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Question Posted Monday December 27 2004, 12:57 pm

i am going to the movies with my boyfriend. i was wondering if i should make a move on him? should i kiss him? Im new at this so i dont know what i should do. my friends are coming along too and i dont know if i should make a move because they are also there. would it be weird if i did make a move? please help!

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americangirl101 answered Wednesday December 29 2004, 1:00 am:
Hey I think you should let him make the move but if you dont feel confortable dont do it im sure he'll ask you to the movies again. watch the movie see what happens and well late him dicide. Rember you dont have to do anything you dont want to. Hope I helped. <3 American Girl

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krazyk427 answered Wednesday December 29 2004, 12:06 am:
usally i think guys are suposta make the move but if u want to just do it and have no regrets and if he backs away then thats not ur fault its his because hes loosing out;)

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XoCuTiPyOx93 answered Tuesday December 28 2004, 12:45 am:
Well I think you should do what you feel. If you like him so much that you are even considering it then you should. If you are doing this to fit in then you should not because you wouldnt be ready. I hope I help you!

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soccurboi4 answered Tuesday December 28 2004, 12:08 am:
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BrokenHeartedLoser answered Monday December 27 2004, 9:39 pm:
No i dont think it would be weird at all, but i do think that you should be cofterable with making a move and make sure that your boyfriend is as well. It is always hard making the first move becuase you are not really sure if your partner wants to do the same and it is probably more harder on girls making the first move becuase i think that guys should. But you should do whatever makes you happy and dont fource anything upon yourself and think you have to do it becuase you dont. xOx Tory <3

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funkyfresh answered Monday December 27 2004, 8:51 pm:
you should make a move on him if u are ready! it wouldnt be wierd just random if you guys arent ready for it!
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grape answered Monday December 27 2004, 7:43 pm:
no it wouldn't be weird and just move in a diff. spot then your friends im pretty sure they understand and if its your b-day then u better get that gift that u wanted.:good luck:hope i helped:please rate:stop by my inbox:GRAPE:

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xo_marissa answered Monday December 27 2004, 5:44 pm:
Yes it might be a little weird to make a move while all of your friends are there, but if you two get some time alone, definetly go for it. Guy's think it's hot when girls make the first move.
Good luck!
<3 Marissa

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iggyl27 answered Monday December 27 2004, 5:26 pm:
your going to watch a movie so it wouldnt b bad to make a move. because your friends are going to be watching the movie not you. hope i helped!!

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AdInA answered Monday December 27 2004, 4:59 pm:
it wouldn't be weird, but i think you should wait for him to make the first move. don't plan on making the first move.. just let it naturally happen. or as i said, you can let him make the first move.

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Chriso61o answered Monday December 27 2004, 4:45 pm:
why dont you and your bf sit like away from your friends or somthing ...you shoudlnt be afraid to make the first move somtimes guys like that and if he doesnt than hes a pussy so take contorl

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DrAnqel answered Monday December 27 2004, 3:32 pm:
It wouldnt be weird, it would almost be expected. . . go for it . hOpe i helped -Angel

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bAhAmAmA0250 answered Monday December 27 2004, 2:31 pm:
Uhh i would be a lil wierded out making a move w/my bf w/my friends there. I woulndt. Maybe he might feel wierd to cuz they arent his friends they are yours. I would wait until its just you guys-trix-please rate

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xShOrTiEx answered Monday December 27 2004, 2:24 pm:
dont make the move!!! that is the guys job. dont worry about your friends

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FunnyCide answered Monday December 27 2004, 1:32 pm:
it would be weird if you "made a move". you are a girl, and hes a guy. the guy should always make the first move. he should ask you out, open your door, be the one to kiss you. not you kiss him, open his door, or ask him out. it would be weird also 'cause your friends are there too. let him make the first move, if he kisses you, so be it. if not, dont worry about it. you have all of your life to wait.
-FunnyCide

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Sparky answered Monday December 27 2004, 1:27 pm:
Do what ever makes you feel comfotable at the time. The whole friends thing can sometimes make the situation not right and you both may feel akward if you kiss him. If the situtation comes up go for it, a kiss at the movies is always nice

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ShrtJumpr123 answered Monday December 27 2004, 1:27 pm:
i think u should let him make the first move, especialy sience your friends will be there!! now if they wern't then u might, but let him make the move first!!!

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icey0990 answered Monday December 27 2004, 1:19 pm:
If it were me, I wouldnt want to do that if my friends would be around. I'd want it to be when we were alone. If there is an opportunity though, i would take it. Like if you and your bf decide to sit in back for the commercials or something..and then go and sit by your friends after..then thats a good opportunity to do it. Instead maybe just hold his hand or cuddle next to him during the movie. That shouldnt be too weird with your friends around. have fun
-melissa

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crimsontidebabe answered Monday December 27 2004, 1:17 pm:
if you dont want to make a move dont. youll know when you want to kiss him, youll have a feeling inside of you and youll no. but dont make a move because you want to show out in front of your friends.

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cRaZyInLoVe6748 answered Monday December 27 2004, 1:17 pm:
i wouldn't do it while all youre friends are there. maybe hold his hand or give him a kiss on the cheek. i hope i helped!
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jbdreamer answered Monday December 27 2004, 1:06 pm:
I wouldn't do too much while your friends are there, that would make them uncomfortable, as well as the other people in the theater. I would maybe just try holding his hand, or put a hand on his knee. Maybe just a little kiss on the cheek.

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