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What is my problem?!
I don't know whats wrong with me. I've been with my boyfriend for about two years now. I really do love him, and I know he loves me even more. But lately I've felt like things are just kinda drifting between the two of us. Like- it's not how it used to be. I feel like a jerk too because when I ask him if he's been feeling different lately- he always says no and that he never would ever think of breaking it off with me. Then I feel stupid for thinking things aren't working out. I know I love him, he's the cutest guy ever and he treats me pretty good. I am happy with him, but then why am I feeling like something isn't right? Am I just thinking too much or what!? Please, whats my problem?!
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Obviously if you have been with him for 2 years you guys must have a pretty strong relationhship, maybe you are feeling like he is to good for you and you think he can better than you but you still want him to stay with you..i wouldnt worry about the feeling you are feeling now becuase if you love him and he loves you things will get better. xOx Tory
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You are just getting bored with the relationship. Try to make things a little more interesting. Like try new and exciting things that neither of you have done be 4. And I am not talking sexual,(unless you feel like that could help.)
WELL GOODLUCK!!!!!!!
NATALIE
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i think it might be becasue you guys have been goig out so long that your thinking of where this going...and maybe the best thing is to talk to him and tell how you feel.
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you might just be getting bored of the relationship. but if you love him as much as you say you do then try doing something you've never done before. you don't want to wreck a good relationship. i hope i helped! please rate!
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After the first several months, relationships dont have that "wonderful feeling" anymore. Some excitement is lost, and its all natural. I mean, look at your parents...some parents still have it going strong..but usually they dont make out everyday, wreslte in the snow,..the beginning stuff. But thats not what a relationship is all about..its a natural process. If your happy with him and you have feelings for him still..stay with him. Do something spontaneous one night..like have a romantic dinner or blindfold him and give him a few kisses ;)
-melissa
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wow! i am going through the same thing right now! though my relationship is just a little shorter than yours. Ive talked to a lot of people about this and most people have said that its that youre falling for this guy... i think you may be insecure about yourself and are afraid to really believe how much you like him and so you are looking for faults in the relationship to save yourself from getting hurt. But i think you can never get into a relationship without getting hurt... happiness always leads to sorrow, you just have to find the happiness that is worth it... as long as this is true you shouldnt worry about it, just concentrate on making it great while you can
Hope this helped! <3 marissa
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yall arent just at the top peak of yalls realationship right now yall dont have that spark like yall used to yall need to go somewhere alone together an dwork things out. hope i helped
and happy new year 2005
(((indeed2)))
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You know.. i've been with my guy for like.. a year and a half now, and things aren't going to be the same.. i know how you feel though.. like after 5 months, you don't feel the same when you kiss him.. you don't get as excited to see him as you used to.. or when he holds your hand or something of that nature.. but the truth is.. is that, it's all in the begining.. all those feelings are amazing, but they're only there because this is a new person.. a new feeling.. somebody new. and i realized that.. so thats my advice.. don't break it off because you don't feel the butterflies anymore.. because if you chase after those feelings you'll end up losing them.. you'll end up being with lots of guys because you needed to find that person who can keep you feeling like that.. but no ones perfect. my best advice.. do things for him, like things you haven't done before.. and just think about his eyes.. or the way that he looks at you, before you go to sleep.. it gives me really good feelings.. just think about the good things.. and be happy to have someone in your life, because it's hard to find someone that is good for you.
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Well hun I am gonna give this a shot; once again the rock/ hard place thing comed in you have to look at it like this I am assuming you are young and so is he there is something called growing apart wether individuals like to believe it or not I am not telling you to go off and break up with him but you have to seriously think and say to yourself is this what i want 2 years is a long time but it isnt an eternity we arent in the 20's where you married your first love and had 42 babies you have all the time in the world, if need be tell him you need a break and see what else is out there, you will either realize that you want him or you need to look some more and it will be hard and it will make you cry but you dont want to sell your self short, this is your lif you have to look out for your best intrest, not try to save someone elses feelings. if you have anymore questions just ask. also hun this is a part of growing up, it will all be ok.
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Wow i have that problem to sometimes. I guess its just a normal feeling. Maybe a break is needed. I worked through that though i told him i was actually thinking about taking a break and he grabbed me by my shoulders and said what?! im sorry! and i was like no no its not your fault i love you but.. i dont know i got some wierd random feelings but then later that i night i called him and told him i didnt have that thought anymore. It was actually a thought of mine for like 2 months.. I think you may be thinking to much! Rate me please! *t*r*i*x*
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