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Ok so i really dont understand this, im really nice and funny and everything like serioussly. Its not fair that all of these snobby girls have guys like drooling over them. I dont think im pretty and you'll probably say that i am and blah but how do i get guys to like me? I mean, i talk to guys like all the time and its just stupid that they dont see how much of a nice person i am...
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maybe you should say what you just said in your question to some guy. just go up to him and say "why cant you see how nice of a person i am?? why are you so damn superficial!?!?!?! cant you focus on something more than a girls looks?!?!?!??!?!?!?" and maybe you should CRY.. that would be the icing on the cake, it would. then they will know that you mean business, that you really want to be known as the "nice girl".
oh, and kudos to you for wanting to wait on having a boyfriend.. way to take the Road Less Traveled. good luck to ya ~*stefnie
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if you dont want a boyfriend til you are older then why do you care if they like you..? just wondering...
<3 Jen
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I understand exactly what your going through because i'm goin through the same thing.The thing you have play hard 2 get.It works trust me!And there is problem some1 u dont even expect that likes you.Just wait 4 the boys to come 2 u.The reason the boys go 2 the snobby girls isnt bc there perfect,its bc the snobby girls make it like they dont need any of the boys!
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I understand perfectly but no matter what dont change yourself just to get a boyfriend. Stay the nice funny person you and eventually the right guy will come alonge..it may not be today or tomarrow but he will come someday. Dont try to rush things dont think that if a girl has a boyfriend she has something you dont its just that a guy sees something they like in every girl..the right guy will come. xOx tory <3
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really the best advice would be just keep on being yourself along the way the guy will see what an idiot he is for not liking you! just be yourself!
((x o ♥ Michelle))
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I can answer this. Me being a guy. Guys really are dumb. You just got to talk to them and get one of them to bite your hook. Not all guys go for looks. You've just got to find one who doesn't. Hope I helped
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yeah you probably are pretty but the guys might think your one of the guys. like the girl that he could tell them who they like and the girl that he could tell them there girl problems. so maybe try to be more of the girls friends and not the guys as much
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all those snoby girls wont ahve any guys once guys start realiseing what bitches they are so relax and give it time
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i know how you feel!! there's all the popular snobs girls with their little handbags and name brand clothes, and they seem to get whatever they want. the guys will grow up and begin to realize that there's more to a person than what they are currently seeing. for now all you can do is try to get to know people and flirt and be yourself.
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Boys are stupid, especially at the age you're in. They are nothing but raging hormones and peer pressure. They like you fine, but you are not the prize they are looking for. One of the greatest and worst things about being plain but a wonderful person is that it truely takes a young man, not some boy to see your worth. The boys around you have not matured enough to know what matters in a relationship. They would rather have you as a friend and date some chick the other boys are panting after. For most a relationship is the last thing on their minds. Pure sex drive and not looking like they are attracted to someone besides the cool girls are the goals of most boys your age. I hate to tell you, but it is the rare boy who matures enough to give a girl the proper respect and caring she needs until about 2nd year college. Before that most of them are a waste of time and effort. Good Luck!
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Your still young. So i wouldnt worry about it to much. I mean you just gotta be flirty. Some guys are just always mean. Dont always look to the right of you and pick the guys on the right. Look to the left of you and look there for awhile. What im saying is meet new people and you'll see how nice they are. Maybe they think the same you think. Hope I helped-rate please-trixx
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same here but i am 14. dont change for guys though. just be yourself and if they dont notice something they like about you oh well. you'll find someone.
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theyll come to you , dont worry hun i bet your gorgeous ! those stupid stuck up snobs only get guys because they try to dangle all their name brand clothes in their faces like - for christmas ill get you whatever you want . i bet 1/2 of those girls are just trying to show off ! dont make them like you , they should like you for who you are =)
hope i helped
-;- jessie xo
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ok, well, you kinda sound like me, only i dont care if i have a boyfriend or not. there isnt really a way to get guys to like you, other than being yourself. i am shy around guys, but maybe you're not. the "snobby girls" that you speak of probably wear clothes that have no space between the material and their skin - TOO MUCH INFORMATION!!!!!!! guys are naturally attracted to girls like that. some people call them sluts. i call them desperate idiots. whichever you choose, dont be like the desperate idiots. you will end up in a situation that is dangerous for you. you might even end up pregnant. those snobby girls are desperate and think that they need to love someone and be loved. what they need is Christ. Christ doesnt leave you or forsake you. He will never dump you for a "prettier, smarter, better.." or whatever, He loves you. believe me, i had to learn that too. i dont need the human affection 'cause i have Christ's affection. sure, one day i will have a "Prince Charming", but not until God thinks that i am ready. i am waiting for Gods plan. you probably are a very nice person, i dont doubt that. i also dont doubt that you are pretty too. i dont think that anyone thinks that they look nice. ever. thats normal i guess... just wait for Gods plan of action. let Him write your love story. dont worry. your prince will come, all in good time. God has a very special young man for you that will make your heart sing.
-FunnyCide
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i used to have that problem but i don't anymore. just flirt with them and stuff like that. i go to a private school and there is a really big snob there, except she's a slut, and all the guys hate her. just don't act like those sluts and snobs and act like yourself, but flirt with them more. how i got my bf was really weird. for some reason i started to like him. and he wasn't excactly the most popular guy, while i would call myself popular. when i started paying more attention to him and less to other guys, and it turned out he liked me too. so that's how i got a guy. so keep your options open and flirt with the guys. but don't act like a snob or a slut. i know you've this a million times before, but just be yourself. they'll eventually except you for the good person you are. i hope i helped! please rate!
~*~((HAPPY*HOLIDAYS))~*~
>>*~*{eMiLy}*~*
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you're right, it is stupid. and i know what you're goin' through. you just gotta be patient. i mean, the right guy'll come along and see how great you are. cuz if they can't see how great you are, then they're not even worth it. hope i helped!
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Hey hunny,
I have the SAME EXACT problem. My friends say that they are too immature to see what a great person I am, or that they are too shy to talk to me. It might be true, but I'm waiting, I found out that if you don't rush your fate the best things will come to you. I went out with a guy recently, he found me because I wasn't looking for a guy. When your not looking, a guy will find you, trust me, I've seen it happen so many times. So the best thing is to wait, someone will come along, I promise you :)
Hope I helped and I do hope someone will find you. You can send me a question at any time, I'm here for you, hun. :)
Pura Morena
xo0x adriana
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ya gotta show them wut u got! flirt with them.. show them how nice you are.. if a "snobby girl" says sumthin to u.. jus stick up for yourself and people will start to respect you *hope i helped* love alwaiiz, aLi *feedback is greatly appreciated!*
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