont wanna do anything with him even though i was gonna make a move on him the 1st time i met him..but then i thought, if i was his g.f and another girl macked up on my boy..and i found out, how i would be hurten so i didnt do anything..but i just cant forget about him aand how i didnt do anything to show him how i feel..yeah i told him but idk..do you think i did the right thing by controling my urges and just tlken to him?
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yeah you did
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yeah you did the right thing because you could've
started a war between yall.
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Yes! Your heart was definitely in the right place when you thought about how his gf would've felt if she knew about it. Just keeping resisting the urge, and when/if he breaks up with her, then you can make a move, but right now, just let it go. Good luck!
Happy New Year!
♥ Erin
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It is perfectly okay to like a guy that has a girlfriend. Yes you made the perfect choice by not making a move on him. Just be friends with him. You have alot of sence to think about the GF alot of people just don't think of the consequence before they act. You did and you probably avoided a nice little mess.
So just keep controling those urges and who knows, perhaps his BFF will be even better. ;}
Luck
AG
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Ya you definitely did the right thing by "controling ur urges and just talkin to him" b/c, like you said, if you were his gf, you would b really mad and upset and he might've not...taken it the right way if u kno what i mean. & who knows? maybe one day he'll be single and remember how mature you acted about all this and you definitely have a better shot with him that way!:)
~*~Sarah~*~
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if he has a girlfriend, then it is best that you let him be. you can hang out with him, but its not the best idea to try and hook up or tell him exactly how you feel until they break up or until he expresses those same feelings.
**_Nicole_**
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yea dont do anything with him until they break up u dont want to cause any trouble hun, its okay to really like this boy, but since hes 18 you can get him into trouble and you get also get him into trouble by his girlfriend, just wait! =) HAPPY NEW YEAR !! rate me hun! x0 Ren!
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Tell him how you feel. Also tell him that you're not trying to ruin anything between him and his girl you would just like to be able to get to know him better. It's probably not the best advice you've got so far. But if it helps any, than I am happy for you. Good luck babes!
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